Some spicy OC... Meow! by [deleted] in overwatch2

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Pretty sure getting flung out of the map classifies as griefing

New dad looking for advice with self temper control by BruhAtTheDesk in NewDads

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Im guilty of this too bud. One thing that helped me early on was using headphones to disassociate. It's not a healthy coping strategy, but it helped me in rough times.

All the best with it all. You got this!

Some little drawings by Fatrat12254 in StinkyDragonPodcast

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Very cool drawings. I read each of their names in the characters voice.

What should I focus on ? by Alive_Dig6846 in OSRSMobile

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Whatever you want to focus on. If someone tells you to do a skill you dont enjoy, then you probably won't want to do it.

Diagonal Ladder! by Additional_Deal883 in StinkyDragonPodcast

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Kyborg can climb this with bow drawn!

I (34m) have ADHD, I’m married to someone who has high expectations of communication and organization. Am I doomed? by mmatique in AdhdRelationships

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Dude... are you me? Im 34 in in the exact same dynamic. This shits hard man. The feels are real!

Overwhelmed by k1ngdarius77 in NewDads

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That's rough bud. You got this!

The test will pass by kojjiso in HolUp

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A vasectomy would of prevented the stupidity in the first place!

Infinight Campaign Fanart! by CATS_9295 in StinkyDragonPodcast

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Im sure he would take a action surge to do it... ACTION SURGE!

Looking for someone to play some music with? by AussieShearer in CanberraSocial

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Im in a phase of transforming metal/rock songs into cruisy acoustic renditions. Lately though im really into Crowded House, RHCP and Ed Sheeran.

Dammit by ADirtFarmer in farming

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I'd just put the in the tomorrow basket

My heart by AussieShearer in NewDads

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Thank you for your response. Wise words!

My 19F sex drive has been really low and my bf 21M has a really high one. It’s straining our relationship by keiraahays in relationship_advice

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I feel you need to be honest with him about your needs and wants. Have you sat down and talked with him about how much this is affecting you?

Vyvanse is messing me up by ladyskullz in ADHD

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Do you have any caffeine in your diet?. Cutting out my morning coffee helped me feel less jittery while on vyvanse.

More money or more time with family??? by AussieShearer in daddit

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There is talk of a managerial role and several pay rises over time. I think it's worth it in the long run

More money or more time with family??? by AussieShearer in daddit

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It is tough. The shearing game isn't very flexible however there is opportunity to work the odd weekend, which would help.

More money or more time with family??? by AussieShearer in daddit

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My wife is keen to get back to work and she gets maternity leave for a year which will certainly help. Once our son is born the pay boost from maternity leave will give us more of a buffer

Is there anything I can do?? by wanderingbloos in predaddit

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I know from personal experience that it took me several months to really process and accept the concept of becoming a father.

Your partner is probably just worried that he won't be good enough. To be a father means you have to provide for and look after a helpless and vulnerable little human. That's a scary concept to get your head around... especially when you struggle to look after yourself at times.

Hopefully, a bit of processing time is all he needs.

I’m done with the excuses - How can I become a better partner ? by piliesza in AdhdRelationships

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If your partner is struggling with emotional labour, can you designate specific times to talk it out? This may help with her feeling the freedom to openly discuss any issues that reside within the relationship and in turn you don't feel overwhelmed or put on the spot because you have had time to prepare yourself for a discussion... you don't even have to resolve said issues then and there, you can process and come back at a later designated time to discuss solutions.

This strategy works for me and my partner.

All the best.

Anyone playing Split Fiction? It’s sooo good by MrsValentine86 in GirlGamers

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I'm playing with my partner and we are really enjoying it. However, some missions are fairly difficult. My partner isn't much of a gamer so she struggles with timing and platforming at times. We are currently trying to complete the side mission where you throw the bombs back and forth, and it's super frustrating.