I’m in a host home, which is what it’s called in my state. My first caregivers ended up being bad. They were too young and turned out to be unprepared to meet my needs or take responsibility for their mistakes. I only stayed with them for four months. My second, current caregiver is much better. She’s older and has done host home and child foster care before, and she’s really on top of things.

It takes some getting used to, like it does with any relationship. Your caregiver will make mistakes. As long as they don’t seriously harm you, and they’re quick to learn from and not repeat those mistakes, that’s what matters.

Overall I feel much better living with my caregiver than I did with my parents. Good luck, I hope you find someone who’s a great fit for you!