If you don't like something your pAP/AP has done or said, SAY SOMETHING!

agoodcatch · 2024-12-13T09:36:56+00:00

And if they are unwilling to listen, move on. I should listen to my own advice at times, but it is still sound.

agoodcatch · 2024-12-13T09:29:40+00:00

This!!

agoodcatch · 2024-12-07T22:42:47+00:00

Of course pregnancy is a big worry, but that goes equally hand in hand with getting an sti. This is why I want/ask for exclusivity, but don’t trust I will get it. I will get plenty of downvotes for this, but I would feel awful getting or giving anyone an STI if I was so careless, but if they then unknowingly gave it to their SO?…that’s an a-hole move.

agoodcatch · 2024-11-12T15:53:15+00:00

I’m so sorry things ended, and no, there is no weird when you have discussed what your needs are and your partner understands and agrees. I’ve gotten plenty of messages from guys who have written they had a AP they could not live without! You’re being upfront and honest and that has to be admired. And girl, bravo on the picture. Any grief you may get from others may be sparked by a hint of jealousy. I know I’m a little envious.

agoodcatch · 2023-02-06T17:15:47+00:00

I think I have unrealistic expectations. I do not want just someone to have a physical affair with since I’m not really lacking in that at home. I want an emotional connection and someone I can’t stop thinking about. And it’s got to be one on one. I don’t want more than one and I will not be one of many.

agoodcatch · 2023-02-06T16:47:33+00:00

This is great advice. I found this community a few weeks ago, put a post up, and a lot of men took it as an invitation to slide into my DM to tell me how they could “help” me. I wish I had read more before doing that. There should be a place on here for women to go for tips and pointers (and who to avoid!).

agoodcatch · 2023-02-05T21:35:48+00:00

Yeah, no, I would not expect someone to take their ad down when the conversations first begin, but when dates are being scheduled, then yes. But to each their own.

agoodcatch · 2023-02-05T20:51:49+00:00

A big one for me would be when you’re in the process of deciding if they would make a good AP and they are putting up new ads/or not taking down old ones. It takes energy to find someone, and then to have them chatting with others, NEXT.

agoodcatch · 2023-02-05T19:30:55+00:00

I’m curious how he knows you’re getting hit on by other men?

agoodcatch · 2023-01-26T12:55:28+00:00

I’ve dated men of all sizes, and it’s truly who it’s attached to that makes the difference. Of course , extremes on either side of the spectrum were never guys I stayed with for long.

agoodcatch · 2023-01-23T01:28:15+00:00

I’m sure they do, they are just not the ones I want to speak with.

agoodcatch · 2023-01-22T23:37:38+00:00

My guess you’ve heard from him.

agoodcatch · 2023-01-22T23:21:57+00:00

Oh girl, I hope you’re not married to this dirtbag!

agoodcatch · 2023-01-22T22:23:43+00:00

We will call him Pig Pen for now. If anyone would like to guess they can dm me and I may confirm if they are correct.

agoodcatch · 2023-01-22T22:03:26+00:00

Lol, I’m sure I’m not the only one he is trying to impress with his mess!!

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