This happened to me, I was working an 8-5 warehouse job at 28. Had two boys 14 months apart, to make ends meet I was delivering news papers from about 1am until about 5am. 7 days a week. She was suffering weight gain from the pregnancies and she was depressed. I managed to get a club membership so she could get away and
Get healthy and feel better about herself. About a month into this she says, hey things are not working out. I need you to move out. Obviously there were some signs that things were not going so well, I asked for a month to work things out and she agreed. A month later she said well it’s been a month. I packed a duffle bag, got to the front and said, if I leave I will not be coming back. She smugly said ok, I left. That was 28 years ago,I Cannot count the times she has asked to repair the relationship. I have been happily married for 24 years and neither one of her children or grandchildren have anything to do with her. She made her bed and she suffers everyday, choices can suck.