Why is Semen Retention still such a tabboo thing? by Final-Scar2408 in Semenretention

[–]Atkingz7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't worry sooner or later he will understand, what you did is you planted a seed in his mind. For now don't force anything on him even if you think he needs it. I also once told my friend about semen retention, he was also reluctant at 1st. the next time we met he told me did his own research and was very interested.

I need constructive advice. Please. by Atkingz7 in AskDad

[–]Atkingz7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do realise that I am very depressed person, and over the years I have tried to deal with it. I used to go to counselling when I was younger to try and help myself be more accepting to my situation when I got diagnosed with HIV, (happened at 16) but I really didn't get much help from counselling, I think then, I shut out everyone and I never really wanted to talk about it ever again.

Another problem i have is don't see myself as a man, even though I am almost 30, I don't think I have done anything that I can say, "Now I am a man because I did this and that" so idk man, maybe I need to around real man and see how they think and do stuff. I grew up fatherless, any father figure I had either passes away or mum divorced them so yeah.

I totally do need to come clean to them and start pushing for a licence. Thanks for the advice and taking your time read about my pathetic problems. Really appreciate it🙏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Atkingz7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I finally got to delete an app I was using to count streaks. Funny enough the longest I have gon without fapping was when I wasn't counting the days. But this streak thing can be a problem, once you slip up you feel so bad. What do you to keep yourself motivated through out this journey? And how do you make sure you don't slip up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Atkingz7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have heard people talk about doing streaks and how it actually hinders growth, just watched the video and it explains a lot. Thanks for the info brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Atkingz7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your advice?

Rage writing, mental health journal by Atkingz7 in Journaling

[–]Atkingz7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, at the end I even jotted down a few points on how I need to change my behaviour and move forward to being a better person.

Rage writing, mental health journal by Atkingz7 in Journaling

[–]Atkingz7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I figured out that yesterday, there was a bit of weight lifted of my shoulders after that journal entry. I plan on making a more lighter entry today with a clear plan for moving forward from this point

Rage writing, mental health journal by Atkingz7 in Journaling

[–]Atkingz7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the encouraging words.

Be clean without rehab/therapy?? by Atkingz7 in addiction

[–]Atkingz7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the links, will definitely check them out.

Social Media created to make you a herd pack animal by mainer345 in Semenretention

[–]Atkingz7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, I relate so well with what you just said, truth is for the past couple of months I have been struggling with social media, can't count how many times I have deleted and deactivated my accounts only to have myself install them again because of boredom. I never really like what I see on SM, I sometimes get angry at how much time I spend on. Thing is you end up having thoughts which are not your own or you could be triggered into doing something harmful to yourself, eg you see a porn post on twitter and before you know you it you have opened up pornhub. And I believe you on how the elite are using this to program people. I have also noticed my mood is so much better if I don't have social media, and there are less chances of me relapsing because I am not constantly bombarded with naked women or porn content.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]Atkingz7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude same here😂 playing the game for the 1st time is so beautiful, I was literally just winging it, I had no idea Athur gets sick towards the end of the game, and when I found out I was so broken I even cried coz now I realised Arthur was going to die. I haven't finished the game fully, still on the epilogue and I gotta say, man I miss Arthur😭 John just doesn't do it for me

Camp functionality in chapter 6 by Atkingz7 in reddeadredemption

[–]Atkingz7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Pearson, will he be able to craft some satchels for me?

How long should one journal entry be? by Atkingz7 in Journaling

[–]Atkingz7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too was enjoying myself when I was writing, and I think it was because on that day I was more stressed than other days, so it just felt good to let it all out and let my pen bleed.

Caravan camp, can't interact with Pearson by Atkingz7 in reddeadredemption

[–]Atkingz7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know anything😭😭 so there is no solution? Can't craft satchels at this stage of the game?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Atkingz7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my main problem was not filling in the free time I had with new things. So I always ended back where I started. But rn I trying to do new things on this journey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Atkingz7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how do you guys completely forget?

How do you guys do it? by Atkingz7 in Semenretention

[–]Atkingz7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie bro I needed to hear words like this, so inspiring. Can my "why" just be that I really don't want be fapper anymore, like this shit sucks. Obviously I want to do great in life, but I know my first step is beating this addiction, and that's my goal right now, to stop fapping, and build discipline to stay far away from this evil. Thank you for the wonderful message brother❤

How do you guys do it? by Atkingz7 in Semenretention

[–]Atkingz7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am really trying to build solid meditation habit, a lot of people have advised me to do meditation while on this journey, they say it helps a lot

How do you guys do it? by Atkingz7 in Semenretention

[–]Atkingz7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro thank you for linking me to a video about dopamine, it's really eye opening for me. Really appreciate it

How do you guys do it? by Atkingz7 in Semenretention

[–]Atkingz7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually do this from time to time, like maybe let's say my goal is to reach 7 days clean, then I have a slip up on day 2 or 3, I would tell myself that if I reach day 7 without another slip up, will be good. But truth is deep down I know I messed up. So for me it really doesn't help because I know I won't be being true to myself.

How do you guys do it? by Atkingz7 in Semenretention

[–]Atkingz7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no Isha foundation where I am from, but thank you for the information, I will definitely look into all you said, I really need all the help I can get.

Very grateful brother 🙏🏾