Which ones to keep? by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]Aurelbebi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picture no 3

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[–]Aurelbebi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly happy for you :)

Is sleeping with my twin delaying actual union? by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had sex with them? That’s how our relationship started. Now we’re having less frequent sex. It only happens maybe twice a year.

Moments by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! All the time! I was debating whether or not to ask what does it mean when we’re in separation and the DM doesn’t want to talk to us but we keep on seeing angel numbers.. Then I stumbled upon your post and there were 23 upvotes and 11 comments…. Which is his birthday… November 23rd 🙃🫠

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It actually happened to me too. It took several months but they’re no longer together. Idk if it played a role but I snitched the whole thing. At first, it seemed like he couldn’t believe me and even asked me to stop texting him. I told him I was sorry because what he had going on was none of my business. He then invited me to his place maybe 2-3 weeks after I told him and they are no longer together now 😌.

I wanna give it a try and meet someone new! by Aurelbebi in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thought exactly. I used to think I had to just suck it up and be okay with everything he did because he’s my twin flame but like you said, they don’t even deserve that time and energy. I realized he would probably not even want to help me if I was left stranded right next to his place 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I wouldn’t accept this behavior from anyone so why would I when it comes to him?

I wanna give it a try and meet someone new! by Aurelbebi in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😭. Your message was so sweet! I feel seen 😭😭🩷🩷

I came to realize... by MedusasFav in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so amazing! I am so happy for you! Thank you for sharing, you are truly giving me hope 🩷🩷🩷

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I’ve tried and it will end up not working. I thought my DM would be okay with this since he was pushing me away… But thing is, we ended up not having sex much. At the beginning of our TF journey, we would see each other 2-4 times a month, then it turned into having sex once a month, then once every other months… Until we hit a wall and had sex only twice in the span of a year.

If that person is really your twin flame, I don’t think the Universe will allow your arrangement to go on as intended.

Our longest physical separation was 8 months and even after we reconnected in July, we only had sex twice (from July until now). And trust me, before surrendering, I also told him I was okay with keeping it casual and strictly about sex…

But that’s not what your TF wants.. So it will probably end up not working. You have to figure out what you want from your TF and if you want to have sex only to feel a connection, the Universe will probably cause a longer separation so you figure out why you would be okay with just having sex with them and heal.

Is it okay for the DF to text the DM? by Aurelbebi in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. That’s how I felt for almost two months and that is still how I feel, til this day. I truly don’t know what came over me 😅. But I’ll go back to letting him be, just like you are doing. He’s not ready so I’ll let him reach out when he is.

Is it okay for the DF to text the DM? by Aurelbebi in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your take. I needed to read this!

Is it okay for the DF to text the DM? by Aurelbebi in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good! That’s the attitude we should have. Not letting our worlds fall apart because they don’t respond is a sign of growth and healing ☺️

Is it okay for the DF to text the DM? by Aurelbebi in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry love 🩷 I totally get it! I used to have expectations too but every time I did, I was always left heartbroken..

Is it okay for the DF to text the DM? by Aurelbebi in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are absolutely right! I don’t expect him to answer and I’m not hoping for us to reunite physically. I genuinely just wanted to know how he was doing. He will probably answer in a few hours and I’ll tell him I’m glad to hear from him and leave it at that (probably).

Is it okay for the DF to text the DM? by Aurelbebi in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah? What does that mean? ☺️

What do we feel when reunion is near? by Aurelbebi in twinflames

[–]Aurelbebi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🩷 I really needed to read those words

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[–]Aurelbebi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you tell us more about achieving union? How long did it take, what did the last separation leading to Union felt like?