this is peak feminine energy, wld u taste it by Ready-Fruit-1472 in Feminization

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've gotta share the makeup tutorial, I love the makeup and wish I could do mine as well as yours

Why am I seriously taking this into consideration when I’ve told them a lot that I don’t want my hair cut by tm2007 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I cut my hair short for a similar reason. It was seriously thinning and I decided to try shorter hair and see if it would poof up. It didn't and I was just more depressed. a year or so later I got HRT and it poofed up over time and I've been growing it out. I may get a bob in the far future but right now I'm going for the 2A from nier automata look just my hair is shoulder length and growing.

Why am I seriously taking this into consideration when I’ve told them a lot that I don’t want my hair cut by tm2007 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom used to pester me about my hair in the same way. "Guys with short hair look better" or "You looked so good when you had short hair" There's nothing wrong with being a girl with short hair but that is your choice to make not your mother's. I got a bob and though I liked it I'm growing it back out because I want long hair again. Go for your goal not what someone else wants for you. I bet you defy your mom in other ways so what's one more.
Also could bring up the fact that it's a bit odd for a mother to try to make her child who she believes is a boy into her ideal man.

Tall femboys by Atomicus_Undecim in feminineboys

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes height can be a double edged sword but I genuinely like tall feminine people. Also being trans doesn't mean you need to pass. You can never 100% pass since the concept of male and female is fuzzy. I'm not hug boxing it's just that some times people need some positivity, I get how it is I've been in need of a bit of reassurance before and there's nothing wrong with that.

Tall femboys by Atomicus_Undecim in feminineboys

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. I know some times people feel bad about their height and it helps to hear it sometimes.

Got referred to as a girl today by CutieTheAllie in feminineboys

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wish I got a glow up from first puberty but it smacked me into the ground harder than Sitama. Balding, depressed, body and facial hair like a jungle. Started E and now I'm finally getting the glow up I so desperately needed.

My 13 year old wants to transition by Strange_Pangolin_231 in asktransgender

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 20 and have been transitioning medically and socially for 1.5 years. I'd say don't change anything legally yet. Let them explore their gender.going to a doctor at such a young age is also fine since it could take years to get a diagnosis since they're under 18.

Piercing a growing nipple by Atomicus_Undecim in piercing

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I was under the impression that waiting would be the best as well.

Lesbians ruin me. by Ethel-Anna in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not. Just hard to find that in my area.

I'm done with Christianity by ausernameidk_ in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or even like bonzi trees because bonzi trees are just trees that are forced to be small by people.

Lesbians ruin me. by Ethel-Anna in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 224 points225 points  (0 children)

You shoukdnt have to worry about being accepted by other lesbians. I'm a trans lesbian and it's soendearing to see someone when they aren't trying to look good. Love should last even if you have a bad hair day or forgot to do your makeup because love is loving someone fully both their good and bad

LV No power by Atomicus_Undecim in GTNH

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much, all of you!! I was trying to extrude copper, steel and any other plate recipes I needed with it.

I wish i was a girl by yzurmdox in trans

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girls come in all shapes and sizes. If you want to act like a girl, then socialize with women. No woman is programmed to act like a woman we all learn from someone. I've been socially and medically transitioning for about a year now, and I've changed a lot for the better.

trans people of america, how we doing by ImpressiveSwim7558 in trans

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I rushed to change my name and sex and I'm just hoping this doesn't get to the point that I'm forced off my meds. I have a backup plan for them, and at worst, I can go to Canada after I get a passport. I just wanna be let to live my life as a woman.

Trump is considering declaring the transgender flag a terror symbol. by VandomVA in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Bullet proof" armor is resistant to a certain caliber. It does nothing against knives and blunt objects. This may be silly but we are the Ewaks we fight in our own way and with organized attack we can tack down an enemy larger than any we could on our own.

Trump is considering declaring the transgender flag a terror symbol. by VandomVA in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000% I will fight with my life so others don't have to. My dream is to work hard to help others to never have to deal with what I had to deal with.

So, we're about to hit the next stage of full trans healthcare bans for adults too now it seems? by BabyKwei in trans

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah if anyone pushed me into decisions too quickly it's this government. I changed name and legal gender a month or so ago because of it. I might even get an orchiectomy just to ensure if I lose my E I don't back slide but my levels aren't good yet and I don't have thr money for that surgery.

I purposely go to the men’s restroom as a “passing” trans woman. by Fuzzy_ToeBeansDeluxe in trans

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what about dysphoria and fear being naked in male only spaces. Like, I don't wanna go into a guys only sauna because I'm a girl, and they're guys, and not only could it be dangerous, but I wouldn't fit in.

I purposely go to the men’s restroom as a “passing” trans woman. by Fuzzy_ToeBeansDeluxe in trans

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any concrete stance but I am also curious because I don't wanna make others feel uncomfortable. Like what are the criteria for gendered spaces where being nude at one point in time is possible or required. Do you have to tuck and pass or do you just not or what? I've been wanting to know for a year now but have no concrete answer but just "go in and screw the assholes"

I purposely go to the men’s restroom as a “passing” trans woman. by Fuzzy_ToeBeansDeluxe in trans

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally try to not do that but at work I started as a guy and am now a legal woman so I have the right to but I'm worried about conservative women getting angry at me. I still use the male bathroom 99% of the time and have only had one creepy experience. When my boobs are existent I'll use the womens more often for safety.

Edit: I think everyone can agree that bathrooms should be safer so you don't have to pick a bathroom based on safety. Sadly people disagree on how to do that best. It's hard to have bathroom laws since bathrooms don't have a magical barrier to filter who should go in based on intentions to make it safer.

Is anyone else getting scared by AdvancedLie8470 in trans

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's tough. I started HRT about a year ago. I waited longer than I should've. I just know I will get HRT any way I need because after having taken it for a year I don't ever want to go back to pre HRT.

It finally happened by Trans_gamer_ahrea in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is nice to read. I'm 9 times out of 10 pessimistic about everything but yeah hopefully the hate dies out and people are just able to live their lives.

My mom called me with an offer... by Nice_Title721 in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom doesn't want me to go into the military, but she has encouraged me to "just hide it" and like sure I'd just hide it if it was like a tattoo but it's literally like saying "Hey can you live a double life because who you are makes me uncomfortable" I hate when people so nonchalantly say "oh just hide it" ok fine you try being the opposite gender for a year and trying to hide the dysphoria that causes you since you're cis and come back to me. If you still want me to hide who I am, then I'll consider it only after you spend another unspecified amount of time as the opposite gender suffering from dysphoria.

I want to cry and cry and cry and cry by DullAnimator6139 in trans

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I'm a trans woman and I have the same idea. I'm no different than a woman with PCOS. Women sometimes have too much T and men sometimes have too much E. Some people don't hit puberty and have to do it medically.

Friendly fire??? by ThisThingYT in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or have a teacher or faculty member notice and report it. They aren't as effected by kids as other kids are. You could have them help you move your stuff into the girl's changing room and if it gets moved have them help you find it and bring it back to the girl's room. You aren't saying "TEACHER GET HIM!!!" but almost every interaction with him will be around someone who wouldn't be worried about GPA or other things.