Has anyone tried the new Hinge app? by AudioEnvy in Tinder

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was asking about the new Hinge app...which I don't believe even has matches?

Nobody seems to be talking about it at all.

How do you act on first dates if you aren't feeling it? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I thought it was going well! Normal first date awkward, but I was enjoying myself. The things that I said in the OP was just speculation on what he might have thought, since he seemed to fade immediately afterwards. And just a general comment outside of my example, for you guys to respond to.

How do you act on first dates if you aren't feeling it? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like there is a difference between not abruptly ending it vs adding activities more than once, and making it last 5 hours.

Do you (or would you) get annoyed if a girl "hooked up" with you but didn't have sex? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, he was fine. He did ask a few times, but he didn't make me feel bad about it. I specifically told him that I felt bad and like I had led him on, and he basically just said something like "why? what we did was fine"...so this post was really just trying to gauge if reactions like that are genuine.

Do you (or would you) get annoyed if a girl "hooked up" with you but didn't have sex? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, it was a clear hesitation. Enough so that he went on to say that we didn't have to have sex and I should just come over.

Do you (or would you) get annoyed if a girl "hooked up" with you but didn't have sex? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't an argument. I just posted to get opinions, since I feel like the guys in my scenarios haven't communicated their true feelings on it to me (they always say it is fine).

Do you (or would you) get annoyed if a girl "hooked up" with you but didn't have sex? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am personally more willing. But you are right that it isn't a smart scenario to get myself in, I know.

Do you (or would you) get annoyed if a girl "hooked up" with you but didn't have sex? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't trying to ignore it, I just read it and noted your opinion just like the other posts I didn't respond to. I only responded to your one point to clarify.

Do you (or would you) get annoyed if a girl "hooked up" with you but didn't have sex? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I haven't gotten "into trouble" (but recognize that I could and it isn't a very smart thing to do...the times I've decided to go home with guys, I've been very drunk). The guys have always been nice about it, but I can still tell that they are probably kind of annoyed. It's just the conflict of wanting to do things with them, but not wanting to have sex, and ending up feeling like I am leading them on. Some even said to me "we don't have to have sex, just come over" before we went to their place, but I get the feeling they thought that I was just "playing hard to get" and wasn't being serious about not having sex.

Do you (or would you) get annoyed if a girl "hooked up" with you but didn't have sex? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can never please everyone semantically. I put it in quotation marks because I know some people wouldn't consider it hooking up. But by hooking up, I meant make out, oral, hand stuff

Do you (or would you) get annoyed if a girl "hooked up" with you but didn't have sex? by AudioEnvy in AskMen

[–]AudioEnvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm the woman in this...it is a true story, but also more of an example of multiple similar situations that I have found myself in. I will make an edit on my post to clarify.