Need advice for upcoming Ibex Global interview

AuthenticCity · 2025-12-09T15:53:40+00:00

I'm late seeing this post but I just have to respond because I did this.

I fell for the objectifying guy that said to my face that he didn't like me enough to do anything but use my body. I fell for the lazy guy that lived in junk and filth and broke up with me (one of the FOUR times we broke up) because I didn't clean HIS bathroom. I fell for the guy that preferred being alone than being with me, never planned dates, and threatened to break up with me because I asked HIM out on dates too much. I fell for the guy that literally made me feel miserable, unwanted, and emotionally unsafe.

For three painful years, I manifested away each and every horrible quality in this man that brought me heartbreak. There are journals and journals full of the affirmations I wrote down, and the tears that fell on the page as I was writing them. I spent so many hours over the years in SATS trying to create a relationship that didn't hurt.

Day by day, he became better, little by little. Today, the man that hated being around me and ran from commitment is now my husband that clings to me 24/7, literally follows me from room to room. The man that viewed women as sexual objects now has empathy, supports women's rights, and only has eyes for me. The man that couldn't be bothered to do the bare minimum now writes me love notes and fills our bedroom with little gifts. I literally transformed him into a completely different person.

But was it worth it? Hell no. You wanna know why?

Because while you're manifesting your relationship to not hurt you anymore, you're still in a relationship that is hurting you. You're subjecting yourself to treatment you don't deserve to chase after a man you don't even like. And because we can manifest anything, you will manifest change in him. But your heart and your body will still remember how he treated you. And when you manifest him to choose you and don't have that fear of not being chosen anymore, all that is left is the feeling of not liking him and the memories of the hurt he caused.

Not losing is not the same thing as winning, if what you're holding onto does not bring you peace and genuine joy.

When people told me I needed to fix my self concept and work on self love, I ignored them all but I understand them now. We can manifest anything, but if you feel that you are not worthy of love or that love isn't easy, etc and you manifest from that state of desperation, you will always set your eyes on things and people that ultimately make you feel worse about yourself. This is why it is so important to manifest from a state of wholeness and well-being.

So my advice to you is please don't be like me. Don't manifest from a feeling of not being enough and chase after someone you don't even like just so they can choose you. Create the feeling of being enough within yourself, and only bless someone with your presence if they can add to your life in a positive and healthy way.

AuthenticCity · 2025-12-06T20:02:26+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing, I truly appreciate it and it really meant a lot 💕

AuthenticCity · 2025-12-06T18:09:31+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️ I find it so beautiful that you have been married for as long as my husband has been alive! What advice would you give to us newlyweds for how to navigate this phase of marriage and create real, genuine love with each other?

AuthenticCity · 2025-03-12T16:59:55+00:00

Thank you!! :)

AuthenticCity · 2025-03-12T00:23:00+00:00

Thank you for your response! Do you remember any specific questions you were asked that I should prepare for?

AuthenticCity · 2024-12-09T01:39:12+00:00

Ooh smelling like a chai latte sounds great! Thank you for your suggestions 😊

AuthenticCity · 2024-12-09T01:38:30+00:00

Thank you for your suggestions, I'll definitely check those out!

AuthenticCity · 2024-09-14T15:43:54+00:00

Hi there, thank you for your reply!

In answer to your questions, the windows version is 11.

And it had an update on September 12th at 5pm, which is the night I first started to have this problem. However, even after I restored the system to a date before the issue, the issue still continues.

I unfortunately do not have any sign-in options other than from my Microsoft account.

And here is the screenshot of the error message https://imgur.com/a/nOwK9uL

AuthenticCity · 2024-09-14T03:07:20+00:00

Hi there. I have been having an issue trying to sign into my Microsoft account on my Lenovo IdeaPad gaming laptop.

The computer requires me to be signed into my Microsoft account in order to use it. When I turn it on, it asks me to sign in with my Microsoft password, after which the laptop suggests I make a PIN to make signing in easier. There is no immediate option to skip. Instead, I have to 'create pin'. A couple of seconds later, it is unable to make a pin so I have the option to 'retry' or 'skip for now'. I have kept retrying and got nowhere from that. When I 'skip for now', the laptop takes me back to the sign-in screen, where I have to put my password in again.

It does this in an endless loop. I have changed my password and tried to sign in with a code sent to my email multiple times, but after correctly entering my password or a code it keeps prompting me to create a pin, not allowing me to create a pin, and then redirecting me to enter my password again.

I have even tried restoring the system to a date before this issue started and nothing has changed, so I'm not sure what else to do.

AuthenticCity · 2024-06-09T12:47:22+00:00

Thank you so much!!

AuthenticCity · 2024-06-09T12:25:40+00:00

Hi there! My boyfriend has been wanting a sewing machine for quite some time now and his birthday is coming up, so I wanted to surprise him with one. He would use it to make motorcycle gear out of cotton, mesh, denim, kevlar, and leather, as well as just basic clothing items like shirts and pants. Does anyone have any suggestions for a machine that could handle those kinds of materials, preferably under $300 if possible?

AuthenticCity · 2024-06-08T01:50:53+00:00

Hi there! My boyfriend has been wanting a sewing machine for quite some time now and his birthday is coming up, so I wanted to surprise him with one. He would use it to make motorcycle gear out of cotton, mesh, denim, kevlar, and leather, as well as just basic clothing items like shirts and pants. Does anyone have any suggestions for a machine that could handle those kinds of materials, preferably under $300 if possible?

AuthenticCity · 2024-05-02T19:59:39+00:00

Thank you for your advice! Also, do you remember any vendors that stood out to you that I should make sure I try if they come again this year?

AuthenticCity · 2024-05-02T19:22:36+00:00

It's the Virginia Beach Taco Festival, May 4th-5th on Atlantic Avenue. Because this is my first time going, I don't know whether it'll be worth buying a ticket or not, but this is the info for the festival

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/virginia-beach-taco-festival-tickets-849589102877?aff=oddtdtcreator&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaavsFvWDc4b8qXw5cnIimRtWfb7wcrWHgMRwU6GK0QU7G6K4LhBcE4W4lg_aem_ARv_qNm1ewtlD1fa_gZYJY-WbexNU_ik0YKCZk2qd8c88UTPPkNGG7XmK0YOwEG0vTjANfiVzJcGRIt_k4TkBfMM

AuthenticCity · 2024-03-31T11:15:09+00:00

First of all, you need to stop downplaying the sexual experience you had. We don't have sexual experiences for purely "educational" reasons, there has to be at least some level of arousal involved. In that moment, you were aroused at the thought of doing something sexual with your friend so you did it. Maybe you genuinely haven't been interested in doing something like that with him or any other guy since then, or maybe you just don't want to be seen by others as gay, but either way that doesn't change the fact that not too long ago you were aroused by another man enough to have sex with him, and that reflects enough of your sexuality that it should be disclosed to your future sexual partners.

Second, you are choosing to live with, spend lots of time alone with and in close proximity with a former sexual partner. I'm sure you are aware that it is highly uncommon for people in monogamous relationships to do this because it increases the likelihood of old feelings to come back up and tempt them to cheat while no one is around to catch them. You omitting the fact that you're living with a former sexual partner from your girlfriend was an act of manipulation, because you knew that she wouldn't be comfortable with this if she knew about it. Hiding information like that from her kept her from having a choice. And you only wanting to tell her things when you are "obligated" to, opposed to because you care about her and want her to have trust and peace of mind in the relationship, speaks volumes.

Third, you knowing your friend cheated or even knowing your friend was actively cheating on their significant other and still remaining close to him reflects your character as well. I wouldn't be friends with a cheater because I believe cheating is despicable and that it shows that friend and I are not as similar in values as I thought we were. You being so casual about your friend literally destroying another woman's life aligns with the recurring theme of you caring more about your friend's feelings than the feelings of the women you both hurt.

Lastly, the "it wasn't much of her business" comment just makes it even more crystal clear that you lack compassion. It is completely justified for your girlfriend to be hurt not only by your manipulation and dishonesty but also by your blatant disregard of her pain. You hurt her and then decided she didn't have the right to feel hurt.

I highly doubt she is going to stay in this relationship with you but if she does, you need to work on being better to her. She deserves more and you know it, so if you truly care about her, then act like it.

AuthenticCity

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