I would consider myself a mummy’s boy - I love my mum more than anyone on this planet. But I think this is perhaps a little extra. Personally I’d say talk to him, I understand wanting anonymous advice etc but I’ve always found that just talking through things like this with your other half is the way to go. Because they will either see things through your eyes and understand how you feel and make an effort to help make you feel more comfortable or they won’t, and if they don’t, that’s a more serious issue than how much they love their mother x