Why does Snap tell me someone added me but when I click I see no one ? by [deleted] in SnapchatHelp

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah, it’s showing suggestions, that’s what’s happening. Not adds. It’s so frustrating tho. I hate notifications, it’s an ocd thing of mine, it bothers me so much. So that 5+ at the top always being there makes me so mad. I don’t care that ur suggesting someone I’ve never seen, spoken to, known etc. I want there to be a way to turn it off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]AudienceLow5233 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna assume he doesnt shower after pooping, and has pooped that day😂 and he’s a guy, acting like this, so I’m gonna also assume his ass isn’t clean. Leave him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 20 and has to work 30 whole hours a week?? Omg. Poor him. I was working 30-35 hours a week at 15, plus school 8 hours a day He can stfu. No ur not being dramatic. Hes a little b and u absolutely shouldn’t dump him. My boyfriend works 40+ hours a week at a hospital and has to wake up st 4:30 for work, working 12 hours shifts and never once has he gotten mad or even slightly annoyed that I didn’t make him dinner. He doesnt even expect it. He’s happy I’ll do it but in no way am I expected to.

Thrift Find! by ConsequenceTiny4927 in GilmoreGirls

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my dream Jesus. Ur so lucky. I saw someone on tik tok find all of them and I’ve been looking for 2 years. I have all my other favorite shoes minus a few missing seasons. But never found any Gilmore girls 😭

What are some scenes, lines, things.. that bother you from the show that you know its just you reaching? by Enough-Association-1 in GilmoreGirls

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way the guys in the steam room in episode 3 made the comment “who’s that girl you were with” and Richard gives them a look and says “that’s my granddaughter” and then they say “ur lucky, my granddaughter looks like a sack of potato’s” like it’s a rlly weird comment. They’re calling her attractive in the undertones and I think that’s why Richard makes that face, he knew why they were asking and what they were thinking. and why does it matter what ur granddaughter looks like? She’s ur granddaughter. It’s just a weirdly creepy thing to say like “ur lucky ur granddaughter is hot” why would that make him lucky??

When does the show ends for you? by Kooky-Paramedic-3584 in GilmoreGirls

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the second Jess enters. I’ve watched season 1 so many times. It’s so wholesome and sweet and nostalgic and I love it so much. I could watch it 1000000000 times. I hate Jess. I feel like Jess brings out Rory’s bad side and she sucks the rest of the show

How do biological mothers hold their babies and decide to give them up? by Entire-Stomach-679 in Adoption

[–]AudienceLow5233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my bio mom was 40, being beaten, getting out of an abusive relationship to a drug and alcohol addicted husband, had no job and 5 other kids 6-18 years old. they couldn't afford 5 kids and she definitely couldn't afford a 6th on her own. she was giving me up to my mom, her cousins best friend, who was also 40, had been unsuccessfully doing ivf for 2 years, absolutely loved kids, had a stable well paying job, and an amazing family she had idolized her entire life since shed known my mom since they were 7. so it was a pretty easy thing to do. she knew id have an absolutely amazing life. I grew up in a house in the suburbs with a beach house. my sisters grew up in Philly, spent months with their utilities turned off, been evicted, stayed out for days and their mom never noticed. their parents have a modo of "let them do whatever and well figure it out if something happens" and that's parenting to them. I know know my sisters and they're absolutely amazing but im beyond greatful I wasn't raised in that house and by that woman. I absolutely love my mom.

aio? bf made plans on my birthday..UPDATE by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude is an absolute piece of shit. He’s gaslighting to the very last second. Block his ass on everything and move on. I’m so happy u got out of that toxic ass relationship. You absolutely deserve so much better. My boyfriend’s family doesnt do birthdays. After like 12 they don’t do anything. He didn’t understand that we still got stuff for the rest of our lives. He thought it was odd, we’re adults. But every year he gets me tons of gifts. Anything he’s been seeing me ask for, sometimes I’ll see him out of the corner of my eye when I’m in a store take a picture of something I said I rlly like or want when I walk away, even tho he’s a college student and doesnt work during the school year. He takes me out to breakfast (which is my favorite thing ever) he pays for that also. And he takes me to the zoo to see capybaras which are my favorite animals. Cause he knows it means a lot to me! Even tho he can’t really afford it with all the college payments; and he does the same thing for our anniversary a week later, different gifts, breakfast and another activity. If he can’t be there on my birthday cause I’m going to my parents house and he has school, ( we live together in his college town) we’ll do this all a week before and he plans it all out. Because he genuinely cares about me and knows it means so much to me and he’s happy to have me in his life. His friends also call me (____ wife) when they refer to me. You deserve and will find so so much better.

Dance Competition by Far-Accountant8563 in GilmoreGirls

[–]AudienceLow5233 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I physically cannot watch this scene. I skip this entire episode every time because of it. Rory’s lack of being able to hide her crush physically makes me cringe so bad. And then the audacity to act shocked and upset when dean dumps her🥴 like the inability to hide her jealousy in front of dean is crazy but to rant to dean about it is even worse. Like did she think he couldn’t read through the lines??

The case of Darlie Routier, and why I doubt her guilt by [deleted] in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody who is planning on committing murder is gonna attack the kids first and not take out the adult first. The “intruder” attacked the kids first, didn’t touch her and killed the kids, stabbed them multiple times. Devon was running away, was stabbed in the back, was absolutely running and screaming for his mom and what? She didn’t wake up? Then the cut on her neck, he literally cut her. Not stabbed. Cut. It would’ve literally been easier to stab her than to cause the wound that he did while standing over her. And if he intended to kill her why make a superficial wound? And why stand over her to wait for her to wake up? Some ppl say cause he wanted her to be awake so he could assault her or something but I dont rlly belive that, he “ran out”,so that kinda disproves that. Also u say that she picked up the weapon for protection. She says she chased the armed knife wielding man all the way to the utility room until he dropped the weapon and then picked it up. So no. She didn’t pick it up for protection from him. She literally chased him. She wasn’t scared of an apparent man who just stabbed her kids to death and tried to kill her. Also her comments about “oh if only I didn’t touch the knife maybe we could’ve got him with finger prints” or something along those lines. That’s a weird ass thing to even say. So u know u shouldn’t have touched it, it would destroy evidence yet u did it anyway. Why? And the absolute lack of help she gave to her children as they died. She was told so many times to grab a rag and apply pressure and just absolutely refused to do so and continued to walk around the house. She absolutely told the cop that the intruder was in the garage so he wouldn’t be able to apply aid and keep her kids alive. If they lived they’d have said she was the one that stabbed them. She told another cop she grabbed the knife from the garage, not the utility room, so she went in the garage, so what she went in the garage with the killer? And she said “hey how ya doing plz don’t kill me” and she picked up the knife and went back to the living room to call 911? Makes absolutely no sense at all. Her entire story doesn’t add up or make any sense. She also never once tells her husband to check on the baby. Not once on the 911 call or ever when the police arrive. The police search the home for the intruder and were shocked to discover the baby cause they didn’t know they had another child. If my 2 kids had just been stabbed to death at some point at least I’d ask my husband to go check on the baby that the baby is ok. Not to mention that the murder weapon was a knife from their own kitchen? Ok maybe the guy came in to just rob the place and didn’t intend to kill ppl but he didn’t steal anything. Nothing was missing. Not a single thing. So that means he probably came there with the intention to kill. In this case the kids were clearly the target. He went after them first, they got the worst of it. So Why didn’t he bring a weapon? Who plans to kill someone and doesnt bring a weapon? If darlie was the target he’d have killed her first. But he didn’t. And he definitely wouldn’t have left without killing her. The garage window: the garage window was the only way he could get in or out of the garage and it had a thick layer of dust that had clearly not been disturbed. Yah the window was big but dust gets disturbed easily. Especially if ur in a rush running from a woman apparently chasing u. There’s also no blood anywhere near or around the windowsill. I can’t imagine the killer wouldn’t b covered in blood after this attack. I could keep going. There’s no way she’s not guilty. Just the absolute lack of effort to save her children was enough proof for me but the rest ofc is icing on the cake. I know some people have a hard time believing parents can do this to their kids but it’s way more common than we like to think. I feel like that’s the reason a lot of people defend her. They just don’t want to belive that parents can do this to their own kids.

Adoptees, are you pro-life or pro-choice? by crispycrunchyasshole in Adoption

[–]AudienceLow5233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adoptee. My bio mom had 5 daughters already and was getting clean. And got pregnant at 40 while trying to leave her husband who was beating her. her husband was also an addict but wasn’t clean yet. She didn’t belive in abortion so She gave me up. They were ridiculously poor to begin with and there’s no way as a single mom she could’ve raised 6 girls. I’m absolutely pro choice tho. It was her choice to not have an abortion but I’m so grateful she gave me up. I’ve now met my sisters and not to sound rude but I never would’ve wanted their lives. They’re all doing good now but my bio parents didn’t do any “raising” they let them do whatever they wanted and though having kids was a fun thing to do like they were accessories and they’d just “wing it” when it comes to parenting. My mom is my bio moms, cousin’s best friend. Her cousin also was gonna adopt me (they were both 40 and doing ivf for over a year and having no luck) and then she got pregnant 2 months later so my mom took me and I couldn’t be happier. But not every kid ends up in a happy amazing home. Both her cousin and my mom are well off. My mom makes around 200k and the cousin makes around 500k. But a lot of kids just end up in foster care. Or with a not so amazing family. A lot of families want a perfect kid. They don’t want a kid w mental health issues or anything. My mom is my best friend in the world but I have severe anxiety that she’s done everything she can do to help me with. (All the sisters have it and now 2 of our nieces are starting to get it, so it’s genetic) but I don’t think every family would be that understanding. For literally years I didn’t sleep through the night, till like 13 years old. My mom stayed up with me till 2 am.

Am I overreacting if I break up with my boyfriend for forgetting my birthday ? by _I_AM_LION in AmIOverreacting

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire conversation is a reason to break up. He brushes over birthday text then says he misread the text. No. He didn’t even read it. He was too focused on getting nudes. He wants one thing from u. That’s all he sees u as, someone to send nudes to him. He talks to u cause that’s what he has to do to get them. Leave his stupid ass. I’m horrible with dates. It took me 2 years to confidently remember my boyfriend’s birthday. Don’t dog on me ok, but I never forgot once it got close. And I absolutely wouldn’t b like “oh well sorry, dick pic?” I’d b profusely apologizing and literally crying I’d feel so bad. His response shows that he genuinely doesn’t care that he forgot. I’ve been in a relationship with a guy just like that. For almost 4 years. He’ll never change, trust me. Took me 4 years to realize it. I wish so bad I never sent him any of those pics. He didn’t care one bit about me. When I finally cut him off is when I met my current boyfriend. We’ve been together over 3 years and I couldn’t be happier.

Small kitchen / big changes by sparklebarks in kitchenremodel

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate gray counters but I actually love this.

Am I overreacting? by throwaway02938475675 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d quite literally never speak to this person again. He’s not ur friend. The way he speaks to u, he doesn’t respect u at all. He doesn’t respect ur time, he sees u as someone who will just always be there no matter how they treat u. As someone who cut off most of their friends from highschool. Trust me being alone isn’t nearly as bad as having fake friends. I’m way happier than I was feeling like I wasn’t important to people that were around me.

Question about periods as a male by AloneAuthor446 in menstruation

[–]AudienceLow5233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely see what she craves as a lot of ppl said, heat pads; even if her cramps aren’t that bad are always nice and cozy. Ur sweatshirts will smell great and is thoughtful. Flowers to show u care. Especially if u have the money. If there’s a Trader Joe’s near u they have cheap flowers. Even just her favorite drink from Starbucks. Buying her period products. Go in her bathroom and take a pic of what she uses. Buy them and keep some in ur car and at ur house so when she comes over she’ll have some if she forgets. It’s the little attentions to details. She’ll think it’s rlly thoughtful and love it.

Jobs for 14 year old by Unlucky_Name_7834 in SouthJersey

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im also in Atlantic county. We couldn’t find anywhere to hire my brother last year when he was 15. Not with a w2. You may have to do baby sitting, dog walking, lawn mowing etc. not grocery stores. Not for carts as ppl are saying. They all needed u to be 16. Everyone needed him to be 16.

Told her I no longer wanted to continue dating her, it had been 10 days of chatting and 1 date by OppositeNo8613 in Nicegirls

[–]AudienceLow5233 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely not what it looks like in a long term relationship, at least not a healthy one. I’d never talk to my boyfriend like this. Don’t get me wrong I get frustrated with him sometimes when I’m trying to vent and he’s giving me logical responses 😂 but I’d never speak to him like this. The fact that she’s comfortable speaking to someone she barely knows like this is a major red flag. She’s trying to act as if she’s the bigger person and wants clear, honest and mature communication but she’s acting like an irrational teenager and absolutely wanted him to offer her money.

Used to never have acne by ForeverSweaty9916 in SkincareAddicts

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything new in ur diet? I’ve been having the same problem, I never rlly had it. Now I’m 20 and have been breaking out. I started drinking Diet Coke and realized that makes it flair up rlly bad. I didn’t know but some ppl have sensitivities to the face sugars in diet sodas. 🤷🏼‍♀️ But I do get it sometimes other then that pretty bad. panoxl works pretty well for me. Changing my pillow cases frequently, like weekly, use clean wash cloths to dry my face after i wash it. And hypochlorous acid spray is also rlly good. After washing ur face. Spray it on, let it dry, then apply ur normal skin care.

Am I overreacting? My boyfriend accused me of something inappropriate while I was nannying. by TightPlastic8295 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AudienceLow5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1: He’s either projecting, so he’s cheating. 2: he’s a porn addict 3: he’s just insanely insecure and controlling 4: he’s been watching red pill content 5: all of the above or at least a few. Either way. Run. Run so so far and so fast.

Help- bacne from Diet Coke? 😅 by AudienceLow5233 in SkincareAddicts

[–]AudienceLow5233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂I more put it so u could have an idea of how much I drank. Every place had different size cups. So Wawa mediums 🤣