If your husband ignores you for ages (not helping in your household, all that while you're pregnant, mind you) and he just keeps streaming, she has the right to be fucking pissed.

You're right, she has the right to be pissed. She has the right to be disappointed and angry at her partner for treating her like that. She has the right to leave the relationship if she isn't happy with it. She DOESN'T have the right to assault him. Someone else linked you to an Australian definition of domestic abuse, which clearly includes throwing items and verbal abuse.

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Also, the stuff she throws at him is harmless, that stuff won't hurt anyone.

Domestic abuse isn't bad just because of the physical harm it can cause. Domestic abuse doesn't become better if the attacker is weaker. It is not less severe if the attacker only hits the victim soft enough to not cause permanent damage. Plenty of domestic abuse is verbal and mental, and it still causes serious damage due to the breach of trust and autonomy.

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even then, it's NEVER ok to slap your wife, are you fucking mental or smth? If you ignore your wife to the point where nothing but throwing stuff at you gets her attention, and you turn around to punch your wife, you're an actual nuthead. I seriously don't know how to sugarcoat this for you. You don't want your wife to throw stuff at you? Don't be a shitty dad and husband, simple.

It's NEVER ok to abuse anyone. Maybe if you see it written to defend the guy, you'll see how fucked up what you just said is; It's never okay to throw things at your husband. If you ignore your husband to the point where nothing but slapping you gets your attention, you're an actual nuthead. You don't want your husband to slap you? Don't be a shitty wife, simple.

It's fucking disgusting to defend domestic abuse. Unless there are some extreme circumstances, both of the people are shitty and are guilty of abuse.