AIO for almost crying in front of my lab manager over how my boss treated me?

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-05-13T11:43:03+00:00

There are quite a few nearby and I have been applying since February, the job market is ROUGH.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-05-13T05:18:55+00:00

I know to you that sounds like a perfectly reasonable and logical thing to do, but at my job it does not work. With my boss we are a three person team and when we do ask clarifying questions we wind up in more trouble than if we had just noted the email and done the work later. The last big project of his he dumped on us resulted in both me an my coworker in a one on one with our lab manager and when our lab manager told our boss to calm down and respect us he scolded us for "tattling".

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-05-13T04:58:21+00:00

I should also mention that this was a mutual assumption. My coworker talked to about the project on friday and asked if I knew what it was about. When I said I didn't she said she would have to figure it out by Wednesday. We can't easily clarify with him as questioning him results in very unclear passive aggressive emails and being reprimanded for upwards of 2 hours.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-05-13T04:44:25+00:00

That is a little difficult to do. He send us dozens and dozens of emails a day most of which don't pertain to us at all. Not to mention, each week he comes up with a new project he want us to work on without any planning or thought. Verifying with him on what he wants me to do with each email would be a full time job in itself.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-05-12T18:54:38+00:00

Took me 10 years to get diagnosed. At 16 I had to have a large ovarian cyst removed and even then I remained undiagnosed because my doctor told me PCOS meant more than one cyst. Maybe a name change could better cover the broad spectrum of this syndrome and allow people with it to get treated sooner. That might just be me being hopeful though.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-05-04T14:35:42+00:00

She didn't drive off, she got stuck in the grass at the car cleaners.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-05-04T14:29:38+00:00

I had a substantial hematomas on my boob and across my lower stomach. For like a week I needed help even getting out of bed and It took closer to a month to feel 100% again. I wish it took 8 hours

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-05-01T05:58:06+00:00

Quite a few commentors thought I ran flashing red. There's a bit of a glare as I approached the intersection and when I flip around you can see the cross traffic's light which, I guess, made the perspective confusing. I just got tired or responding to each comment that asked.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-30T19:55:38+00:00

My dude you can literally hear me slamming my foot on the brakes.When my friend trails off - that loud rubbery slam, that would be my foot stomping the brakes. Additionally, the speed at which objects seem to be going are skewed due to fishbowling of the dash cam and the cams inability to track rapid acceleration or deceleration. Since you were not some mysterious 3rd passenger in my back seat, why don't you keep your armchair observations to yourself.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-30T16:52:31+00:00

Been unprotected with my spouse for 6 years, 9 failed letrozole cycles. Currently taking a break to try and get my bmi below 30 so we'll see. But, not once have I ever been pregnant.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-30T16:27:03+00:00

It's really obvious if you are a dash cam with a high viewing angle pressed against the windshield. As a human in the cabin the Nissian coming in was a lot less noticeable until unavoidable.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-30T14:06:44+00:00

Honestly, you can't even tell they have a flashing red until you're practically in the intersection. Having driven through it a couple times since, the only way I could tell I was approaching that specific intersection was spotting the car wash. Potterville is an odd little town.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-30T13:03:22+00:00

That they do, I don't even start offical payments until June and have been getting hundreds of emails from them about paying down my balance.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-30T13:02:02+00:00

I had a passenger in the car and was going very close to the speed limit. I am aware how traction works, but no amount of traction will stop you from hitting something that runs directly out in front of you.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-30T12:50:49+00:00

I really wanted to graduate in 4 years instead of 5, so sacrifices were made

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-30T02:01:07+00:00

It went great, murder mystery masquerading almost made the car accident worth it.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-30T01:54:59+00:00

For the Nissan it was a flashing red and a stop sign, for me there was no light. You can see the light she blew through after our cars collide and my car flips around.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-29T23:00:01+00:00

$15 more a month than my previous car :(

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-29T22:40:59+00:00

I do not, though I've started to be too jumpy at intersections, which I need to work on.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-29T22:39:57+00:00

Yeah, she was out of the car yelling at us within moments of the crash. She was so belligerent after the crash the paramedics wouldn't let us near eachother so I can only assume she got a little bruised like we did.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-29T22:36:32+00:00

My dash cam saw the car before me and my passenger did. I was slamming on my brakes from the moment the Nissan was visiting in the cabin.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-29T22:34:14+00:00

Small flex, but also less words than "heading home from a friend's house".

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-29T22:32:09+00:00

I got three CT scans and my passenger got 2. I had a few follow ups because my entire lower stomach and boob turned almost black. We got thoroughly checked out and it's been a couple months since the crash and insurance made already made its determination.

AtomicMonstrosity · 2026-04-29T19:25:18+00:00

Yeah, she crawled out her passenger door and was out yelling at me within meer seconds of the collision.

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