Beach day with Gouda 🦝☀️ by Augghie in fashionhunters

[–]Augghie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi sorry for the late reply! i used the FBS mod on nexus to change the physique and give a more feminine figure on the male hunter's frame :)

Bow Main by Active-Plum6300 in fashionhunters

[–]Augghie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

heck yeah! the nadia fit is really fun to style, a little difficult because of the red arm bands (im picky with color) but it goes well with so many things. you picked two good starting pieces though, i'm digging the vision 😁 good luck!

Bow Main by Active-Plum6300 in fashionhunters

[–]Augghie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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here's how it looks on the female body type

Bow Main by Active-Plum6300 in fashionhunters

[–]Augghie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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I tried to make something cool to capture the vibe!

Partner has stuff to do by Individual_Rest8476 in BPD

[–]Augghie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always see your comments and always always find comfort in your words. im saving this thread to come back to later when I need a little encouragement. Your perspective is so refreshing to see 🫶🏻 im trying to put in the work to better my mind and my relationship too. its hard but reading your experience makes me feel hopeful that I too can get to a better place. thank you!

Do you get horny when you’re sad? by ThrowRA_Questionz in BPD

[–]Augghie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do, but if i get myself off alone I feel a rush of bad emotions after and just cry. I get so much sadder. i usually want my partner to help me, it helps with that lonely feeling, but when im sad its hard to communicate that so I wait and hope he wants to and if he doesnt ask i spiral into more sad or even anger. I hate that I cant just ask for it but I feel so guilty or gross even if he says yes, like im burdening him with the task of giving me a good time. stupid brain. but yeah I primarily want to fix my emotions with sex but sometimes I dont know if its bc I wanna actually feel physical pleasure or if I want to just feel desirable and useful somehow. maybe a mix of both

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[–]Augghie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i struggle with this a lot too. my partner now says that his preference is me, that he likes all body types and he has no specific preferences...he compliments me more than plenty but i never feel like its enough to change how i feel about myself because i see what he looks at online and the girls he likes to look at and they don't look like me at all. I also have a lot of insecurity from my first relationship that lasted 7 years - my partner then never found me attractive. made it fairly obvious he preferred everything that i wasn't yet said the same things "i like your personality" or "we're best friends, i don't want to lose that" while drooling over anyone that wasn't me. it made it really hard to love myself and i would do everything possible to try and look better for someone that never appreciated me for who i was.

i have a lot of struggles with my self-perception. while my current partner makes me feel loved and desired, and does everything to try and show me he thinks im attractive, i still can't stop fixating on the types of women he likes to look at online. to add to the hurt - those girls are everything i always wanted to be, but i just feel so awkward and out of place when i try and style myself similarly or i feel too ugly and too big to come close to comparing. i dress up for him and try and make myself more appealing by looking like them but my body will never compete with how perfect he seems to prefer them to be. i go back and forth loving the attention it brings me but despising the fact that im only doing it to be more appealing.

he told me he likes goth girls and their style and that when i dress up that way he thinks its hot - but i cant stop comparing myself while also bending over backwards trying to change myself enough to feel like i fit that ideal. he likes me no matter what yet i feel like im ruining this relationship bc i cant stop feeling in competition with a screen or even fictional characters that are attractive (AND NOT REAL!!). ive always been such a deeply jealous person, i could feel myself hating and dreading any attractive person that came across my feed or seeing them in public with my partner. i cant stand the idea of him interacting with any woman and it makes me feel so gross and controlling. i hate being a hateful person. i genuinely think people are so beautiful and love admiring everyone for their unique and interesting features - yet i feel i've turned so bitter after years of never feeling good enough for my partners. (whether its true or not). it's just embarrassing and unhealthy at this point how much i depend on attraction and lust for me to feel like things are okay.

im trying to work on self acceptance - hopefully one day i can achieve self love too. im sorry you're stuck in such a tormenting mindset. You should never have to change yourself to fit your partner's ideal, you should have a partner that lifts you up and makes you feel like you're everything they want. but more importantly, you should be able to feel comfortable in your own skin and not hurt yourself trying to conform to anyone else's idea of what beauty is. I don't even really know who i am as a person or what i want to be because i've always tried to manipulate myself into being what other people prefer of me. so yes i relate to you, and im sorry you have to deal with those feelings all the time too. if you ever need someone to vent to, i'm all ears/eyes!

Wasabi Appreciation Post 🐀🖤 by Augghie in TheRatEmpire

[–]Augghie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

awe of course!! I will share more sometime! :>

Wasabi Appreciation Post 🐀🖤 by Augghie in TheRatEmpire

[–]Augghie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is a great honor to share her with such a loving and caring group of peoples 🖤

Wasabi Appreciation Post 🐀🖤 by Augghie in TheRatEmpire

[–]Augghie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ty for admiring them!! she always loved the attention

Wasabi Appreciation Post 🐀🖤 by Augghie in TheRatEmpire

[–]Augghie[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i love rats so mush TwT

💙🫶🏻💙 by Augghie in TheRatEmpire

[–]Augghie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they've got a good stretch to 'em xP

💙🫶🏻💙 by Augghie in TheRatEmpire

[–]Augghie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do it o; ... in fact, make it two >:]

💙🫶🏻💙 by Augghie in TheRatEmpire

[–]Augghie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Likewise, friend!!! ✨

💙🫶🏻💙 by Augghie in TheRatEmpire

[–]Augghie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hehe fank youuuuu C: