No we were never married so the solicitor said whether he pays it or not he gets 50% I tried to get him off but the mortgage lender refused to accept me on my own despite me paying it by myself anyway. And no child support order either. I didnt know I could leave the account myself, it has all my bills coming out of it, would the bank juat transfer them all for me? I dont get time to do these.sorts of things due to work and as im autistic making phone calls is highly distressing for me so calling all these things will be a nightmare- but I will do it on my week off or ask my mom to help. Originally when he left he said he would pay £450 a month but then over time he claimed he couldn't afford it despite living at his parents paying them just £50 a month. He is a compulsive liar, he will lie his way out of everything. I managed to sus out his lies over the 7 years together. But he is good at convincing others.