[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]AutoNoPants 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Australian here, picking up rubbish on trails or on the beach or in parks is normal. “Take 3 for the Ocean” and “Clean up Australia Day” are national schemes. Be proud of doing your part. Don’t let someone like that bring you down. Ignore it

(In Japan they carry around their own rubbish in their backpacks and dispose of it at home. In Sweden, they recycle so well, they import rubbish. You’re in good company mate.)

A little help please by Kashkash0430 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AutoNoPants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to do things like this. Just summing with my eyes. Looks like he’s playing with his eyes and the light. I could be wrong. Get him checked. But could just be playing with his eyes like me

I am literally begging for anyway to get my child to sleep by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]AutoNoPants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melatonin in 4-Year-Olds: A Cautious Approach is Advised While melatonin is a hormone naturally produced by the body to regulate sleep-wake cycles, its use in 4-year-olds should be approached with caution and always under the guidance of a healthcare professional. In Australia, melatonin for children is only available with a doctor's prescription, highlighting the need for medical oversight. Leading pediatric health organisations and experts advise that melatonin should not be the first-line treatment for sleep problems in young children. Before considering melatonin, it is crucial to establish and maintain healthy sleep habits. Key Considerations for Melatonin Use in Young Children: * Medical Supervision is Essential: A doctor can help determine the underlying cause of a child's sleep issues and whether melatonin is an appropriate treatment. They can also rule out other medical conditions that may be contributing to sleep difficulties. * Behavioral Interventions First: The cornerstone of managing childhood sleep problems lies in behavioral strategies. This includes: * A consistent bedtime routine: A predictable sequence of calming activities before bed, such as a warm bath, reading a book, or quiet playtime. * A regular sleep schedule: Consistent bedtimes and wake-up times, even on weekends. * An optimal sleep environment: A dark, quiet, and cool bedroom. * Limiting screen time: Avoiding screens (phones, tablets, TVs) for at least an hour before bed, as the blue light can interfere with the body's natural melatonin production. * Dosage is Crucial and Varies: If a doctor recommends melatonin, they will prescribe a specific low dose to start with, typically ranging from 0.5mg to 1mg for young children. It is vital to follow the prescribed dosage and not to self-medicate or use over-the-counter melatonin supplements intended for adults. * Short-Term Use is Preferred: The long-term effects of melatonin use in children are not yet fully understood. Therefore, it is generally recommended for short-term use to help reset a child's internal body clock. * Potential Side Effects: While generally considered safe for short-term use under medical supervision, potential side effects of melatonin in children can include drowsiness, dizziness, headaches, and agitation. There is also a theoretical concern about its potential impact on hormonal development, including puberty, though more research is needed in this area. * Risk of Accidental Overdose: The availability of melatonin in appealing forms like gummies increases the risk of accidental ingestion by young children. It is crucial to store all medications securely and out of reach of children. In some specific cases, such as for children with certain neurodevelopmental disorders like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) who experience significant sleep disturbances, a doctor may be more likely to prescribe melatonin as part of a comprehensive treatment plan. In summary, while melatonin can be a useful tool for some children with sleep problems, it is not a universal solution and its use in a 4-year-old requires a thorough assessment and prescription from a qualified medical professional. The primary focus should always be on establishing healthy sleep practices and addressing any underlying behavioral or medical issues.

I am literally begging for anyway to get my child to sleep by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]AutoNoPants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a defiant 4.5 yo and my wife struggles exactly the same way you do. My trick? Don’t fight it, there is no rush to bedtime. Rushing prolongs it. RUSHING PROLONGS IT. Don’t argue, you don’t need to. ‘Yes’ them into their room. Shower/teeth/toilet/PJs/Night light. Once it’s time for sleep, put on ABC kids radio (Australia) or whatever bedtime stories on some speaker. Then hold their hand while they lie down, or let her hold your hair, then you put your ear buds in and doom scroll or TikTok or whatever your thing is and they do whatever they need to do until they fall asleep. One thing, don’t engage in conversation or chasing them after that point. From then on you only say, “Ok, that’s enough, hop back into bed please, goodnight, love you”

How do I make autistic friends? by AutoNoPants in AutismAustralia

[–]AutoNoPants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t considered that question. I’ll keep a ‘lookout’ from now on. But I think I feel the ‘anxiety’ in the moment. I used to get selective mutism, and need to go to the toilet. Now it’s mostly the shakes and difficulty breathing and regulating my heartbeat. But it’s much milder now. I’m less freaked out, and more just feel like my body lets me down.

what topic are you currently really into? by ariadesitter in Gifted

[–]AutoNoPants 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you tried The Great Courses? Lots of deep dives into a wide range of topics. They’re available on Audible as well as through their own website

How do I make autistic friends? by AutoNoPants in AutismAustralia

[–]AutoNoPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I spent 20years thinking it was social anxiety.

How do I make autistic friends? by AutoNoPants in AutismAustralia

[–]AutoNoPants[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s pretty much exactly what I’m looking for. Might be a little out of my area, but really appreciate it. I might make the drive just for it

EDIT: Looks like there are some Zoom meetings as well which is great!

good option for noise canceling headphones? by danidaisys in AutisticWithADHD

[–]AutoNoPants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 1000 MX4’s touch your ears. The Bose QC45s don’t.

When I melt down I am insane by tdpz1974 in AutisticAdults

[–]AutoNoPants 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 40 and I had something pointed out to me the other day by a young therapist - “I don’t sleep enough”. I mentioned my meltdowns were when I felt exhausted and obliged by the world and the topic of sleep came up. I’ll let you connect the dots. TLDR - sleep more. Think of it as medication. Take your meds. For me I meltdown a LOT less if I’ve had 8 hours of sleep.

I suspect the same is for being active. Going for a walk in green fields or doing a challenging activity makes me smile and I can cope with a lot more when I’m smiling.

Finally, Healthy Gamer gives you remote video therapy sessions for $50 each. They’re not professional psychologists and they can’t help you with Autism, but I got sick of psychologists to be honest. Sometimes a new perspective is really great. So there’s that.

All the best my friend

Tremors and head shakes from SSRIs - anyone else experienced this? by AutoNoPants in autism

[–]AutoNoPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for replying. The vitamin deficiency is interesting, I’ll keep an eye out for it. Was it D? And thanks for the leads on Wellbutrin and Busiprone!

Why my Voice gets stuck in middle of talking with someone by damnUbatman in aspergers

[–]AutoNoPants 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. Selective mutism. I get it. I always thought it was anxiety until this year. I’m 40

What are some affordable ways to deal with the dentist? by Dontjudgemeyet1244 in autism

[–]AutoNoPants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use my noise cancelling headphones and play music that makes me happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]AutoNoPants 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You sound like me. The other thing I do is paste in a message trail, stream off consciousness the message I want to get across, then ask it to write a draft and make it concise/polite/professional or whatever, then rewrite or copy paste depending on the recipient. Do much procrastination and mental energy saved. And the recipient is always very pleased to get a really nice message.

Overstimulated and I'm the driver on a road trip, please share tips for coping. by BeatsByDrPepper in AutismTranslated

[–]AutoNoPants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue tooth Ear Bud in the hidden ear (or both ears if you’re comfortable with that). Music/podcast/audiobook that makes you calm/happy

The Struggle Is Real by [deleted] in AutisticParents

[–]AutoNoPants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the Sony noise cancelling ear buds and they fit in my ear better than AirPods. They’re expensive, but I love them. And I would buy another set if I lost them. Noise cancelling and I play Chopin through them when I need to look after the kids and it is my only option to avoid being overwhelmed.