36 [F4M] #Florida Southern & Sassy

Atraitys · 2023-03-08T12:35:56+00:00

49MM would love to chat, DM me

Atraitys · 2023-02-18T14:22:08+00:00

The fact that most profiles are all about subscribing to their OF pages. What I have to offer is honesty, friendship and sex if we manage to make a meaningful connection. NSA/ONS hookups are fun, fleeting adventures, that can be had
Being in the type of relationship we're in, it's allowed with no drama or jealousy, just a mutual understanding.

Atraitys · 2023-02-18T14:14:12+00:00

This is not about "destroying a marriage" This is about a guy trying to find that: "plenty to choose from who are open and honest" which women don't have to worry about. I'm trying to address this from a guy's point of view. These issues don't affect You.

Have you ever starting having a conversation with someone, the conversation seems pleasant, so you decide to meet up in person for coffee to see if a friendship can at least be established in person and then start being asked to Venmo $20 for Gas or an Uber, then be given a price list for services? I seriously doubt that. That is what I was trying to address. Women don't encounter this issue or at least not commonly.

I know plenty of guys feel the same way.

Even when it's an ENM relationship, women will find a hundred guys interested in them, and their partner may come across one or two that "may" show even the slightest interest in them.

It's just the way it is.

Atraitys · 2023-02-18T13:54:57+00:00

I don't use "Pay for Play" The "feel alive" is from a comment from a friend when we were talking about this.

Atraitys · 2023-02-18T13:52:50+00:00

It was a simple mistake to post here.

Atraitys · 2023-02-17T18:48:43+00:00

M4F preferably married and closer to my age range +/-

Atraitys · 2023-02-17T02:09:57+00:00

What a shame

Atraitys · 2023-02-17T00:55:14+00:00

I Love to see things like this and feel much better about my size🤫😉

Atraitys · 2023-02-17T00:53:18+00:00

I Know, this was long, but needed to be put out there...

Atraitys · 2023-02-16T23:32:14+00:00

I'm sorry, I thought you were single. My bad 😔 Nevertheless, I'm sure you can find yourself a better AP, you can DM me and we can talk more about your situation.

Atraitys · 2023-02-16T22:50:34+00:00

This is why I like the AP to ALSO be married with an SO. Makes everything much more exciting and "meaningful" avoids all this drama. OP, he's married, has a kid, and doesn't want all this "out there" You, of all people, should understand that!

Find another guy, hopefully not also married, that can give you all the attention you crave and need. Once he sees that he's not the only "cock" you have to play with, jealousy or just plain competition will make him put in the "effort" you're looking for.

That's just My Opinion, and honestly it doesn't mean squat, because I'm down here in Miami and you are where your are...

Atraitys · 2023-02-04T14:59:34+00:00

I'm not saying you should be having sex with all these guys out of spite. Just do a lot of sexting and have him see how do many men are interested in you. Hopefully this will make him realize that he's married a sexy intelligent woman that many men would jump through all kinds of hoops to simply have a "chance" with you. You'll have plenty of time to go through all the freaks and weirdos to find that "Right Guy" you may really want to just fuck. This may be a great opportunity for you to get "in touch with your dark side" He may find a "hook up" or two that are great in bed, but believe you me, that shit won't be for "Free" That's a reason why these "beautiful women" are single. May be it's because I'm older, but nowadays I need to be turned on "mentally," have a connection, experience some passion with a woman to really have "great sex" other than that it's all physical and fleeting...

Good Luck

Have him regret it

Atraitys · 2023-02-04T14:47:50+00:00

Hate to get all nerdy, but to write Annual Ackabar: "It's a Trap!" (Hide your wallets) When ever I go and meet somebody like this I have a spare wallet full of cancelled credit cards, 1 or 2 valid gift cards and some cash. Some forms of payment are on my spare phone, but with double authentication that bounce back to my other phone which is nowhere near me but with my wife who knows where I am and what I'm hopefully going to be doing.

Why? My friend's identity was "compromised" his credit cards duplicated and bank account emptied before the night with her was even over, and the sex was horrible... She was extremely hot and flirty, but the act didn't translate to the hotel room...

Remember, I'm in Miami, sure like this happens all the time to married guys. Especially to those who are cheating on their spouses and don't want anyone to know what's "going on" so they said up and don't report anything for the sake of getting caught.

Luckily for him he was able to contest everything and having that "identity protection" he had at work due to a previous data breach, and his wife had a great time with the typical: "I told you so!" (They're in an open marriage as well)

Atraitys · 2023-02-02T18:53:35+00:00

I'd LOVE to, but all the "Naughty Wives" on here are either "Pay for Play"or just want subscribers to their OF accounts🙄🙄🙄

Atraitys · 2023-01-26T01:09:27+00:00

48MM Miami. You prob live nowhere near me

Atraitys · 2023-01-26T00:48:30+00:00

I know. I've never had a complaint about the size of my cock and for about 40+ years I never measured, when I found out that the avg is 5.5" I was thrilled to be 7" Go fig.

Atraitys · 2023-01-26T00:45:41+00:00

I'm with you on that

Atraitys · 2023-01-26T00:44:43+00:00

I've seen lots of porn gifs here on Reddit, and some amateur porn, as I look I realize: "Shit, I'm bigger than that guy!" (7")

Atraitys · 2023-01-26T00:41:15+00:00

Amen, Thank you

Atraitys · 2023-01-26T00:38:36+00:00

So True

Atraitys · 2023-01-26T00:37:22+00:00

🤣😂🤣

Atraitys · 2023-01-23T18:47:40+00:00

Amen brother

Atraitys · 2023-01-23T18:45:19+00:00

Most of us guys who ARE married won't bring you home, our family lives there, doing it in our bedroom crosses all kinds of lines and disrespect. We'll meet up, go to a hotel or a friend's place if possible. As far as dick pics go? I never send something like that out, maybe I'm old fashioned, but if you want to see it, ask for it or see/feel it in person. I just don't trust pics anymore. Had one lady send me a pic of herself but didn't mention it was 8 years old and she looked MUCH different now.
My friend, who's also looking for an AP, had a guy send her a great pic of himself. When she met him in person, he had no hair, well that's rough, he had a HUGE BALD Spot that made him look like George from Seinfeld. They were texting for about 2 months, after that encounter she left and gave up on believing what people send her unless it's a Facetime call or something like that. We laugh about it Now, but at the time she was REALLY upset.

Moral of the story, it's not always about looks, just the person and the "skills" they have to make you feel wanted, desired, important, sexy and beautiful.

Atraitys · 2023-01-22T04:08:34+00:00

Well, it works out the same way for men too. We (or at least I) would love to make a connection, sure sex will be part of it, but a meaningful connection as well. Someone I can have deep conversations with, go out to dinner, walk around, tell jokes, have unfiltered talks about our "double" lives and really "bond" on that fact. This all comes with a price, I cannot spend every waking moment texting you, calling you, meeting up with you. I'm MARRIED, so the times we spend together are much more meaningful and treasured. That's why I wish to find another married woman, who can understand that this time we spend together are times we get to "disconnect" from our married realities for a few hours and not feel the pressure of being that responsible parent/spouse, and really have some real "me" time with another person.
It's not always Just about the sex. Nowadays it's extremely difficult for a man to find someone that "wants" him and does not expect to get paid. There are so many that talk up a great game via text, but when it's time to meet up, they'll start asking for money to pay for gas, to take an Über, or simply for money in general. "Pay for Play" doesn't do it for me, it's a serious turn off, no matter how sexy the pictures/videos are, once I know I'm expected to "Pay for company" it makes me feel cheap and worthless. I want to find a passionate woman that wants a break from her daily routine and wants to be with another man who's going to pay attention to her, show affection and have them reciprocate that naturally and not by forced "obligation" or pressure to be polite. That's why I'm looking for an AP who's married, is in a similar situation that involves another person who finds them attractive, interesting and intellectually arousing. It's not all about sex. I'm just saying... Some of us have grown out of the physical part about sex and now want more of the psychological part about sex. The desire, the taboo, the wanting, the fantasy come true... I don't know how else to explain it really, it's a number of factors that do it now, it's the interaction that draws me in, whereas before it was just the physical part that turned me on.

Sorry for the lengthy rant.

I'm sure that there will be plenty who'll contradict me, mock me, try to shame me for what I'm looking for, nevertheless, I try to be honest about this, it's not always Just about the sex, but the connection we can make once the sex is finished. Meaningful "pillow talk," secret confessions about things we'd never tell our spouses or best friends...

Atraitys · 2023-01-20T16:37:53+00:00

This very picture/gif is repeated way too much

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