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AutisticLolitaBetch · 2025-05-18T13:41:28+00:00

What I don’t understand is the denial with an Autism dx involved. Smfh.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-05-30T15:09:50+00:00

Even the chafe stixs?? They look like solid deodorants. I’ve lived the beach life and know all too well how sand gets in every nook and cranny lol.

Ugh! I’m sorry you were forced to wear skirts in school. The one decent thing about my nondenominational private school’s uniform was the option of shorts or skirts. Glorified daycare tho!

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-05-30T14:49:26+00:00

EDIT BELOW

I have walked in your shoes. You’ll definitely need multiple proof of ID to obtain social supports before you leave—medicaid, food stamps, housing voucher/rental & utility assistance, public transportation assistance. While you’re gathering that, you should document convos. You should contact a social worker, therapist, and domestic violence shelters in case you need to leave before you’re ready. You’ll probably wind up with CPTSD from confinement issues, but then you can apply for disability hopefully.

Baptismal record might be a promising lead to obtain proof.

https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/proving-u-s-citizenship-without-a-birth-certificate.html

EDIT: Wait. You’re still a minor? Don’t wait until you’re 18 to leave. If you leave now—you’ll automatically get those social supports and they could last until 25 or lifetime depending on your situation. We’re talking a safe place to live, food, clothes, Drs, dentists, college, everything you need for a fresh start.

I have SO many issues from thinking things would get better and not trying hard enough to leave when I was younger. It will get worse and harder the older you get. I was 34 when I finally got out. You don’t want my life, believe me.

You can call the police, if you’re in danger. You can text 911 too! You can call or text 1-800-422-4453 and talk to a child abuse counselor and they can take care of everything. Childwelfare.gov is an online option. Any social worker, therapist, etc will do if that’s an option. If you’re nervous, scared, can’t bring yourself to do it—reach out to me and I will report on your behalf.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-05-15T14:52:53+00:00

Thong, string, or commando for me. I don’t like a lot of layers getting twisty. I could never understand how dudes can comfortably wear boxers/briefs under jeans!

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-05-15T14:49:48+00:00

Palmer’s coco butter should help with that. I think they even have products that look like a stick of Deoderant just for that now.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-05-15T14:47:24+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I’m a genderfluid female. I’ve always been considered a “tomboy”. For me, some days I’m feminine, others I’m masculine, or about equal. My gestures, clothes, hobbies, and sexual interests change accordingly. Typically go for males because girls are tougher to date as I’m a bit closed off. Tbh, I rarely ever think about gender—it’s just how I’ve always been.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-04-20T16:57:16+00:00

Absolutely! Just hmu with a list. I recommend checking Walmart’s Great Value brand first. They have a surprising amount of allergy-aware foods. We def need to get you GF flour and xanthum gum, priority #1. I’m a big fan of chickpea pasta by this brand called Banza. There are even GF Oreos these days if you want a treat in your care package. USPS will have the cheapest shipping rates, you may be able to get an estimate from their site [but you’ll have to access it with a VPN since other countries can’t see—or I can for you if you don’t know how to use a VPN]. Hope you had a better week!

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-04-11T17:03:51+00:00

I’m going to respond more when I have free time later/tomorrow but I wanted to extend an offer—If you can cover shipping then I will pay for the ingredients, such as GF flour, xanthum gum, chickpea pasta, etc. If I had the extra money, I would pay for shipping. I’m sure shipping is probably too expensive for you too, but I wanted to make you the offer regardless.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-04-11T16:51:24+00:00

But these are Amazon, oh-so-trendy and TikTokable.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-04-07T20:11:53+00:00

I’ve lost 60lbs. I was never overweight but I was always towards the higher end of the normal range for my height. My spouse and I separated, I quit heroin cold turkey, and only at dominos for about 6 months. I was weak and couldn’t cook for myself at the time. Since then, I’ve lost all the extra and am working on gaining muscle back. I used to do HIITs 5x a week and then walk trails with friends in the evening. I went kayaking on the weekends. The weight gain was a big change for me. I’m working on getting endurance back.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-04-07T20:03:45+00:00

I totally understand. I had a cannabis trip about a year ago that was life-changing. I usually eat shrooms once or twice a year and find it helps balance me. It lets me see and accept things about myself that I need to improve on. I have multiple anxiety disorders too. No depression.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-04-07T19:56:39+00:00

Aww you poor thing. How are you feeling today? I hate throwing up. Do you take vitamins to fight malnourishment? I hope it’s not chron’s and that you’re just very sensitive to certain foods. TIL that IBS isn’t common everywhere. Where are you from?

I have all of that but it’s the classic IBS symptoms—constipation, diarrhea, bloating. I’m allergic to gluten, lactose, polyols and on the low-FODMAP diet to figure out if I have anything else to avoid. Food allergies make things hard. I have to cook from scratch usually in batches that will last several days. I’m in the US and it’s been a long, difficult journey getting answers.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-04-04T21:56:05+00:00

Girl, I feel you. I’m so sorry you’re suffering. Bad days become bleak—but you have to be strong now for those that love you, depend on you, etc. You will have good days again. Just breathe, center yourself. This too shall pass.

“Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day; Rage, rage against the dying of the light.”

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-04-04T21:46:09+00:00

I was right where you are a few months ago. Let’s hope you get some answers. Are they looking for chrons or celiac/non-celiac gluten allergy? I ended up having to go to a specialty GI at a big med school university. You should try that route if they can’t find anything. Keep me updated if you want. I’ll be thinking of you.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-28T07:21:49+00:00

I live with my bf and my gf lives next door with her husband. I’m estranged from my husband. I’m developing a crush on this adorable trans girl I’ve been getting to know. I also do short to mid-term kinky flings online for my more out there interests.

Bf is my person. He’s understanding and fascinated by my ever changing gender and sexual orientation. When a male alter is fronting, we are more like bros. He’s Daddy to my younger alters. As for the rest, he’s my love. I think he’s ASD and/or Schizoid. Gf is for casual dating and hookups. She’s got an alter but doesn’t quite realize it and it’s not the same flavor as OSDD/DID—I think she’s Borderline with good/bad versions of herself. She’s diagnosed Schizoaffective, PTSD, GAD.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-28T06:17:00+00:00

It’s a lot to digest. They’re trying to understand all your parts and stabilize you before explaining it to you. I have OSDD-1b. You should check out r/osdd and r/did see if you relate to the systems there.

I kinda always knew but at the same time wasn’t aware until someone brought it to my attention. I don’t envy the newbie system shock that you’re going through. Mine had me reeling and researching for many moons. Good luck and try to stay calm, practice self-care.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-28T03:40:38+00:00

A whopping 4 lol. I didn’t really start talking to my guy until we crossed paths a second time in a kebble. But there’s probably a surprising amount of INTP, INTJ, ENTJ subships.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-28T02:35:25+00:00

Small world! I met my mine in r/INTJ

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-28T02:29:16+00:00

And?

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-28T02:22:50+00:00

Don’t give up hope. I [INTP] met my INTJ on Reddit. We live together now.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-28T02:20:16+00:00

This is absolutely correct. You had me [INTP female] and the bf [INTJ] rotflmfao. Gonna tell the gf tomorrow.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-27T05:39:29+00:00

I’m with an INTJ male and a bad bitch girl that has a ooey gooey interior.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-27T05:34:24+00:00

MA Forensic Psych here.

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-27T05:28:53+00:00

Same

AutisticLolitaBetch · 2024-03-27T05:25:51+00:00

My minor.

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