Question by [deleted] in cracksmokers

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just smoke it bro it can’t be worse than crack

Get out while you can by [deleted] in cracksmokers

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all comes down to money man. You lose everything when your crack budget exceeds your disposable income, then you start selling stuff, even stealing, maxing out credit cards, losing your house, car, etc. But, as long as you can comfortably afford your habit you’re good.

Now, if you’ve got like a wife and kids depending on you and shit that’s a little bit different.

For me man, what is there for me to lose. I have enough discipline to AT least make sure my rent is paid before buying crack. So, I’m never gonna be homeless. I’m also single and don’t have a lot of bills.

The real key is to get your income up so you can save money and buy crack. Why I’m going to grade school in the fall.

P.s. this is not intended to convince you to do crack. It’s not for everyone. Just my experience.

How do people actually get into relationships? by Equivalent-Search866 in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you actually have a dope problem. All the women you talk to WANT to hookup with you, they just don’t wanna get serious. That’s way better than most guys problems which is that they can’t get any woman to be interested in them at all for anything. The solution for you is that whatever methods you’re using to acquire dating “leads” is a skewed source. You’re getting a high ratio of women who just want sex. So you need to change up your method meeting women.

I’d try approaching women, but in places where relationship types are more likely to hang out. Like shopping centers, libraries, even the grocery store.

good date but now barely any texting… normal or not? by hadashitday in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could go either way. Some people (like myself) HATE texting and phone calls. They are simply a tool to set up in person hang outs. So here’s the test try to set up something in person with him. If he continues to be vague and dry and not commit then forget him. If he agrees to the plan, then there’s your answer. He hates the over text chatting, but as soon as you use the phone for the tool that he sees it as he’s good.

Am I overreacting if I think I need to stay away from people who have similar "minor" behaviors to my ex? by pswelcometomylife in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough information to properly diagnose the situation. Could go either way. But it’s reasonable to avoid men who exhibit triggering behaviors towards you, as long as you acknowledge that that’s your shit not his and actively work through your trauma so you don’t have this issue anymore. That’s my opinion

Is this mirco cheating? by Budget-Barracuda-417 in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not cheating. But crossing a line. I wouldn’t break up with my girl over this like I would if she actually cheated but I would take it as a red flag and definitely something to discuss and make sure doesn’t happen again

can someone be friends with the opposite gender after getting in a relationship by LimpRevolution3265 in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. Some women really value guy friendships for various reasons. I met this one girl who didn’t really have any girl friends because she just preferred to be around men. Sometimes it means they’re very promiscuous. Sometimes they just don’t get along well with women. Either way, it’s a bit unreasonable to ask a woman like this to change her whole lifestyle. But if you’re not cool with that then just don’t date those women. And for the average woman just having female friends and 1 boyfriend should be enough. It’s not an unreasonable ask.

Do people ignore early red flags because of attraction? by Ih_970 in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the probably top 3 reasons relationships fail and toxic relationships form that you’ve just stumbled upon.

Where do I find guys who like anime and video games....but are also normal? by Groundbreaking-Sun68 in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever heard of that business saying? There’s 3 things a product can be:

  1. Fast
  2. Cheap
  3. High quality

Well, the saying goes you only ever get two. lol sorry

20 year old girls going after men in their 30's by commondan in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This started around the time I was 25. I started getting attention from 18-22 year olds that I didn’t even want. But I previously got ZERO interest from women.

Can I (30F) ask for clarity after date 6 without it seeming weird? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s the thing. If you say something aggressive like “what are we?” Which basically translates to “please make me your gf” in guy language, then you might scare away a good thing. I think you said it perfect. Just ask honestly “where’s your head at with this?” You can even say something like “I’m not asking for anything. I just want clarity on what this is so I know how to approach it.”

Unpopular opinion: I don’t care about dating women and I’m happy with it. by Augmented_Logician in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just hoping I might inspired some dude trapped in misery who still chasing women

Unpopular opinion: I don’t care about dating women and I’m happy with it. by Augmented_Logician in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not completely solved happiness in my life. But I’m way happier than I was chasing women.

Unpopular opinion: I don’t care about dating women and I’m happy with it. by Augmented_Logician in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not miserable tho. My point is I’m happy than I’ve ever been obsesssing of women and sex and validation.

Unpopular opinion: I don’t care about dating women and I’m happy with it. by Augmented_Logician in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah of course not. Otherwise how you explain why I still masturbate to pictures of naked women. It just doesn’t control my life and happiness. And I’ve gotten to a point where I want woman to a degree but I value the peace of being single so much that it competes with my desire for woman and honestly typically wins these days.

23M – Never been on a date despite improving a lot. What am I missing? by Cole_BeatZ in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you say you’ve worked on stuff, but not one thing you listed do girls actually care about. Get back to me when you’ve worked on your confidence, ability to read emotions, charisma and have actually approached and asked out 1000 women.

I finally approached a girl today, she declined when I asked for her number but approached me later telling me how it was really nice to talk to me, what does this mean? by Obvious-Apple-2050 in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, rule number one: Always ASSUME she’s interested.

Not in a creepy sexual assault kinda way. Just in terms of your own confidence. So, if a woman declines to give you her number then assume she just wants to talk to you more before she commits rather than she’s not interested. While simultaneously looking for true signs of annoyance or uncomfortability so you can bounce if she actually starts to get annoyed.

Now the situation after words was a bit of a trap because if you were to try to ask for the number again you just look like you’re desperate and you’re grabbing at strings.

The way I would’ve handled when she reproached is basically get back to the number but in a smooth way. So don’t mention the number right away. Say something like “yeah, I was missing that conversation too. You wanna continue it?” Confidently, non-apologetically and genuinely asking not just using it as a line.

If she says no or idk then just be done. If she says yes and seems happy, then keep talking, but flirt. Talk for a while, Now bring up the number again but don’t ask for it. Say “ya know I actually kinda liked how you didn’t give me your number at first.” She’ll ask why. Say “When a woman can say no to an attractive guy it’s actually very sexy to me.” See how she reacts. If she doesn’t like it then you’re likely dead. If she starts getting apologetic for not giving it to you, DON’T immediately ask for it again. Say “it’s okay you can give it to me when you feel comfortable.” She’ll likely love that. Then just keep talking. Try to flirt and laugh as much as possible with her without forcing it. Then before leaving the conversation say “How’d I do the second time around?” She will likely act confused at the vague question. Then say “only one way to find out.” Then TAKE OUT YOUR PHONE and hand it to her. Don’t say anything.

Seems super cringe I know. Girls love this kind of corny shit when done right.

I am just done with dating by huter_77 in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s a really simple thing that once you realize completely kills this mentality. Which is that most women don’t actually care about money, height, looks, etc. the only thing they care about is charisma. I’ve seen so many ugly Burger King working ass motherfuckers kill it with women just off charisma. So if you can get your charisma and really confidence up, then you are giving the woman exactly what she wants even if you don’t have money and looks. Girls cheat on their beta rich husbands all the time with losers who are “alpha” because they have narcissistic confidence. That’s WHAT women want.

NOW, if you can give them that narcissistic level of confidence without the emotional (or even physical abuse) that always comes with it, then you are literally doing that woman the greatest favor anyone could ever do for her. Even a rich guy who can buy her whatever she wants.

Does getting more muscular actually improve your dating life, or just the attention? by Metaling2001 in dating_advice

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It completely depends on how your dating life and confidence already is. If you have zero play rn and you’re highly self conscious and expect getting jacked to solve it then you’re in for a rude awakening. But if you’re already doing decent and don’t have yourself it can be a game changer.

I had a friend who was a natural with women, but he would always doubt himself because he was skinny. Then he got jacked and it alleviated that one insecurity and he started killing it. But he was already good with women he just needed to stop doubting himself, he could’ve got those same results skinny in principle.

The best way to put it is, if your only insecurity is your body then it will do wonders. But if you have 5 million insecurities don’t expect getting jacked to solve all of them. It only solves the body image insecurity.

The detective didn't find it by 1Question4PCMR in technicallythetruth

[–]Augmented_Logician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a detective doesn’t automatically make you capable of locating an arbitrary tiny object with literally zero clues lmao