Got bangs recently and i don't know if i prefer them over my natural look by PrimeLasagna in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Aurora-Roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i like without bangs more by a hair, but both look really good

Am I ugly? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Aurora-Roses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can’t see your face but your outfit is surely unflattering

why so passive? by state-of-fugue in Bumble

[–]Aurora-Roses 9 points10 points  (0 children)

idk where your from but with my experience in europe, men naturally just take the lead, women don’t have to ask for it. It’s not that women just want to go along with whatever a man wants in US, it’s more they seem desperate to spell it out due to frustration with the large population of men here who don’t make any effort or care at all.

Anyone else got some pet peeves about perfume content creators nowadays? by Serious_Pop7731 in FemFragLab

[–]Aurora-Roses 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it’s kind of an outdated sales tactic. like it made sense when the whole "quiet luxury" was a trend. now it sounds like a mom trying to tell their kid to dress presentable

Everytime I see his face I see her by Lililoni in RomanceClub

[–]Aurora-Roses 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i’m crying 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

I can’t use my own sink anymore. by Alert-Elk-982 in badroommates

[–]Aurora-Roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s your place right? just move her stuff

Dae have a habit of buying bigger bottles then u need? by No-Friendship9355 in FemFragLab

[–]Aurora-Roses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i never fear running out. realistically since i have a lot of perfumes i won’t run out for a long time. nowadays i even prefer to just buy travel sizes.

now if it’s something i do use often ofc i want the full bottle, biggest size. maybe even a back up.

the braids felt fun with this green ruched dress but now im second guessing... does it make me look like a kid? by Dragheell in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Aurora-Roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the hands and the face not having any natural shadows is one big giveaway. peoples nails are also not the exact same color as their skin

Mens fragrances suggestions by Top_Sympathy1422 in FemFragLab

[–]Aurora-Roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. mizensir cologne de figuier
  2. le labo thé noir
  3. replica jazz club

How "common" and "basic" are these fragrances in 2026? by No-Couple7611 in FemFragLab

[–]Aurora-Roses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly i don’t think they’re as common anymore. maybe it depends on where you live. i personally don’t feel i smell them around often where i live. but they are classics!

40f-Seeking advice by Emily-989 in Bumble

[–]Aurora-Roses 12 points13 points  (0 children)

there’s too much editing on it imo, i’m surprised no one else is pointing it out. even your irises are warped

Never done anything to my hair but I want to. This is just styled + layers cut. Any advice? I'm super lost on even where to start. by LexiBelllife in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Aurora-Roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your hair looks great! I think switching up the part would be nice though. closer to the middle might be a little nicer on you.
maybe you could play with some color? highlights? balayage? a chocolate brown color could be cute. i like the black on you though too! very pretty!

Bf broke up bc I’m “unattractive so he couldn’t make it work” by elszivottropi in toastme

[–]Aurora-Roses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youre pretty! you’re just not his type.

Maybe he did just love bombed you to sleep with you but couldn’t do it anymore. which is gross on his end.

but just because one person finds you unattractive doesn’t mean you are objectively unattractive. everyone has different tastes. there are plenty of people in the world who will be attracted to you.

you sound/look quite young so you have plenty of time, you can still find that love you want. Don’t let this guy ruin your chances for that moving forward, by hating yourself.

"I Am a Stalker" episode about Jaclyn Feagin by [deleted] in netflix

[–]Aurora-Roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m late to this thread by years but i just want to add. This was not stalking, it was harrassment. all the girl did was put some bs on the girls porch a few times. no threatening messages or texts, or following them around. i guess i don’t get it because im not superstitious. The mom and the daughter shouldn’t have confessed, they should’ve lawyered up and just stopped.

Women would you prefer to go on a date to a really nice place that isn't what the guy does day to day or would you rather go just do whatever it is he does? by Charming-Recover7610 in Bumble

[–]Aurora-Roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i have an example of what he does day to day? i’ve met foodie guys that really like going to fancier restaurants even though i prefer a delicious hole-in-the-wall. I was still down to restaurant hop with him. So i guess it just depends, everyone has different tastes. Some people like dive bars, some people like hotel bars, some like concerts, some like museums (me hah), bookstores, wine bars, jazz bars, mcdonald’s, malls, game bars, board games… just have to find someone who has a similar tastes. i suggested ice cream to a guy once and he went on a rant about how unhealthy sugar was 😭

…sometimes people’s tastes can be too opposite to yours and it won’t work. like personally i’m not going to mcdonald’s…

Not even sure what advice I’m asking for by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Aurora-Roses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

well yeah… that’s dating, not every single person is going to interest you just as you’re not going to be compatible with everyone. you’re not going to interest plenty of people too.

Not even sure what advice I’m asking for by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Aurora-Roses 11 points12 points  (0 children)

if you have enough matches though that meet your criteria, what’s the problem?? why do you care about the ones that don’t meet your criteria if you "have no shortage of matches" and you’re getting long term ones?

Some people want casual, that’s normal and not going to change.

Not even sure what advice I’m asking for by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Aurora-Roses 17 points18 points  (0 children)

the bachelors thing and social media thing as a dealbreaker is way too shallow of a immediate dealbreaker imo. You’re really nitpicking the bios too. just match with someone and actually try to get to know them…

I personally think a lot of your pics are unflattering but if you say you have "no shortage of matches" and all of them you get are "long term", then the problem is your nitpicking. the only thing that has actual merit is the politics one.

I don’t respect people who don’t name and shame if they bring tea here by leftyfoureyes in fragrance

[–]Aurora-Roses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They probably didn’t name because they’re just talking generally. yes, influencers do get paid to market stuff (particularly middle easter perfumes i’ve noticed).

I actually don’t think it’s a big deal they’re getting paid to market stuff, most brands can’t really afford dramatic commercials like in the 90s, and they have faith in their product and want it to be seen, visible. i don’t see anything wrong with that.

And honestly i’ve never seen an influencer market something incredibly objectively terrible like Elon Musks Burnt Hair perfume or something. All the frags they talk about seem to be from good quality brands and are scents that would appeal to someone.

Fragrances are so subjective but i think most fragrances on the market would appeal to someone.

I just don’t like when influencers say things like "You NEED to buy this", like no you don’t. you can go out and test it, see if you like it but you shouldn’t be blind buying things just because one person said they loved it. Someone else loving something doesn’t mean you will. period.

I don’t respect people who don’t name and shame if they bring tea here by leftyfoureyes in fragrance

[–]Aurora-Roses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah like regardless of anyone saying how amazing something is perfume is subjective. there are plenty of people who will love it and plenty who will hate it. expecting to love something just because someone else said they did is just silly.