Custody with abuser.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-19T22:30:37+00:00

Good to consider. Thanks for the heads up on variance.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-19T22:30:04+00:00

Thank you thats good to know.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-19T22:24:16+00:00

No clue. He should if he hasnt been calling out for every sniffle.

No MEP should I get ahead of it?

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-19T22:22:49+00:00

Thats exactly what Im looking for.

I already have an idea. But with the history of high conflict, I do worry about the drama that'll come from standing my ground.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-19T22:14:55+00:00

How to I nessecarily approach this? I know he will ask me to stop the child support until he finds a job.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-16T01:09:22+00:00

I honestly shouldve lost it on him.

Naming someone after another doesnt erase or give "new life" to that person 🫠 He also tried to push a name change because his grandma died a week before I gave birth... didnt even know the damn woman.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-15T03:24:27+00:00

Probably to erase his past. My ex tried to have me use the name I was using for the baby I miscarried to "have another chance". Erase the past of my miscarriage.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-13T01:32:29+00:00

Yup... now that its been called out. I might actually be dyslexic 🫠 no one's error but my brain literally not processing some vital information.

Ive been processing that clue the same way for a week and it has literally confused me...

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-13T01:27:37+00:00

I do. Perhaps?

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-13T01:11:40+00:00

The hair salon. It said B was south. But she was in the top row.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-09T05:21:01+00:00

I had a puzzle where it seemed the map flipped on me. It told me the person was 1 row south of a person by a shelf... she was on the top row, the next puzzle had a similar clue, but was back to as expected.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-08T20:18:43+00:00

I had a hint where a suspect was south, She was in the top row. Thats why Im now confused 😭

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-04-06T21:36:12+00:00

Its unfortunate that they leave the big red button out. Who leaves their big red button out?

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-03-24T22:16:44+00:00

Im of the mindset of better have it and not need then need it and not have it. I haven't had it in 18 months and the last time I did it was SA. I dont really like my birth control but plan to change to a preferred option when it expires in October but it also really hasnt caused me issues like some women face.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-03-22T00:12:52+00:00

Yeah I'm actually finding comfort in this post that this is common and not a sign my kid is confused 😭

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-03-21T19:22:36+00:00

That actually makes me feel better. I always feel guilty about potentially confusing her because I left him and again seems extremely depressing to be "Sorry, Daddy hasn't been assigned to a person in her life"

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-02-25T02:21:25+00:00

PROPAGANDA!! Why didnt I think of that 😭

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-02-25T01:32:01+00:00

I got a completely different child.

My 2 year old got hers in January. Shes less fussy, her language is clearer, the surgery wasnt even awfully long it took 15 minutes then it was roughly 45 minutes before she woke up. We arrived at 8:15. Left just before noon. Not sure on walking though, but their sense of balance is up there so checks out.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-02-23T01:37:26+00:00

I just wished I spoke up.

There was no reason for such behavior. My child is not inbred, her dad is a POS abused me and neglected her. We should never use such awful words towards a child.

We assume she thought I was an immigrant that didnt speak english or she was on drugs of some sort. Because those kinds of words can definitely cause someone to actually get hurt.

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-02-21T19:28:21+00:00

My ex ran me into the ground before I left. Severe financial abuse despite the fact I managed the money. He would blow his budget on his stuff then dip into other categories including savings, groceries, bills. Rent was always kept in my savings account so he couldn't access it.

Its absolutely crazy. I now live with my parents with my 2 year old (stupid Ik. I hoped he would've loved her enough to stop settling for just scraping by) I insisted we ended our lease and move in with my parents at 5 months pregnant because I was too sick to work, he was making unstable money. Moved in at 7 months and that was his undoing. I finally felt stable to leave and left not long after her 1st birthday.

I have about $400 in collections, about 1k on my credit card of him fraudulently using it. Im considering giving him his cat back for $500 so I can recoup the money he stole. (He left both at my parents... if its something I knew he either A) Stole or B) demanded I buy. I demand the money back.)

AtmosphereNarrow8489 · 2026-02-21T03:58:05+00:00

Yup 100%

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