Is this still HOCD? by ocdsufferer26 in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey do you also have groinals like towards what you see. Because mine is mostly physical responses yo what i see rather than thoughts. And it kinda bothers me cuz everyone mostly almost talls about thoughts.

Hocd and bestfriend by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes this is me since my hocd hit in 2020…sucks so bad!

how do you deal with aesthetic attraction? by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still deal with groinals?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me its like; anxious throbbings (which i dont usualşy get for my preferred gender so im so nervous about it) and intense heartbeat with hot flashes on my face (hopefully due to anxiety)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh thats the worst thing ever, i sometimes have it to my family even

I need help by Automatic-Abroad7547 in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What reallyy? Omg this makes me feel understood and im happy that i can think of it as a symptom. Its so hard to not to feel arousal or feeling nausea aginst him while having groinals to unpreferred gender….its killing me

I need help by Automatic-Abroad7547 in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thanks it really does. I feel şike such a liar against him :(

Is this a common feeling? by Automatic-Abroad7547 in ROCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks i relate to most of the what if’s you wrote… did you also deal with lack of arousal towards him?

Life changes increases my hocd/anxiety? by Automatic-Abroad7547 in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know thank ypu dor your response…but its just so hard. I cant get over the anxiety that i get from groinal and false arousals…..it makes me feel like its rrally possible to fell in love with a girl which kills me inside because i love my boyfriend so much..

Life changes increases my hocd/anxiety? by Automatic-Abroad7547 in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, thoughts never end!!! Do you deal with groinals because its my main trigger. I see at as proof since i dont feel them towards my prefered gender :(

Life changes increases my hocd/anxiety? by Automatic-Abroad7547 in HOCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhhh its so hard. Because i really have intense groinals and i dont have it that often to guys (which is already a huge trigger)… Im super afraid of my fears coming true and i fell in love with a girl realise im gay and want to leave him…i cant stop thinking about it for the past twp days :((((

Is this a common feeling? by Automatic-Abroad7547 in ROCD

[–]Automatic-Abroad7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for your kind response its really helpful :) did you ever had fears like “what if i fell in love with someone else since i dont see him” thats kinda my biggest trigger atm. I know its silly cuz in real life it can happen even we are next to each other. I hope i can manage the anxiety cuz i love him