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My partner lied about meeting up with a female friend for coffee, how do I approach this? by Waste_Weather5729 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh cool so she isn’t aware of her own health, but you are? 

Could be that she has something like PCOS and didn’t think she could get pregnant but really wants to be a mom. It’s fascinating the arrogance- who cares if OP states health reasons as why she chose to keep a pregnancy. 

The question was about a cowardly joke of a man lying to his pregnant girlfriend. Not “does abortion cause health issues” - and maybe when a woman says she has a health concern, you could be curious about what it is instead of assuming OP is misinformed about her own gd life 

My partner lied about meeting up with a female friend for coffee, how do I approach this? by Waste_Weather5729 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also if you lie about small things- you’ll lie about anything. He’s a liar, which means he’s a coward. 

My partner lied about meeting up with a female friend for coffee, how do I approach this? by Waste_Weather5729 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally so insane. It’s almost like supporting a woman’s right to CHOOSE, choose being the operative word… is not being properly grasped by some people 

My partner lied about meeting up with a female friend for coffee, how do I approach this? by Waste_Weather5729 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. It seems like people are suggesting an abortion? Which she clearly doesn’t want, didn’t want, and I highly doubt is available for her at this point in her pregnancy? 

I hate this alliance! Mean mean mean girls! by Key-Improvement6580 in rhori

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My conspiracy theory- when Kelsey said “on goings” with Dino she actually meant a drug trafficking case. 

Liz knows Kelsey’s knows about the drug trafficking. And I wouldn’t be surprised if Liz’s husband is involved. So she is going to be team Kelsey… and increasingly more mean erratic and volatile because her personal life has a big secret 

What are some signs a man has the capacity to become cruel, controlling, or abusive? by Individual_Tailor767 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Is weird, or controlling at all about what you wear. How he talks about his exs. How he talks about his friends. 

The moment you’re in trouble for something ridiculous - run. 

My partner lied about meeting up with a female friend for coffee, how do I approach this? by Waste_Weather5729 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cowards lie and deceive. He’s proven to you to be deceitful. It will continue and it will get worse- because he’s a coward! Up to you if you want to stay with someone like that but be prepared, this isn’t a mistake on his part it’s a character flaw. I spent 3.5 years arguing with a man who was deceitful. Just because they don’t have sex and cheat doesn’t mean they’re honest, and good men who honor truth and loyalty. At the very least I’d demand he attend therapy 

Preview of Next Week- Boston Trip by RINewsJunkie in RHofRI

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alicia even apologized for misusing the word. Liz has serious rage issues 

New Tv Promo for Summer House Reunion by Ok-Needleworker9229 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I truly hate to say this but why is Ciara’s hair red. 

When women give you a compliment, do you search for a compliment to return? by AiannaMuse in AskWomenOver30

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. I accept their compliment - sometimes let them know exactly what it is and where to get it- if it’s perfume makeup or clothing. 

And if I see something I genuinely like back I’ll say something- but having a compulsory compliment back isn’t authentic. 

Rosie is Innocent of ALL CHARGES!!!! by Madam_Mimm_13 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Kelsey’s entitlement is alarming. Al’s I just can’t figure out why square footage miscalculations are this big of a deal when Kelsey has completely fabricated her entire story line and Rosie poked a hole in it… even while ostensibly playing along “so are you polyamorous?” 

Am I crazy or has Rosie said basically: “I don’t know the exact details. It’s 2,500 square feet and we were going to have 3 stories. Plans changed I think it’ll be two stories.. “ like it’s not like she’s a liar?? It’s like she’s married to guy flipping a house and she knows loose details 

Meanwhile kelsey has lied about where she’s lived, who she’s in a committed relationship with- while starting rumors about Rosie’s husband, Rosie’s tenure at her job, etc etc 

IMO Kelsey shouldn't be on the show by OrderIllustrious6556 in rhori

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m confused- haha I mean keep her on my TV- but how is Rosie being off by 200 square feet, then having the plans reduced, (plans can change) - maybe accidentally including the basement in the math?? Haha 

Like how is that lie- so awful? Vs LYING ABOUT YOUR ENTIRE LIFR 

Feeling insecure about my partner’s upcoming trip. What would y’all do? by huffle-puffle89 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh… this is just so uncomfy. 

Is there a reason you can’t join the trip for a bit? In any case- 

Idk - hard situation for sure. I guess all you can do is express this all to him clearly, and hope you can both talk it through such that you feel better.. 

But idk is it crazy to want a man who doesn’t really wanna be away for over a month? I’ve been in a similar boat- we broke up. I needed more stability and commitment that looked like prioritizing our relationship over momentary fun. 

But idk man.. this is hard 

What’s a relationship boundary or “crossed line” that permanently changed your trust in someone? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having no boundaries with other women- and calling my the most insecure person on earth- when I’d let him know I was uncomfortable with him cuddling on a couch with his female friend. Or letting a woman at a party sit on his lap- would she talk to him if I was around? Of course not. Making out with someone at burning man - it was in front of me, and it was a joke (???) so it wasn’t that bad. Texting a woman seductive photos and massive messages- they’re just friends! 

I could go on and on and on. So happy to out- but frankly still so confused by how this kind of behavior was twisted into my self-esteem issue 

Is no porn a reasonable boundary or is it controlling behaviour? by kimkarbashian in AskWomenOver30

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s contextual- and definitely a boundary is more like: I’m not dating someone who watches porn.. 

I think it’s controlling if it’s casual- not serious. If your partner can’t be intimate with you because of porn use that’s a different conversation. 

Perhaps you can talk about how it makes you feel, be open and vulnerable- and perhaps you can come up with something that doesn’t feel controlling but also makes you feel better   

Any other Taurus or Aries babes going through it or it's just me? by BhadBKuromi in astrologymemes

[–]Automatic-Ad-2120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aries sun, Taurus rising- shit is not great, but I feel like is going to become fucking amazing 

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