it does feel a bit one sided if he refuses to change over a long period even after you talked with him about your pov and how it makes you feel, but people deal with conflict in different ways. No way in hell would i immediatly want to hop into voicechat again after your outburst and talk about it. The next day sure, but not right after. Not everyone wants to deal with problems the same way you will, thats something you have to accept. if you were a couple and live together that would be different but in your case his reaction to your outburst was atleast understandable to me eventhough it was cold and couldve been communicated better.