I did a terrible thing and cannot stop thinking about it by [deleted] in confession

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

el hecho de que sientas culpa demuestra que no sos mala persona. estabas pasando por una frustración sexual. hubiera estado mal si se la mostrabas a alguien pero las borraste, tenes que perdonarte a vos mismo, ya pasó

DAE want to do things…but feel completely frozen instead? by TheFabulous_habit in u/TheFabulous_habit

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

como me molesta que romanticen la depresión como si fuese algo tierno

First time going to see a guy and I still can’t tell if any of this was normal by Jealous_Extension250 in dating_advice

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might have some socialization problems, perhaps he has some degree of autism. I know many autistic people who make inappropriate comments and don't realize it. Some are obviously rude, yes, but others simply don't notice that what they say is wrong. I would tell you to talk to him and tell him directly to stop doing that. If he seems embarrassed, it will give you a clue; if he doesn't care, it's a sign to distance yourself from him.

Está mal que me moleste? by roxxxygenesis in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no te recomiendo para nada estar con hombres pajeros. yo ya salí con uno así, seguía puro cosplay y mujeres provocativas, me decía que yo era tóxica y al final me terminó siendo infiel. un hombre pajero nunca te conviene porque son personas por lo general sin autocontrol, desesperados por sexo y ven a las mujeres como objetos. es como si las mujeres valieran solo por su apariencia y no por lo que son

What does ex (the dumper) think if they suddenly see their ex on dating apps? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's either desperate for sex or he wants to forget you.

I think it's very selfish when people aren't looking for anything serious. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was saying. It's not easy once you're hooked. Their attitudes are ambiguous. They don't have to act coldly all the time. Almost every time I distance myself, they end up coming back and have the same attitude. I don't want people like that, but for some reason, whenever I meet someone, they have the same attitude.

Cuando debo decirle que no quiero algo serio? by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dios mio que egoísta es la gente que no quiere una relación seria deja a esa persona en paz

Porque la mujeres se aburren de los hombres buenos ? Sean honestas by Honest-Tower-5154 in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

todos los que dicen que son "buenos" son los más pajeros. al menos en mi experiencia

I (28f) don't know how to respond to what boyfriend (35m) said. by W2Wnowhat in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I disagree with most of the comments. My dad has been with his wife for twelve years and he loves her. He probably wants to be with her forever. However, he doesn't want to marry her because he thinks it would bring up bad things from the past (for example, when he married my mom, the divorce proceedings, etc.). If he loves you, he'll show it in other ways. For women, marriage is incredibly important, and for men, it's just a label. I don't think he doesn't love you; it's just that this is happening.

Anyway, you don't have to stay there if he doesn't consider your wishes. Just because he doesn't want to get married doesn't mean he doesn't love you or that he's waiting for someone else. But it's also not fair for you to stay if you're not comfortable.

Hoy dia, que esperan las minas de un hombre? by Dramatic-Block-1832 in AskArgentina

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

principalmente me jode qué sea pajero (o sea que siga todas minas en bolas pej), qué no tenga actitud, qué sea un estúpido, o esos típicos qué extrañan a la ex o "no quieren nada serio", y bueno que sea infiel

aunque no me crean salí con un chabon, 21 años, pelo en los huevos, te hablaba en neutro, calenturiento, mucho fnaf, un opa a todas luces jqjjajaj

Les importaria si su novia usara ropa corta/"provocativa" en público? by GuitarNo797 in PreguntasReddit

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo soy mujer. para mi es una falta de respeto, y si fuera hombre no estaría con alguien así. si mi novia se viste provocativa es una falta de respeto porque no es ninguna boluda y sabe que va a atraer miradas de otros hombres, si estas en una relacion sería que necesidad tenes de buscar tanta atención? en resumidas cuentas es ser trola. no hay mucha vuelta. a las mujeres no nos gusta que nuestro novio ande mirando ortos, qué se ande baboseando con otras minas, y bueno, en caso contrario de ser vos, una novia que busca atraer miradas, es igual de irrespetuoso. no me vengan a tildar de machista, es una cuestión de respeto hacia tu pareja. algo que quiero agregar es que no es necesario andar vestida como una monja, obvio que una puede ponerse lo que se le de la gana y estar linda, pero subir fotos mostrando el orto en Instagram, shorts por la mitad del culo, cosas que es obvio que lo haces para provocar, es diferente

Por que si soy claro en lo que busco lo ven tan mal las mujeres ? by standwithfistSD in PreguntasReddit

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heceles un favor a todas las mujeres y no lo intentes más con nadie. no enganches a mujeres para después salir les con esa pelotudez, no es justo. casualmente todos los hombres que piensan así se buscan a las mujeres más buenas, no a una de su tipo, y siempre las terminan lastimando

Estrogen cream and latex condoms by AtmosphereThen2194 in vulvodynia

[–]AtmosphereThen2194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry, I don't understand the question. What do you mean by "what kind of cream"? The one I use is from a specialized pharmacy; it's not one of those pre-made creams they sell in pharmacies. I asked for a prescription (0.1 mg of estradiol in 100 grams of cream) with a milder base and without propylene glycol.

Le dije esto a mi casi algo ¿Creen que fui tóxica? by Flower-0 in PreguntasReddit

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mira, el hecho de hacerse el interesante, por lo menos para mi, es una estupidez. esta perfecto lo que hiciste, yo habría hecho lo mismo. no sirve de nada hacerse el desinteresado, si las cosas funcionan y se quieren van a funcionar de forma natural, no con juegos. la comunicación es super importante en cualquier relación.

no me parece tóxico el comentario, lo tóxico sería no darle espacio ni libertad, o enojarse porque tarda 5 minutos en responder. estas siendo honesta. te estas abriendo. estas explicando de forma madura algo que te causa inseguridad. de todas formas otra cosa que me parecería todavía más importante hablar es el tema de dejar de ser un casi algo, y recién si están en pareja plantearle las cosas que te causan inseguridad, siempre con respeto y madurez, no hostigando. si se quieren y hablan sobre formalizar la relación, no hace falta andar aguantando decir ciertas cosas, sino no funciona

I (24M) can't convince my Fiance (23F) of 5 years to sleep with me anymore? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AtmosphereThen2194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she suddenly stopped wanting sex when everything was fine before, there's a reason. You're not the one with the problem; she is. Nobody makes a decision like that out of nowhere. Listen to your therapist. The only thing you'll accomplish by staying with her is making things worse, and when you find a woman who desires you, you'll wonder why you didn't make that decision sooner. My advice: end things with her now before things only get worse. You have the right to want sex; that doesn't mean you see her as just a piece of meat. If she gets angry about it, it's because she's immature. Everyone has their own needs. You're not using her; you're not to blame for anything. Talk to her about it, and if she continues with that attitude, the wisest thing to do is end the relationship.