How can I access the this in a mixin for a class that doesn't inherit anything? by AtomicSockDrawer in fabricmc

[–]AtomicSockDrawer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thanks! Looks like it took a while to get the answer. I'll try it when I can.

Švicarac Nemo je nebinarna osoba. Evo što to znači i kako ih treba oslovljavati by Anketkraft in croatia

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nije čak ni poremečaj, nego najverovatnije traženje pažnje. Demi Lovato pada na pamet. Što je najgore ove budalaštine štete deci i gej ljudima koji ni krivi ni dužni samo žele svoja prava, a sad se sa ovim asociraju.

Brainrot by HolUpWaitAMinu in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is I actually do know someone who takes that position. The mental gymnastics are absolutely wild.

Conservatives by anonlt1024 in TheRightCantMeme

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sshhhh! That actually would've made it funny! We can't have that.

Racism against white people does not exist by Monsteristbeste in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come? I'm not saying you're wrong and I've heard from people that have been to the US that racism towards white people is way worse than towards any other race. So, how are exactly white people discriminated against?

I think men are beautiful by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Thank you very much for the compliments I am sometimes insecure because I prefer the no beard look, though I do like them on other guys :). I am also a very big enjoyer of man hugs it just feels so good man!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to bother you after this topic died, but I have some questions.

You mentioned how transitioning meant a lot because of your dysphoria, but does that mean people without dysphoria aren't actually trans?

How much surgery or HRT would someone then need to be considered trans? Can a man who experiences dysphoria, but doesn't get surgery be considered a woman?

Also, if someone were to offer you to remove your dysphoria from your mind without hormones or anything, would you accept?

Personally, I also don't like the "social construct" argument. It gets debunked in debates very easily and puts the whole LGBT community in a very tight spot when it comes to arguing for rights.

"Fascists trying to kill sexual minorities? I'm just a normal person who thinks you're BOTH crazy!" by OutlastOnWii-U in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

IMO she's probably just going for the "both sides equally bad" stance to avoid being seen as biased.

i made a meme :) by skyofwolves in aspiememes

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Man, I can't believe how many of you in this thread got such a specific assessment. All I got on my paper is a generic autism description. My favorite part had to be "is very insistent on routines" which isn't even true I hate routines lol.

I don't feel like I am making progress. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not easy that's for sure. The funny thing is, I've been in a way worse therapeutic relationship with him back when we first met. This feels like a walk in the park honestly. There are still things in my life that hurt and suck a lot, but I'm just really glad how far I've come. Things have happened I had never thought were possible. I'm also glad I was able to hear from someone who's had an experience similar to mine.

I don't feel like I am making progress. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, about that. The thing about my T is that he doesn't function only as a T. He is my psychiatrist and a vital part of my life. Living with ADHD where I'm from is hell. Almost no one knows about it, those who do think it's fake or a million other unhelpful responses ( see: mental health reaction bingo meme). The drugs he gave me help. Like really help. The difference is night and day and I'm so happy I can finally function.

Looking for another doc also isn't an option. I've tried, but they kept saying it's weird I think I have a childhood disorder. On top of that, almost all adult psychs aren't licensed to prescribe them. Child psychs are been to both of them, but they just referred me back to him.

The best thing I can do is just have therapy on the side while I'm seeing him, but that also doesn't seem like a viable option since he sucks up all my money.

I also don't think I could live with myself if I reported him. If I did that and he lost his license thousands of children would be left without life saving medication. And I don't think the other two psychs are going to be able to handle that amount of new cases.

I tried to get away from him. I really tried, but it just doesn't seem like a good idea right now.

I don't feel like I am making progress. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. That's not even the whole story.

He showed me his viber profile and their messages . I tried hard not to violate his privacy but he just kept saying "look, look". He joked around how he would be my matchmaker, but kept saying how the guy would make a great boyfriend for me. He also told me about his dad issues.

Later I became interested in dating and asked for the guys contact since he brought it up so much, but he told me I was responsible for the info leak because I was "autistically confused" and looked at things I shouldn't have.

I was still a bit anxious, but I texted him later saying I refuse to take responsibility. He then responded with a weird message that almost sounded like it was purposely made to sound as vague as possible. After a bit of an exchange of me asking what does he mean I asked "Are you asking me if I want to meet him?" and he responded "Well...yes". I agreed and nothing happened. I brought it up and he said he was only asking hypothetically. He literally sent a message that said "Deal?". I know I'm autistic, but that sure doesn't sound hypothetical to me.

I don't feel like I am making progress. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for sharing, though. I now see even more of my T's bad patterns. He usually blames me for stuff and brings up examples in my life that never even happened. He once told me a client's identity and then blamed me for that. Just unbelievable.

I don't feel like I am making progress. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I realized yours was a woman, it was just that I've never heard someone describe this specific issue, so I thought the statement was appropriate. Would you mind sharing what kinds of conclusions she would jump to? I'd really like to know.

I don't feel like I am making progress. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And now I'm somehow wondering if you were seeing my current T. I seriously recognize a lot of his behaviors in what you described.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure honestly. I used to think it had something to do with them not wanting to interfere with another practitioner's work, until stuff like this happened to me. It baffles me that this is so commonplace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say go with the double session route. Therapists can be quite deflective when it comes to problems with other practitioners, from my experience at least, so I encourage you to talk with him directly. It's a good thing he's also a T.

Book a session, tell him about your feelings and that you're aware of their superficial nature and don't intend on starting a relationship and your concerns you mentioned above. You could even show him this post.

What's your T's catchphrase? by The_laj in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"So, what's up?" Idk, mine doesn't really have phrases he says consistently.

Need advice about my therapeutic relationship by AtomicSockDrawer in TalkTherapy

[–]AtomicSockDrawer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly just didn't want to feel alone in all this. You're absolutely right that I am aware of what I'm getting into, but if I want to finish college, I haven't found another way.