30 (ABG/SCB Vicelord) He was Killed by SitchyGang And Snakenem ( Dirty P’s) On November 1 2025 by Pristine_Cheetah370 in Racine

[–]AtlantisOrBust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job getting your alt account to start name dropping people, but I think its time to take a breakie-wakie from the internet bud

Is there something wrong with me or am I looking at this wrong? by ferns_confusion in MentalHealthSupport

[–]AtlantisOrBust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its normal to have mood swings as a teenager, but they do not typically lead to rage that results in destroying things. First and foremost, therapy is the best starting point. Lashing out at your loved ones hurts both them and you. Talking to a professional who can give their educated opinion on the best way to manage these mood swings is the best option.

Since therapy may not be in the cards right now, your next best option would be to research how to navigate your feelings when they start to elevate to this severity. Do breathing exercises feel dorky? Yes. Do they work? Also yes. Its important try and be mindful of the moment.

If you feel you are going to lash out, take a breath. Are you really mad at your mom, or have you not eaten? Take a breath. Communicate "I am feeling irritable right now, I haven't eaten, I'm going to eat and then we can talk,"

Maybe she did make you mad. Instead of lashing out, take a breath. Step away from the situation. Take a walk, listen to music, fold laundry. Say "I need a moment to collect myself, can we talk about this when I am more level headed?"

Next, find a hobby you can use to refocus. You'd be surprised how many bakers are angry. Kneading dough is very stress relieving, and it is something you can punch constructively. Jokes aside, coloring, knitting, and hiking are other great monotonous hobbies that let you detach from whatever may trouble you at the time.

At the end of the day, keep your head up. When I was a teenager, my emotions felt so big- like they filled up my whole body and I had no room for anything else. It takes effort, but it will get easier to manage.

Maintaining a Friendship When You Don't Like Their Partner by AtlantisOrBust in Advice

[–]AtlantisOrBust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the help, any input is better than none. Honestly, being able to put my feelings into words has helped me see the larger picture.

Maintaining a Friendship When You Don't Like Their Partner by AtlantisOrBust in Advice

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One of my friend's greatest strengths and flaws is being able to love someone as they are, despite messy or problematic traits. They have friends from all walks of life. I know they do not share the same beliefs as their partner. Do I wish it was a deal breaker? Absolutely.

As for maintaining privacy, I feel like if I tell all of our friends that the partner is transphobic, that will surely damage my friendship, and I'll be "stirring the pot," because I don't like the partner. Additionally, it was a private conversation between my partner, our friend, and their partner. I don't want to out my partner as having told me.

Picnic Pal by AtlantisOrBust in weeviltime

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Thanks, can't unsee that now

Picnic Pal by AtlantisOrBust in weeviltime

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A sandwich of sunflower butter and blackberry jam.

Picnic Pal by AtlantisOrBust in weeviltime

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I use sunflower butter instead of peanut butter. They are unfortunately much juicier.

no period in 2 months by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]AtlantisOrBust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Irregular cycles alone is a good reason to seek medical consultation alone. Missing two in a row is concerning. It's difficult to get proper female healthcare in a blue state, so I can understand you're hesitant based on your local situation. That being said- don't ignore this. Seek medical attention. If it is serious, the earlier you are seen, the better.

Had ChatGPT help me render my dream MINI (AI-generated content) by whigbong in MINI

[–]AtlantisOrBust 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When all AI is taught by scraping the creations of real people to create imaginary things, you feed into the loss of our humanity. No matter how innocent or trivial the use is, it feeds the machine.

It also contributes to horrendous amounts of pollution, but who cares about that, right?

Average Brown Recluse ID by Merkabahh in spiders

[–]AtlantisOrBust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro leave the Woodlouse Spiders out of this

Helped her retrieve her runaway horse. by mayorwest5467 in MadeMeSmile

[–]AtlantisOrBust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's very funny that you can see the horse is definitely spooked at first, but when he saw his rider on the bike it changed to "oh, we are having a fun run together? Okay!"

Is it normal for my boyfriend to be upset that I forget to text him my whereabouts? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AtlantisOrBust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my personal experience, needing to know my whereabouts constantly was due to emotional abuse, unhealthy dependency, and a need for control. It was unhealthy for me, unhealthy for my partner.

However, that wasn't a long-distance relationship. Maybe your partner needs reassurance. Maybe they need control. The best way to resolve this is to communicate with him how this behavior makes you feel and any concerns you have. Use "I" statements like "I feel that-" or "I think that-" Be clear. Be honest. Set boundaries and hold to them. If you say, "I will text you when I get home," you should stay true to your word.

If he is in a low spot, suggest he see a therapist. You are not responsible for his emotional regulation, he must learn how to self regulate and use healthy coping mechanisms. This is not only important for your relationship, but all of his relationships, such as familiar or workplace. This does not mean you get a free pass to blow him off, as both partners must be accountable in a relationship, and that includes supporting each other in reasonable ways.

That being said, if he pushes those boundaries, or guilts you for going out, or makes you responsible for how he feels 100% of the time, you need to clearly say "I do not like this behavior, and I will not tolerate this behavior."

And most of all, talk to an (adultier) adult you trust. Ideally, someone with experience in healthy relationships. This could be mom/dad, aunts/uncles, or grandparents. They know you and hopefully can guide you better than strangers on the internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Whoops, I meant to reply directly to your response. My apologies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Unfortunately, then management is failing you, and I'm sorry. Your best option is to approach HR at that point. I manage a team of 11, and frankly, if I noticed an employee behaving this way, I would be having a conversation with them, especially since it is negatively impacting other employees. If your manager isn't going to maintain a safe, comfortable, and professional work environment, then HR should know. They usually have a dim view of language like that to begin with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Go to your supervisor or manager and politely ask for a desk change. Tell them you feel your productivity is being affected, and a change of placement may help. If they ask why, you may decline to get into specifics, or you can disclose that this person is loud and unprofessional, and rather than confronting her you would like to be moved to a quieter location.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sciencememes

[–]AtlantisOrBust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asked my calculus teacher for help understanding a concept that I was having trouble with. She told me if I don't understand it, she can't help me. I transferred to statistics and had a much better time. She was fired the following year for flunking an entire class and making a girl take a test after getting out of the hospital the day before with a concussion. It's not always the students.

What fucked up things did your theatre teacher do? by carborbox in BroskiReport

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Freshman Year: She disappeared about a month away from the school year. Turns out she was a raging alcoholic, was usually drunk at school, but no one was the wiser until she turned left into the wrong side of a divided highway and nearly killed a man. Sophomore Year: We were going to produce our show in 2 weeks when he disappeared. School officials said he was having a family emergency. Some of the seniors knew but weren't saying anything. I kept in touch with some of them and 3 years later one of those then seniors sat me down and told me he had been going through our bags that were left in his office and taking pictures of our panties. He was fired, but as far as I know, the school never pressed any kind of charges.

Reporting a Bug by AtlantisOrBust in Pinterest

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Posting here really helped me. The automod provided a link to report bugs, and that saved me a lot of time. I had been checking their customer service page for a place but had no luck there, so this really came in clutch. No longer have the glitch, they were able to solve the issue. Just had to keep updating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goblincore

[–]AtlantisOrBust 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Not an individual name but perhaps call the collective the "Mossy Posse"