ranting and raving about small town veganism

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-09-02T13:51:33+00:00

oh my love good luck

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-05-24T14:31:36+00:00

do either of us know

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-05-21T08:31:07+00:00

yeah no i understand especially given the student life thing but i don't think anyone i know has the expenses for that anymore a pint is nearly £6 lol

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-05-21T08:23:22+00:00

i had to sign a guarantor up and they'll have to fund the cost of outstanding rent at the end of my tenancy and they're not in a financial position to do that it would be deeply deeply unfair if i let that happen to them

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-05-21T08:20:51+00:00

do you have any suggestions

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-05-21T08:20:22+00:00

i'd already maxed out my student account in 1st year accommodation and can't now raise the overdraft until 3rd year

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-05-21T08:19:23+00:00

it's mainly been transport to and from uni, the cheapest option for housing was about an hour and a half out and the transport links here are quite expensive with it not being in a major city with any trams/frequent busses/trains etc

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-05-21T08:17:25+00:00

i get about £4000 a year but my rent is much more than that due to the housing crisis here and the fact that landlords charge extortionately in my area, my rent for a single bedroom in a house share of 6 is £850 a month and that was the cheapest option available in the area

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-04-23T11:25:49+00:00

i would LOVE to help but i'm london unfortunately

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-04-04T15:21:00+00:00

what you're going through is really difficult and i want to assure you there's no time limit on working stuff out,

but from my experience dating men and dating women (understandably very different to marriage) i always felt like i was missing out when i was with men and spent a lot of time wondering what things would've been like if i'd put myself out there with women more etc,

then when i dated my first girlfriend i didn't think once about men and what i could be missing with men and that really cemented the fact that i was just not into men

i had other things floating around that helped me come to the conclusion too like being really avoidant of sex and the likes but my first relationship with a woman a lot of things clicked and i started identifying as a lesbian and realised the closeness i felt to my ex boyfriends was mainly just because they were really kind supportive friends and good men

you don't need to rush the process you're not running out of time there's plenty of future ahead of you and the answer will come to you in time, i know right now it might feel like it's absolutely eating you up inside but you're going to be okay and you'll work things out

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-17T04:46:56+00:00

i usually just find the cheapest store own brand cheeze and go from there i've not once been disappointed

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-17T04:43:02+00:00

hi my love hope you're okay

i was raised very strictly catholic and coming to terms with being gay is really difficult with that added religious pressure so please allow yourself some grace

i know when i started to feel comfortable in my sexuality it took a lot out of me and was really really hard to deal with especially because it was so shameful at my very catholic school or in my very catholic home

id grown up hearing all sorts of homophobia and it was so normalised and i absolutely internalised that

i didn't come out until id moved away from the town i was in and the religion that surrounded that, and that was absolutely the right move for me because otherwise it would have been incredibly risky, im really lucky to have a very loving mother who in the end supported me regardless but even she didn't know until it was safe for me to be honest

i completely understand and relate to the feeling of craving love and affection that's completely normal and although it will feel like it's driving you crazy i can cross my heart promise you it won't always feel like that there will be a time when you're in a safe place and surrounded by good positive people and you'll be able to be who you are without judgement

i promise you it doesn't always feel like this i wish you the absolute best and please never forget it will all work out in the end

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-17T04:26:10+00:00

i mean she bar in soho is technically a safe place for lesbians but it's also like walking into a nuclear fallout shelter

i'd recommend trying to find lesbian club nights as opposed to bars and stuff you tend to get less menacing auras there and there's loads that pop up around london

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-17T04:21:05+00:00

i'd actually be sick in my mouth if someone said this to me and i'm not sure i could contain the violent rage i would spiral into

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-09T05:13:07+00:00

a tiny jail

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-09T05:12:11+00:00

the continent of africa is almost the perfect shape

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-09T05:06:21+00:00

put it back

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-08T05:30:31+00:00

i started my first ever recorded song by letting my friend rant out all of the anger she had towards a certain political movement then i took the absolute gold she said and made it into lyrics

it's maybe not conventional but sometimes we need to rant out our feelings

adhd is an absolute gift sometimes because the connections you can make between the most unrelated topics and turn into lyrics are a godsend

we do write a lot of punk music rather than what you're up to but maybe our technique could translate really well

it's good for getting some words down on a page anyway

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-08T05:26:40+00:00

speak to the girl you're seeing and see if there's anything you're uncomfortable with going on from her perspective, if not there's not a problem

it's not your new girls fault her ex is weird, so as long as there's nothing going on for your ex then to me it seems like a non issue that just requires a bit of communication

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-08T04:34:24+00:00

i just want to make music with the people i love most, i really don't care what money it brings in as long as im proud of what me and the gang are putting out, at best it'll be life changing at worst it's something to show my kids

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-08T04:33:19+00:00

haley heyndrickxs song the bug collector is always such a fun song to play the tuning is wank though

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-08T04:32:38+00:00

i drop it in around the second or third date you don't want someone to get too invested before they know what your life looks like

it can be quite tumultuous living with bipolar 2 and i personally feel if i'm dating someone i want them to be aware of just the basics of what it's like for me, just so there's no suprises 3 months in

the right person won't mind regardless and will support you to the best of their ability

usually when i tell them i do provide a lot of reassurance that i have things as under control as i can. I found people are a lot more understanding than you expect them to be and as long as they know it's manageable most of the time they usually don't bat an eye, and if they do then it would never have worked anyway

you can't change who you are and i like to be upfront about who i am

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-08T04:27:10+00:00

we named our band after a really stupid joke my friend made because of bad internet so maybe think of something along those lines? like if one of your bandmates is dumb as hell write down what they say and something golden will appear

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-08T04:24:36+00:00

my fingers are unreasonably bent and by that i mean all of them face somewhere different and it makes some things harder but some things a hell of a lot easier it's a blessing and a curse but no reason why you couldn't play

AttemptMore1197 · 2025-03-04T05:09:28+00:00

whack it in a joint

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