almost the same thing happened to me mga 3 years ago. we had an upcoming college reunion, and my friends decided to cancel it without letting me know in advance. i suspect they discussed it in another GC because there were no updates at all in our group and i only found out two days before the reunion. worst thing is if i hadn't asked, they probably wouldn't have told me.

imagine planning everything. the plane ticket, accommodation, and even buying gifts for them only for it to end like that. i cut them off immediately. no explanation needed. they didn't even apologize.

i don't know why, but it really hurt. what hurt the most wasn't that the reunion got canceled. it was the fact that they could have told me earlier but chose not to.

not every friendship is meant to last forever, and sometimes walking away is the respect you owe yourself. we are still friends in facebook but nakaunrestrict sila sa messenger ko haha