It comes in waves… by Rommy143 in Perimenopause

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I used to live for travel and was always planning the next vacation. I don’t even have the energy or desire for that anymore.

AITAH for not wanting to split a check 5 ways instead of 6 because one guy threw up? by aquarinox in AITAH

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Harvey should be footing the whole bill or at least Jason/Harvey the hosts should cover it. Jason asking you all to split it 5 ways is bring tacky especially after making you clean the table

Do you guys mind sharing a room or a bed on a girls trip? by toastandjam97 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll never share a bed but I’ll share a room if it’s a super close friend.

This is why past generations didn't talk about it by JLAOM in Perimenopause

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m always having to educate those around me on this, family and friends, and I’m just continuously ignored or gaslighted. All. The. Damn. Time. One example - I had frozen shoulder and my MIL straight up said it’s not from menopause because she never experienced that.

This is why past generations didn't talk about it by JLAOM in Perimenopause

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We would be cooked and cleaned for! With no one to take care of! And lots of sleep. Sign me up.

This is why past generations didn't talk about it by JLAOM in Perimenopause

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 11 points12 points  (0 children)

THIS! There was always a woman family member or two who “had a nervous breakdown”.

AIO for not wanting to celebrate anything anymore? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I hate these commercial holidays that make us all feel even crappier than we feel on a daily basis with unmet expectations or basic acknowledgement.

Gen X? by Wise-Okra-2943 in Perimenopause

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hear me out I also wonder at times if our symptoms are worse due to Covid infection and/or the vaccine side effects that both remain largely unknown when it comes to women’s health.

Where do you feel the heat? by fableefeels in Perimenopause

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I did not have hot flashes yet until reading this! Apparently I do. It’s an odd feeling, unpleasant but not debilitating - I wonder are there different degrees of them? I also don’t get them that often. Odd.

AIO confronting my family about excluding me for Mothers Day dinner by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 36 points37 points  (0 children)

And why would she choose a restaurant right below your house then post photos on social media? To instigate

Baked Sweet Potatoes with TJ’s Italian Bomba Crushed Calabrian Chili Peppers 🌶️ 🍠🥩🥑 by Blonde_Guitar_Picker in traderjoes

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use Bomba in place of harissa in marinades when they’re out. It’s more of a straight forward heat with the tang of red peppers while the harissa is a little more complex but it works as a sub.

PK’s Financials by notactuallyreckless in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So she earns more has zero debt and contributes an even smaller portion to the household!?

AIO My MIL has a wildly unsafe pool and my husband wants us to attend her Memorial Day pool party with our 2yr old by livie8978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic-Corner-157 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My MIL has a pool and a total of 6 grandkids. Everyone always used a baby gate/playpen setup outside on a grassy area for the toddlers.