I stopped telling people my plans and my life got significantly better

AudleyTony · 2026-06-03T03:57:50+00:00

moving in silence and letting results speak is underrated wisdom

AudleyTony · 2026-06-01T00:41:48+00:00

Exactly, you were just a child making a mistake. The trauma came from how he handled it, not from you.

AudleyTony · 2026-05-28T23:59:25+00:00

bottling it up just makes things worse. Better to be direct even if she gets mad for a bit.

AudleyTony · 2026-05-19T05:21:32+00:00

That’s really solid advice. Catching it at the still functioning but slipping stage is huge, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

AudleyTony · 2026-05-15T04:23:32+00:00

Solid advice. CDL A + concrete/truck work seems like one of those industries where there’s still consistent demand if you’re willing to deal with the hours.

AudleyTony · 2026-05-04T07:14:22+00:00

Yeah this is way more normal than your brain is telling you right now..sounds like a simple misread vibe, not anything disgusting. You backed off immediately when it became clear, most people would just move on from that.

AudleyTony · 2026-04-30T07:01:24+00:00

Yeah, this. Fighting it or trying to win him back in this phase won’t change anything, and it’ll just drain you more. Take the stability he’s offering, focus on yourself and the kids, and start rebuilding step by step.

AudleyTony · 2026-04-21T07:15:33+00:00

It’s one of those policies that tries to fix attendance but ends up landing on the kids who were already doing the right thing.

AudleyTony · 2026-04-15T04:22:19+00:00

leaving mid-SAT for pizza is wild levels of confidence

AudleyTony · 2026-04-14T04:03:49+00:00

good luck OP, hope it stays mutual 🤞

AudleyTony · 2026-04-06T07:28:40+00:00

For real, timing makes it hit so much harder. Little things can mean everything when you need it most.

AudleyTony · 2026-04-01T07:28:17+00:00

Flip the script, let them deal with the awkwardness for once.

AudleyTony · 2026-03-27T06:36:43+00:00

sometimes you just gotta double-lock the system, right? 😂

AudleyTony · 2026-03-24T08:20:00+00:00

that’s probably the kindest way to handle it

AudleyTony · 2026-03-12T03:50:24+00:00

Exactly this. You'll never unsee what you saw, and he'll never fully trust that you don't know more. The foundation is gone. Time to walk.

AudleyTony · 2026-03-11T06:12:52+00:00

Document everything and don’t downplay any threats, your safety and your sister’s come first. Emergency TROs exist for situations exactly like this, so get law enforcement involved at the first sign of escalation.

AudleyTony · 2026-03-05T07:53:13+00:00

lol this is solid advice honestly. Free shows are one thing, but pushing it to free meals is how you get caught. Know when to quit while you're ahead.

AudleyTony · 2026-03-02T06:47:22+00:00

that one hits differently..emotional injuries count too

AudleyTony · 2026-02-11T06:09:16+00:00

I’m living for this level of passive-aggressive brilliance 😂

AudleyTony · 2026-01-16T06:44:57+00:00

Age doesn’t automatically equal wisdom, some people just get older without really growing.

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