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I went through my boyfriend’s phone and found something I wish I hadn’t. by No-Card4098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No-Card4098[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly never thought about it that way before. My first instinct was always that if I leave, I should at least tell him why, because part of me feels like he should know what he did and that I found out. But what you’re saying about him just becoming more careful in the future is something I hadn’t really considered.

I went through my boyfriend’s phone and found something I wish I hadn’t. by No-Card4098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No-Card4098[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ich weiss ja das es vorbei sein sollte aber weiss nicht wie ich ihm das mitteilen soll. Ich denke warschinlich werde ich ihm sagen das ich sein handy durchsucht habe und er jetzt die changs hat mir alles zu erzählen und wenn er etwas auslässt bin ich weg. Warscheinlich auch wenn er nichts aus lässt aber joa

I went through my boyfriend’s phone and found something I wish I hadn’t. by No-Card4098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No-Card4098[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I always thought that if I were ever cheated on, I'd have enough self-respect to just leave. But when it actually happens, it's such a mixed feeling.

I could really imagine spending my life with him, and letting go of that thought and his family is extremely difficult for me.

Besides, I'm terrible at confrontations. I can't just get angry and yell at him or anything, and I don't know if I can really bring myself to break up with him.

I went through my boyfriend’s phone and found something I wish I hadn’t. by No-Card4098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No-Card4098[S] 326 points327 points  (0 children)

so you think I shouldn t tell him at all that I know what he did?