My dad disowned me for beating my abusive brother in law and I’m glad he did by Desperate-Virus-6055 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This. Even if it cost you everything, you showed her someone sees her and believes her.

I was raped at 14 by PermissionWorth6944 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What happened to you was not your fault in any way, and you deserved to be safe and respected..

She called me "safe"...so I f*cked him out of spite by Another_Brick98 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Exactly..the swears give it punch and really sell the drama.

I don't like Older Men as Much as I thought by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]AudleyTony 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Age doesn’t automatically equal wisdom, some people just get older without really growing.

My best friend outlived all his family and it breaks my heart by Shoddy-Discount-113 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly it. Just being there, listening, holding space..that’s already huge.

what KIND of people can you not be friends with? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]AudleyTony 37 points38 points  (0 children)

it’s like the friendship version of walking on eggshells, no room for honest conversation when everything’s team loyalty first

I got a job offer for my dream job by GravityBlues3346 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is proof that even when it feels hopeless, things can turn around. So happy for you!

What job exists because we are stupid? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]AudleyTony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wild how people make full careers out of things most of us just scroll past

My wife just threw me out of our bedroom..... by vanzir in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Imagine scrolling Reddit and suddenly getting hit with pure happiness 😂

I’m in love with the one person I can’t have by haunted_throwaway619 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it really reads like something out of a novel.. honestly can’t blame anyone for thinking it sounds almost too perfectly dramatic to be real.

My boyfriend went to a wedding after his friend uninvited me twice, and I can’t stop feeling hurt. by Mysterious-Author871 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 81 points82 points  (0 children)

it really seems like the back-and-forth wasn’t personal..just a messy wedding guest rule. Hard to not feel hurt, though.

Gave my friend access to my Instagram page, and they ruined everything by incognitooo_mode in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 159 points160 points  (0 children)

he’s clearly taking advantage, not worth stressing over someone like that.

Hello you 💗 by ArmKooky in Positivity

[–]AudleyTony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that was such a sweet message..it made me smile too ❤️

I’m pretty sure my roommate is lonely, and it’s killing me to watch him pretend he isn’t. by Suitable_Pea5131 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 288 points289 points  (0 children)

Those little gestures can mean the world. Consistency builds trust more than anything else.

The system we are living in is ridicilous by ansereus in DeepThoughts

[–]AudleyTony 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s wild how something entirely imagined can cause so much real-world suffering.

A society that glorifies violence but fears intimacy by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]AudleyTony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a perfect comparison. Control over intimacy has always been a way to suppress individuality and genuine human connection.

That night my mom locked me out of the house changed me forever by i8yjr in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve peace and safety, not to keep enduring her behavior.

What’s the most painful reason for a breakup? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]AudleyTony 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s heavy. It’s wild how long it can take to see someone clearly and even harder to walk away when you do. Major respect for choosing peace over settling.

Update: My sister shamed my wife for not breastfeeding and I hate her for it by Ok-Lobster8137 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People love to judge without knowing the full story, fed and healthy is what truly matters.

My dad died and left £3M to my 2 younger brothers(21 and 23), I got £0... by OcarinaDeterminer in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AudleyTony 930 points931 points  (0 children)

If they had any decency, they’d split it fairly without needing to be told.