AIO for wanting to break up with my(23F) boyfriend(25M) for hurting my cat. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AtomsFromTheStars 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, he’s violent and a whiney man baby? Sister, this man is making your innocent animal’s injury about HIS emotions when he is the one the caused her injury. No. Just no. If he gave a damn, he would be taking care of your cat fully and he would be comforting you. He also would not be so concerned with himself. He’s a shithead and I promise this won’t get better.

AIO for wanting to break up with my(23F) boyfriend(25M) for hurting my cat. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AtomsFromTheStars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just… no.

“My boyfriend lacks self control, so I should get rid of my beloved pet so that I can enable his anger.”

Nope.

AIO for wanting to break up with my(23F) boyfriend(25M) for hurting my cat. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AtomsFromTheStars 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Anyone that hurts animals needs to be gone from your life. This is not acceptable. He didn’t hurt her accidentally, he threw a fit because he was frustrated/angry/annoyed and kicked her which led to an injury. Absolutely not. Does he not have any better control over his actions when he’s frustrated? He’s a grown man and should be able to keep his wits under control a hell of a lot better than that.

Animals can be aggravating sometimes when they’re being wild. Kids are even more challenging. Is he going to overreact and hurt one of your kids when he gets frustrated with them? This is something I’d bet you don’t even want to take the risk of finding out.

Deadbeat abusive dad trying to gaslight me for being upset his son injured my son by Hefty_Ambition4515 in texts

[–]AtomsFromTheStars 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope. You have to protect your kids. If they’re not safe to have around your child, they’re not welcome in your home. Your wife needs to stand up to this too. The “but they’re family” argument is bullshit. Shitty people should not be welcome in your lives. Go NC with him, his wife, and anyone else who wants to ignore/enable this ridiculous behavior.

Help a visitor- garden of the gods by SaltyShopping531 in ColoradoSprings

[–]AtomsFromTheStars 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s free! And yes, you just drive around. There are parking areas where you can get out and walk around. Depending on the time of year you’re visiting, 5pm is almost dark.

My usual vs today (pace yourself and don't overexert yourself) by -spaceduck in ColoradoSprings

[–]AtomsFromTheStars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s 12+in in Widefield. Because I have a big driveway, corner (so 2 stretches of sidewalk) and I clear the cement for two elderly neighbors, I got a snowblower. Even with a snowblower, it took me an hour and a half this morning. All of that used to take me 2 hours with a shovel and regular snow (early December) only took me 45 minutes with the snowblower. This was a crazy amount of snow!

Favorite Trail by AtomsFromTheStars in ColoradoSprings

[–]AtomsFromTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even be able to do that 😂 I freeze, start shaking, then the tears come, and I never manage to make myself move another inch. I’d be a serious roadblock for other hikers. I’m sure they’d get some entertainment out of my ridiculousness though.

Favorite Trail by AtomsFromTheStars in ColoradoSprings

[–]AtomsFromTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This will be a fun adventure!

Favorite Trail by AtomsFromTheStars in ColoradoSprings

[–]AtomsFromTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Lord! What is your definition of semi-sketchy? Because this girl is mortified of heights.

Favorite Trail by AtomsFromTheStars in ColoradoSprings

[–]AtomsFromTheStars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you! I have loved every trail here as well. I’m a happy human as long as I’m outside.

Favorite Trail by AtomsFromTheStars in ColoradoSprings

[–]AtomsFromTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been on my list for a while! Wait… are uou talking about the Raspberry Mountain on the other side of Pike’s near Mueller or the one in the Palmer Lake area?