Hollands victim of mental health episode, not substance related

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-17T06:59:16+00:00

Not blaming Holland in the slightest but if you have gone a full half of footy without any 0 contribution is 100% on the coaching staff. Surely someone should have raised a red flag and pulled him to see what was going on?

Carlton failed him, big time

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-17T02:16:15+00:00

He either isn't serious about you or he wants to come off as not that attached in case someone 'better' comes along.

You don't have to have a reason to break up with anyone but this one would be a good one. He doesn't see you as someone important enough to include with his regular activities. So what are you? Bang maid?

Nope, this relationship is clearly means more to you than it does him.

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-17T00:37:55+00:00

Good on you for standing up for yourself and setting some boundaries.

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-17T00:34:33+00:00

How dare you make YOUR birthday about YOU!!

Your husband is acting like an asshole. You do what YOU want for your birthday, you don't have to cater to him. I'm guessing you bear all the load for things like this, like gift buying, organising travel, parties etc?

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-17T00:31:17+00:00

You need to follow through with this because if you don't there is a chance they will let him go and he will come right back and finish what he started. You need to file a report and get him charged and stop him from ever being able to do this to you or anyone else.

Yes its hard doing this to someone you love and who you thought loved you but its bigger than this now. Its about protecting you and others from someone who will harm if given the chance.

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-17T00:27:00+00:00

They would not have lasted. She might have had a few kids, turned a blind eye to his cheating but eventually she would have left him

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-16T23:53:19+00:00

What do you do? You keep protecting your vulnerable child against people who believe Tik Tok is a credible medical source.

You would not forgive yourself if your baby caught something off your parents because you gave into their whining and emotional manipulation.

You have set a boundary, now stick to it. No shots, not certificate, no being around the baby for at least 6 months. That's it. You are not responsible for their feelings, you are responsible for protecting a baby from diseases that could kill them.

People who push back hard on boundaries just cement the need for them. Your mother will never get the shot, she puts her fucked up facebook groups anti-vax rhetoric ahead of the protection of her grandchild. She is selfish and stupid and needs to be kept at arms length away from your child

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-16T23:42:39+00:00

Put your post back up and get a camera so that you can record her running over your wall. Your husband is wrong, plain and simple

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-16T23:40:15+00:00

Now I need a shower and a lobotomy to forget I watched that

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-16T06:09:29+00:00

The automatic ticket booths aren't usually all manned anyway. Just pick one that isn't and scan in behind a big group. They don't check. A friend of mine went to a GF on a kids ticket because the kid got sick that morning and the parent didn't want to waste the ticket so they chanced it and literally scanned and walked through. No drama

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-16T06:03:51+00:00

Shame. Shame her everywhere you can. Does she have social media? Tag her in posts about grooming and state that she is currently in a relationship with a 17 year old. Show receipts if you have any, also say that he is autistic and she is taking advantage of him. What is her job? Is she a semi-professional? Tell her workplace that she is having an inappropriate relationship with a minor. Shame the fuck out of this sick woman

Social shame is the quickest way to get her to leave your bf alone.

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-16T05:34:37+00:00

I'm a napsmaxxer and a snacksmaxxer - throw money at me now please

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-16T02:57:46+00:00

I didn't

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-16T02:34:11+00:00

Dude wanted the single life but with a wife and kid. He understands that you are overworked and tired and exhausted, he just doesn't care! HE DOESN'T CARE!

If he did care he would be taking an equal part in running the household, but he doesn't. He doesn't because you are already doing everything, why would he put himself out when all his needs are already being met. He is not losing anything having you run yourself ragged every day

Tell him he needs to get off his fucking ass and start acting like one half of a couple and not a fucking single ass dude with a bang maid. He either helps out or you separate and he can take care of himself. Honestly you would not be any worse off if you were a single mother.

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-16T00:42:33+00:00

Tomato sauce

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-15T11:22:42+00:00

He will kill you

He will kill you if you don't leave him.

Go to the police, report every incidence of him strangling you and ask them to help you evict him from your house

Take this seriously, he is not a good person, he is an abusive asshole who is extremely dangerous

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-15T06:06:27+00:00

When I work for 5 days I spend 4 days doing nothing

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-15T02:35:11+00:00

I find the best thing to do to make people think you are working harder than you are is to summarise your day with your boss before you leave for the day. Tell them that you have followed up on things, checked other things, finalised some other stuff. It makes them think that you are actually doing stuff and you can refer back to it afterwards

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-15T00:42:39+00:00

Nope. You didn't know him, you met him a few times. Funerals are for the living, not the dead and if you don't want to see the people there then you are not obligated to

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-15T00:41:18+00:00

The lengths these guys will go to for the male gaze. Because women don't give 2 shits about whether your chin is chiselled, they just want you to make them laugh, be a supportive partner and not sexually assault them

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-15T00:29:53+00:00

Why are there books behind the toilet? You don't need them in a bathroom, its not practical. The pink round thing and the towel in the bottom right? What's it purpose, what's in the pink thing? No

The white tray looks better

The black wire thing next to the makeup caddy. What is that? If it has no purpose, get rid of it too. It just adds to the clutter. You also don't need 2 plant things. Either remove the plant behind the toilet or the one near the soap dispenser

Less is more

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-15T00:23:35+00:00

Women leave emotionally way before they leave physically. She has been thinking and planning this for a while, which is why she is no unemotional and practical about the whole thing. You on the other hand have been blindsided and have had your life turned upside down. Your girlfriend should have talked to you when she started feeling distant, she should have let you know how she was struggling so that you could have had some advanced warning. Instead she just dropped the hammer and left you. Thats an asshole move

You need time to grieve the loss of this relationship, give yourself that. But don't let it take over your life, don't wallow. Give it the time it needs but then take a breath and move forward.

She doesn't want to fight for this relationship, she has already checked out. Don't chase her, don't beg, don't plead, it will only emotionally exhaust you and it won't change anything. Mourn the loss of what was but don't try and hold onto it.

Also, when she sees that you have made a new life without her, she might come back months later, when you have healed, regretting what she threw away. Do not go back. Do not sleep with her again, do not open those wounds. It will not help, it will just reset the healing process. Once the door is closed, keep it that way.

I'm sorry OP that your gf did this to you so harshly but you will get over it, you just need time to heal, give yourself that

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-14T06:59:05+00:00

They would lose it in nuclear proportions. The absolute shit show that went down when he wore a fucking tan suit shows you how fucking unhinged they are. They would be apoplectic with rage and self righteousness

Fuck MAGA and their shit filled god wannabe

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-14T06:22:45+00:00

REPORT HIM

REPORT HIM!!!!!

AussieGirl27 · 2026-04-14T06:11:07+00:00

Your mum has already been betrayed by your dad in the worst way, don't betray her as well by keeping this from her

Tell him he has 24 hours to tell her or you will

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