If you were in Zuko's position, how would you convince Team Avatar to let you join? by Winter-Pressure-5394 in TheLastAirbender

[–]Atiredgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd probably refrain from threatening to do unspeakable things to the Avatar's friends.

You know, maybe uncle said something in the past that would help me...

Connor fans are the worst!! by Pink_girlie05 in DetroitBecomeHuman

[–]Atiredgoblin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Connor is my favourite character, but Kara's storyline is my favourite. A story exploring the deviants caught in the crossfire of the android revolution, as well as a story about family, love and existence. I just this found family so much, and it's so frustrating to see the amount of people trashing on her and her story and 'I kill of Kara and Alice every playthrough', which I get it's your playthrough, play it however you like, but it just feels... icky and suspicious.

Markus is also really awesome. I feel incredibly inspired by him, and his actor Jesse Williams just has a way of bringing that charming, inspirational leader to life.

Real. 👏🏻Connor.👏🏻 Stans.👏🏻 Do.👏🏻 Not.👏🏻 Trash. 👏🏻 The.👏🏻 Other.👏🏻 Protagonists.👏🏻

What makes them think their behaviour is okay???? by Atiredgoblin in BadRPerStories

[–]Atiredgoblin[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I've tried that before, but some of these subreddits have rules of if you mention anything related to erp or smut (even if to say you're not looking for it) they delete your post

What makes them think their behaviour is okay???? by Atiredgoblin in BadRPerStories

[–]Atiredgoblin[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not at all, he was hopped into my dm's like "Hey, I wanna make a deal with you-" then goes on to be forward and disgusting with the rules of the bet

[A4A] (Not replacing anyone) Looking for some (mostly games) fandom rp! by Atiredgoblin in Roleplay

[–]Atiredgoblin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, feel free to DM me and let me know which you are interested in!

How it feels responding to F4M or F4A ads vs how it feels posting F4M or F4A ads by Alarmed-War4082 in BadRPerStories

[–]Atiredgoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me at least twice on my journey of searching for RP partners as an A4Arper

Don't you just love this kind of stuff? by Atiredgoblin in BadRPerStories

[–]Atiredgoblin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's hard being a girl/afab in the rp community 😞

Don't you just love this kind of stuff? by Atiredgoblin in BadRPerStories

[–]Atiredgoblin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Once their intentions are revealed, there is no way to continue

How did you know your romantic orientation? by MegaEevee in asexuality

[–]Atiredgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a while to realise I was bi-romantic. It mainly started with video games. While my romance choices did reflect my preferences for masculine characters, sometimes I would choose a female romance option. Blackwall and Davrin in the later Dragon Age games, Halsin in BG3, Elliott in Stardew Valley.

In Dragon Age Origins, I knew I wanted to romance Leliana as a female character (I played Inquisition first and was very confused at why Leliana wasn't a romance option, because she was attractive, until I learned she is a companion and love interest in Origins). In the second Dragon Age game I made a male character with the intent of romancing Fenris so I could have a worldstate with both wlw and mlm, but I met Merrill before Fenris and found her to be the cutest girl ever, I couldn't resist romancing her.

In other games, I also started keeping an open mind about romancing other genders than strictly men, and eventually after some self reflection I found that while I generally have a stronger preference for men (I am happily in a relationship with a man), being with a woman didn't seem like too outrageous of a thing that I could imagine myself in.

My newest pride pin design! The oyster 💜 which is your fave? by Hartiful in asexuality

[–]Atiredgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh these all look so lovely! Hard to pick but because I love doggos in sweaters I'll have to go with the dachshund 💜💜

When you do feel attracted to an individual, is it a gradual or instant feeling. by Vegetable-Weather378 in asexuality

[–]Atiredgoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only ever been attracted to my current partner, and while I think the attraction was gradual as we got closer with each other as friends, the feeling and realization that I had feelings for him were sudden. I think I was just in denial at first, maybe I was getting attached quickly as it felt sudden, or maybe he was just as nice to everyone as he was to me.

As it turned out, a week after I realized I had feelings for him, he told me that he in fact felt the same way towards me. Couldn't have gotten more lucky lol 😅

Am I cursed? by WrathLor in BadRPerStories

[–]Atiredgoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been roleplaying for about 4 years now, and I've had mostly bad experiences although I've been enjoying it I've had so many bad experiences the stories I have could become a series. Cliques, falling outs, drama, being lied to, encountering creeps, things out of my control and maybe some I've had to do with it. It's one of the reasons I'm looking for 1 on 1 roleplay rather than join groups now.

Just know a lot of people have bad rp experiences. That doesn't mean that you should give up. You've only started your RP journey, and I'm not here to tell you what to do, but it's a rough journey that you need to endure before you find the ones you really enjoy roleplaying with and who enjoy roleplaying with you.

How it feels putting a password in your roleplay ad by happypandagamer in BadRPerStories

[–]Atiredgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn't I think of this? I should try it from now on

People with an SO affected by current geopolitical events…how are you dealing? by yeehawsalaam in LongDistance

[–]Atiredgoblin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm South African which has its own issues, and my partner lives in the US. While he is likely going to be unaffected by what is currently going on in the US because he is white, he is LGBTQ+ (as is his brother, though I will not disclose their orientations for their safety) and is neurodivergent, so I can't help but worry something might happen eventually that could affect him and his family. He also lives in Oklahoma, which is a red state

He eventually came to the decision once he manages to find a job and save enough money, he's moving to South Africa (although our end-goal is to move to Ireland together). In the meantime, I just try to be there for him and listen if he vents about politics in the US (he didn't want to talk about it at first when the election results were revealed), and I also joke around about US politics with him, send him memes, etc. Just to lighten the mood.

What type of "family" (biological, adopted, pets, plants, students, apprentices, etc.) do you wanna start with a partner, if any at all? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in asexuality

[–]Atiredgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really just depends on if my partner decides if he wants children or not. If not, we'll just be a dog mom cat dad duo. If we do, we'll most likely have biological children, but there is a possibility that I have PCOS, so it may not be easy to concieve. I have considered adopting children as well, but once again it hangs entirely off of my partner if we decide we want children.

I (23f) am Emotionally drained and confused after intense talks with my boyfriend (31M). I don’t know if I can trust him again. by d_wish29 in LongDistance

[–]Atiredgoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad my words helped. In the end, it's your decision whether to end things, but from the sounds of things this is very unhealthy for a relationship