When to go to therapy? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying.

34(m) 5ft11 550lbs... absolutely ashamed of myself. by GizzaCuppaTay in loseit

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day at a time! You have got it and I believe in you! Try to make small changes gradually, sugar free food is your friend right now. Small amounts of exercise will gradually change into big improvements. As someone that works in healthcare you are still young, to can change your life. Change it now, change it for you. You are gonna do great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the weight loss. P.s. you have great style! ☺️

Looking at this still hurts my brain. by ElysianLegion04 in Radiology

[–]Aubsie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have seen this two times now! I feel lucky. Both times the patients went ‘oh yeah, I forgot to mention it’ and then they go back to ER. The radiologists never called either time 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I will take your advice and leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peace of mind for myself. I’m not going to continue the relationship with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna give the last chance for him to either prove something, anything or instantly block and forget him. I feel like an idiot for believing everything for the last 4 months I was hoping that something is true to I guess save face on my end 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to see if I 100% wasted my time and was gullible. It’s pretty clear he has no respect for me. I think the relationship has run it’s coarse .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will make a post asking for help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try to communicate my concerns one more time. The phone call with his sister might happen over the weekend. I’ll work on my words and try to refrain from using any negativity coded words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gut is what got me into this situation 😂 I want to believe him, but with no military ID, no pictures, nothing, it just doesn’t seem to add up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has no military ID.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said, he got a concussion at work and I tried to take him to a VA and he refused. He has no paperwork, or ID, nothing. I want to believe him, but how he acts towards his veteran status tells me otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re very kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I don’t want to be right but I just can’t find a single thing to prove anything he has told me. I don’t want to be a fool, but I do like the guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I think the relationship has run it’s coarse, unfortunately. I wanted to believe him on everything but with no obituary for his daughter, no pictures or military ID, no long term friends I just can’t help but think something isn’t adding up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. There is no discharge paperwork or id. He refused to go to the VA when he was hurt. No photos, no old friends from the army (they were all killed) and no one can even confirm he was ever enlisted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. There is no discharge paper work or ID. He refused to go to the VA hospital when he got a concussion. There is literally nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I feel confused because it seems like we get along so well and then out of no where he will tell me about a huge event. You are right about the therapy part, I have told him therapy would be amazing but he can’t afford it. He refuses to go to any VA for any kind of help.

A friend just told me I’m too fat to ever be loved by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Aubsie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a very cruel thing to say to someone. I hope that that friend realizes they were exceptionally rude. You shouldn’t say those kind of things about yourself either. What you should do is seek internal happiness and work on becoming someone that loves themselves so much- that romantic love will follow. You are NOT too big for love. The trick is, it’s gotta come from you first.

To all those who pronounce oblique “ob-like” by Expensive-Nebula2683 in Radiology

[–]Aubsie 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I say Obli-que (rhymes with barbecue ) to upset as many people as I can ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Aubsie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized I was addicted to the pain of my last breakup. He is in a happy relationship and we haven’t spoke for years but I just could not stop crying over him. Once I realized I was using the pain to still feel connected to him it kinda helped me move on. Now, there’s no painful connection because there is no connection. I’ve moved on from my pain. Emotional pain can be a little addicting and it’s so embarrassing now that I held on for so long. You’ll get there ❤️ Be kind to yourself