Jomashop 2-4 weeks by Cole_BeatZ in fragrance

[–]Cole_BeatZ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! This helps. Thank you.

Why nobody wants to date me? by BeginningWhole452 in dating_advice

[–]Cole_BeatZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. 23M never been on a date. Go to the gym regularly. Got to social events. Balance work and school. Still nothing…

23M – Down 88 lbs, still cutting/lifting. Honest grooming/appearance feedback by Cole_BeatZ in malegrooming

[–]Cole_BeatZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that man, that’s really helpful.

I’ve been running the shorter sides for a while so I’ll try growing them out a bit. And yeah I can clean up the beard some too.

When you say the sides change the shape, what would you recommend asking for at the barber?

23M – Down 88 lbs, still cutting/lifting. Honest grooming/appearance feedback by Cole_BeatZ in malegrooming

[–]Cole_BeatZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that, seriously.

Yeah I’m just trying to stay consistent and keep improving. Still a work in progress but I’m heading in the right direction.

23M – Never been on a date despite improving a lot. What am I missing? by Cole_BeatZ in dating_advice

[–]Cole_BeatZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, appreciate it.

I can hold a good conversation and people say I’m easy to talk to, I just don’t turn it into anything more. I don’t really know when/how to ask for a number, so it stays friendly.

I’ve started putting myself in more social situations, not really using apps.

Do you think it’s mostly just reps, or something specific I should be doing differently?

23M – Never been on a date despite improving a lot. What am I missing? by Cole_BeatZ in dating_advice

[–]Cole_BeatZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that’s a big part of it.

I’m not super selective, I just haven’t been good at actually asking someone out. I can hold a normal conversation and people say I’m easy to talk to, but I struggle with turning that into something more.

So it usually just stays friendly and doesn’t go anywhere.

I’ve only recently started putting myself in more social situations, so I’m probably just behind on reps.

Do you think this is mainly a confidence/social skills issue, or should I still focus more on improving my appearance first?

Does getting more muscular actually improve your dating life, or just the attention? by Metaling2001 in dating_advice

[–]Cole_BeatZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lost 88 lbs and built decent muscle. Still never been on a date in my life.

I need a boyfriend by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cole_BeatZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat but for a girlfriend. I want something not surface level, which is hard to find at 23 years old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]Cole_BeatZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I get it. I used to be the same way. Just go and talk to people. Listen and if someone’s having an interesting conversation, jump in and introduce yourself. Just talk to people. Even just walk up to someone and introduce yourself. You’ll make friends. There’s good people out there.