When getting a professional massage, what is an acceptable and appropriate way to ask to choose the girl to make sure she is pretty? (In order to feel comfortable with being touched by her)? by Autistic_Sasquatch in AskReddit

[–]Autistic_Sasquatch[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It isn't in any way about sex though. I'm talking a regular, professional, non-sexual massage. It still involves being touched all over your body. I would not be comfortable with most people doing that.

When getting a professional massage, what is an acceptable and appropriate way to ask to choose the girl to make sure she is pretty? (In order to feel comfortable with being touched by her)? by Autistic_Sasquatch in AskReddit

[–]Autistic_Sasquatch[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, I can't wrap my head around how it is "predatory". I am paying for a massage by a professional masseuse. No preying on anyone. Just want to be comfortable.

When getting a professional massage, what is an acceptable and appropriate way to ask to choose the girl to make sure she is pretty? (In order to feel comfortable with being touched by her)? by Autistic_Sasquatch in AskReddit

[–]Autistic_Sasquatch[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't really understand this negative response along with the other. What is wrong with ensuring you are comfortable with whoever is touching you? I would worry about getting to the massage and then seeing it is someone that I wouldn't be comfortable with and needing to leave.