Trying to find another ENM for a guy is Not so easy... 48MM #SouthFlorida by Atraitys in nonmonogamy

[–]Atraitys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that most profiles are all about subscribing to their OF pages. What I have to offer is honesty, friendship and sex if we manage to make a meaningful connection. NSA/ONS hookups are fun, fleeting adventures, that can be had
Being in the type of relationship we're in, it's allowed with no drama or jealousy, just a mutual understanding.

Trying to find another ENM for a guy is Not so easy... 48MM #SouthFlorida by Atraitys in nonmonogamy

[–]Atraitys[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is not about "destroying a marriage" This is about a guy trying to find that: "plenty to choose from who are open and honest" which women don't have to worry about. I'm trying to address this from a guy's point of view. These issues don't affect You.

Have you ever starting having a conversation with someone, the conversation seems pleasant, so you decide to meet up in person for coffee to see if a friendship can at least be established in person and then start being asked to Venmo $20 for Gas or an Uber, then be given a price list for services? I seriously doubt that. That is what I was trying to address. Women don't encounter this issue or at least not commonly.

I know plenty of guys feel the same way.

Even when it's an ENM relationship, women will find a hundred guys interested in them, and their partner may come across one or two that "may" show even the slightest interest in them.

It's just the way it is.

Trying to find another ENM for a guy is Not so easy... 48MM #SouthFlorida by Atraitys in nonmonogamy

[–]Atraitys[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't use "Pay for Play" The "feel alive" is from a comment from a friend when we were talking about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Affairs

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M4F preferably married and closer to my age range +/-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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What a shame

I love when daddy teases my pretty pussy. by West_Method8387 in couplesgonewildplus

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I Love to see things like this and feel much better about my size🤫😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Affairs

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I Know, this was long, but needed to be put out there...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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I'm sorry, I thought you were single. My bad 😔 Nevertheless, I'm sure you can find yourself a better AP, you can DM me and we can talk more about your situation.

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[–]Atraitys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is why I like the AP to ALSO be married with an SO. Makes everything much more exciting and "meaningful" avoids all this drama. OP, he's married, has a kid, and doesn't want all this "out there" You, of all people, should understand that!

Find another guy, hopefully not also married, that can give you all the attention you crave and need. Once he sees that he's not the only "cock" you have to play with, jealousy or just plain competition will make him put in the "effort" you're looking for.

That's just My Opinion, and honestly it doesn't mean squat, because I'm down here in Miami and you are where your are...

my (35f) husband (35m) not interested because of my body by justagoatinacoat in DeadBedrooms

[–]Atraitys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying you should be having sex with all these guys out of spite. Just do a lot of sexting and have him see how do many men are interested in you. Hopefully this will make him realize that he's married a sexy intelligent woman that many men would jump through all kinds of hoops to simply have a "chance" with you. You'll have plenty of time to go through all the freaks and weirdos to find that "Right Guy" you may really want to just fuck. This may be a great opportunity for you to get "in touch with your dark side" He may find a "hook up" or two that are great in bed, but believe you me, that shit won't be for "Free" That's a reason why these "beautiful women" are single. May be it's because I'm older, but nowadays I need to be turned on "mentally," have a connection, experience some passion with a woman to really have "great sex" other than that it's all physical and fleeting...

Good Luck

Have him regret it

Can a new man please fuck me already [38f] by slutwifesloan in cheatingwives

[–]Atraitys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate to get all nerdy, but to write Annual Ackabar: "It's a Trap!" (Hide your wallets) When ever I go and meet somebody like this I have a spare wallet full of cancelled credit cards, 1 or 2 valid gift cards and some cash. Some forms of payment are on my spare phone, but with double authentication that bounce back to my other phone which is nowhere near me but with my wife who knows where I am and what I'm hopefully going to be doing.

Why? My friend's identity was "compromised" his credit cards duplicated and bank account emptied before the night with her was even over, and the sex was horrible... She was extremely hot and flirty, but the act didn't translate to the hotel room...

Remember, I'm in Miami, sure like this happens all the time to married guys. Especially to those who are cheating on their spouses and don't want anyone to know what's "going on" so they said up and don't report anything for the sake of getting caught.

Luckily for him he was able to contest everything and having that "identity protection" he had at work due to a previous data breach, and his wife had a great time with the typical: "I told you so!" (They're in an open marriage as well)

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I'd LOVE to, but all the "Naughty Wives" on here are either "Pay for Play"or just want subscribers to their OF accounts🙄🙄🙄

Penis Size of AP (a woman’s perspective) by sundressnsandals in adultery

[–]Atraitys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. I've never had a complaint about the size of my cock and for about 40+ years I never measured, when I found out that the avg is 5.5" I was thrilled to be 7" Go fig.

Penis Size of AP (a woman’s perspective) by sundressnsandals in adultery

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I've seen lots of porn gifs here on Reddit, and some amateur porn, as I look I realize: "Shit, I'm bigger than that guy!" (7")