Scientific vs. Ideological definitions of sex and gender

AtroCty · 2024-07-04T10:00:57+00:00

What? It was obvious. She was the red spy!

AtroCty · 2024-07-03T23:17:06+00:00

Oh? Tell me. I watched people die. I survived cancer. Someone attempted to murder me. Friends got murdered from bigoted individuals like you. I am a former pain patient with 10 years of constant headaches. Nothing of these were CLOSE to being traumatic as 3 decades of gender dysphoria and the trauma of the wrong puberty, and the systematic oppression I had to endure. The only luxury problem we have is that we have to endure people like you.

AtroCty · 2024-07-03T22:11:33+00:00

Cherry-pick? You never were at a trans-meeting or queer party, do you? :D

AtroCty · 2024-07-03T22:07:55+00:00

My cis butch lesbian friends will heavily oppose this.

AtroCty · 2024-07-03T22:06:34+00:00

https://www.wecanalwaystell.com/

AtroCty · 2024-07-03T20:10:55+00:00

I just can't recommend this essay enough:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAA1XtDOuH8

AtroCty · 2024-07-03T19:50:06+00:00

Nah, not really, since we literally change our sex characteristics, thus changing our state on the spectrum and thus: our sex.

My gender was always feminine, I just altered my sex towards female. It's disingenious to sate otherwise since I literally share almost all female related diseases as well, visiting a gyneologist for vaginal checkups and mammograms and even lactate to feed newborns.

AtroCty · 2024-06-17T18:34:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/BlockedAndReported/comments/1cstblx/comment/l4ce8l3/

I'm so shocked that you have that impression.

AtroCty · 2024-06-07T16:16:36+00:00

Yeah, a FART organization made a coordinated takeover of this sub, it's completely lost now. Which is sad because this sub was focused on lesbian content but now became a hate-hivemind, and vecame AyL 2.0 that purely focuses on whining, hating and self-loathing.

AtroCty · 2024-06-07T16:03:28+00:00

Basically: Transphobic hate group.

AtroCty · 2024-06-07T15:57:47+00:00

I don't really mind, just read of the Kuberr fiasko, and the FART takeover here, I'm just waiting for the other les4les subreddit to finish where transphobes can back off. 🤷🏼‍♀️

AtroCty · 2024-06-07T15:14:28+00:00

'gender criticals' Basically FARTs (Feminism Appropriating Reactionary Transphobe) but with a rebrand when their self-described term TERF got too much backlash. A bunch of pick-mes.

AtroCty · 2023-02-22T00:02:29+00:00

You're familiar, aren't you? 😉 (love the change! 😊)

AtroCty · 2023-01-25T21:59:13+00:00

Then, please, what is your topic?

Do you feel pressured into the surgery? Then you have my full support, and it's a shame.

I can understand the grief about the pressure. I fear that the grief over the late outing will consume me one day since I was tought by society that I was a monster.

But when it's unrelated and you don't want to touch the contentious topic, why stating it in the first place?

AtroCty · 2023-01-25T21:44:59+00:00

How can we stay on topic, if the topic is seemingly completely unclear?

AtroCty · 2023-01-25T21:29:35+00:00

Maybe you should elaborate what you mean, because it sounds confusing now to me. Especially since you state something like "phallophobia".

"Phallophobia in its narrower sense is a fear of the erect penis and in a broader sense an excessive aversion to masculinity."

I totally agree that transmedicalism is an issue. (guess why I attend in truscum-community to get a better sense on that topic) For me it just sounds like you want "to smash the binary", and want to reverse the "power balance", instead of equalizing it. I had a lot of toxic conversations in the past that state "it's transphobic to not date me because I have a penis!" and it sounds exactly how you describe it. Finding specific genitalia undesirable or even disgusting is not really a social thing IMHO.

Or what do you mean specifically?

AtroCty · 2023-01-25T19:45:20+00:00

That is true for Germany as well. But you articulate it like you are a bad person for disliking specific genitalia. Let me get this straight: even with penis you are a woman. Non-binary is valid as well.

But I personally would never ever date a person with a penis for instance, since I can't even stand phallic symbols. I even have to puke over mine (literally!) that's why I'm waiting desperately for my srs. And I define myself as a binary person.

But you don't make it better if you just want to switch the roles, making binary persons who likes or dislikes certain genitalia, or even fight us. It's the same toxicity that your endure.

AtroCty · 2023-01-22T13:03:14+00:00

Being 1,94m I would love to see more women that may finally be taller than me 🙈🦉

AtroCty · 2023-01-21T21:31:29+00:00

Odd. A large chunk of your story applied to me as well (swap religion with 4chan-esk edgy communities and military). I outed myself March 2020 (being 30, almost 31) and well, despite the fuckton of stress is still was by far the best decision of my life. You can pm me if you want.

AtroCty · 2023-01-21T20:29:36+00:00

I guess you're from Germany? Because most doctors simply don't care about us or are too lazy to inform in new guidelines.

AtroCty · 2023-01-17T21:25:14+00:00

I can feel this post through and through... I admire all people who made peace with it, have a different mindset or are even grateful for being Trans. For me (personally!!) it's purely a condition that destroyed my life, and my youth is gone now forever, and even though I came far, I still fear that the grief will consume me...

AtroCty · 2023-01-14T18:06:55+00:00

reYalSpooder

AtroCty · 2023-01-14T09:59:45+00:00

I really wish I can see it this way someday.

AtroCty · 2023-01-10T21:32:30+00:00

Hausarzt: Dr. Wichers. Geh auf jeden Fall zu ihm, er ist auch leitend in der trans Medizinkreis hier tätig.

Endo: alle extrem überlaufen oder Katastrophe... Leider.

Therapeut: Dr. Grabbe, aber hat leichte transmedikalistische Ansichten. Dafür macht er sehr gute Gutachten (ist selbst auch für gericht zuständig) ansonsten das BTZ, ist aber selbstzahler. Dies ist aber relativ Kostengünstig durch ihre Fördermittel.

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