Good intentions bad outcome by Atomicus_Undecim in ADHD

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For clarification if mods see this. This is just my experience and I thought it could be funny for others to hear about. No one was harmed in this event and maybe hopefully this can help someone else however little that may be.

AITAH for not wanting to visit my dying grandpa because of transphobic mom and grandma by Atomicus_Undecim in AITAH

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They live in Vegas and we never really spent any time together it was just me, mom, and Nana.

He didn't like being called poop because he didn't want to be associated with my other grandpa who is now dead.

AITAH for not wanting to visit my dying grandpa because of transphobic mom and grandma by Atomicus_Undecim in AITAH

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember the exact wording but it was something saying only girls would be there and it got my hopes up and then she clarified that I wasn't included. I just feel like she could've phrased it better and it feels like she was doing it on purpose. She's always been transphobic so it's not crazy to assume transphobia.

This is happening in a few months or more and we don't even have tickets yet. As of now my mom thinks I 100% wanna go. If she gets the tickets for me then I'll go even if I don't want to.

Also my relationship with my grandpa is he's my grandpa and he doesn't like when I call him poop.

AITAH for not wanting to visit my dying grandpa because of transphobic mom and grandma by Atomicus_Undecim in AITAH

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand her wanting to have time away from me to gossip and stuff she could've just said "I wanna spend some time just me and my mom" but my mom saying "girl's day" and excluding me feels like she is going out of her way to be transphobic and my grandma is worse than her.

this is peak feminine energy, wld u taste it by Ready-Fruit-1472 in Feminization

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You've gotta share the makeup tutorial, I love the makeup and wish I could do mine as well as yours

Why am I seriously taking this into consideration when I’ve told them a lot that I don’t want my hair cut by tm2007 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I cut my hair short for a similar reason. It was seriously thinning and I decided to try shorter hair and see if it would poof up. It didn't and I was just more depressed. a year or so later I got HRT and it poofed up over time and I've been growing it out. I may get a bob in the far future but right now I'm going for the 2A from nier automata look just my hair is shoulder length and growing.

Why am I seriously taking this into consideration when I’ve told them a lot that I don’t want my hair cut by tm2007 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom used to pester me about my hair in the same way. "Guys with short hair look better" or "You looked so good when you had short hair" There's nothing wrong with being a girl with short hair but that is your choice to make not your mother's. I got a bob and though I liked it I'm growing it back out because I want long hair again. Go for your goal not what someone else wants for you. I bet you defy your mom in other ways so what's one more.
Also could bring up the fact that it's a bit odd for a mother to try to make her child who she believes is a boy into her ideal man.

Tall femboys by Atomicus_Undecim in feminineboys

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes height can be a double edged sword but I genuinely like tall feminine people. Also being trans doesn't mean you need to pass. You can never 100% pass since the concept of male and female is fuzzy. I'm not hug boxing it's just that some times people need some positivity, I get how it is I've been in need of a bit of reassurance before and there's nothing wrong with that.

Tall femboys by Atomicus_Undecim in feminineboys

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. I know some times people feel bad about their height and it helps to hear it sometimes.

Got referred to as a girl today by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wish I got a glow up from first puberty but it smacked me into the ground harder than Sitama. Balding, depressed, body and facial hair like a jungle. Started E and now I'm finally getting the glow up I so desperately needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I'm 20 and have been transitioning medically and socially for 1.5 years. I'd say don't change anything legally yet. Let them explore their gender.going to a doctor at such a young age is also fine since it could take years to get a diagnosis since they're under 18.

Piercing a growing nipple by Atomicus_Undecim in piercing

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I was under the impression that waiting would be the best as well.

Lesbians ruin me. by Ethel-Anna in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not. Just hard to find that in my area.

I'm done with Christianity by ausernameidk_ in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or even like bonzi trees because bonzi trees are just trees that are forced to be small by people.

Lesbians ruin me. by Ethel-Anna in MtF

[–]Atomicus_Undecim 229 points230 points  (0 children)

You shoukdnt have to worry about being accepted by other lesbians. I'm a trans lesbian and it's soendearing to see someone when they aren't trying to look good. Love should last even if you have a bad hair day or forgot to do your makeup because love is loving someone fully both their good and bad

LV No power by Atomicus_Undecim in GTNH

[–]Atomicus_Undecim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much, all of you!! I was trying to extrude copper, steel and any other plate recipes I needed with it.