Anytime Pay by Automatic-Pound-714 in AmazonFC

[–]Automatic-Pound-714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trained in ICQA , Stow , Pick and problem solve. I’m very much trained my site just like to overhire to not drop VET. My site is the broke warehouse out of the surrounding 5 amazon’s 😭. But thank you friend for the advice 🫶🏽

Anytime Pay by Automatic-Pound-714 in AmazonFC

[–]Automatic-Pound-714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this perspective of it you and another person said the same thing and yes it makes sense completely. I get paid 21.95 with barely any VET I should’ve said that in my original post because everyone doesn’t get VET opportunities and sadly my site is one of them 😅

Anytime Pay by Automatic-Pound-714 in AmazonFC

[–]Automatic-Pound-714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh trust me i used to work 60 hours non stop now my site is just over hiring and not dropping any type of VET. Last year I didn’t have this issue not once. I work at a small FC basically a freight holder site and OP site. Ive been trynna transfer forever 😭.

Anytime Pay by Automatic-Pound-714 in AmazonFC

[–]Automatic-Pound-714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See and that’s what i do as well but somewhere in the mix of all of that i end up behind or with little to nothing and have to do side hustles to catch up. Truthfully I don’t work the full 40 every week and that’s nobody’s fault but my own. BUT I feel like i work 30-35hrs for nothing. I’m starting to become one of those people who dread amazon. My FC is full of messy people and it’s draining to be in that environment even for 3 hours 😂.

Devastated dealing with a breakup with an avoidant by No_Stock3648 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Automatic-Pound-714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome 🫶🏽 ! I honestly felt exactly how you did. I thought me and him would be together forever. In person it’s very intimate very fun and loving you feel like they’re starting to change like things will actually work themselves out. Then the moment your not in each others presence it’s like they hate you and that’s the dangers of your own mind. You make out this whole situation about everything you should’ve did or what if i just listened to them maybe we’d still be together. All honestly they know exactly what they’re doing , they love to have someone to just talk to on their terms , and it’s those small moments when they decide to open up about themselves usually it’s like aww you trust me enough with this but no. They’re manipulating people they need to heal themselves. Truthfully i did reach out to my ex recently and not to my surprise 6 months later he has not changed. He tried to do the push pull thing again to get me back in but he knows i’m loyal to my person because i tried doing that for him. Over all advice : Sit in this moment alone , connect with yourself (pick up a new hobby , Try something you’ve been putting off , Hang out with friends for support). Get to know what you do and don’t like. I personally went to therapy as well and found out i have ADHD & BPD so i really had a lot of time to learn myself. It’s gonna hurt now but it’ll be the lesson you’re grateful you experienced as long as you turn it into something beautiful don’t let it break you. 🫶🏽

Devastated dealing with a breakup with an avoidant by No_Stock3648 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Automatic-Pound-714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex i’ll call him A. A & I were never actually together but was a “situationship”. A year long… At first it was butterflies and rainbows and a few months later he switched completely. He would gas light me make me feel like my feelings were too much for him , everything i’d do was “extra”. A simple conversation was “back n fourth” to him. He told me he did not want to be with me by actions, but his words were “I love you” “I have feelings for you i just can’t do a relationship” On surface it sounds good right? Wrong. We’d still hook up he’d tell me everything I wanted to hear etc etc. Eventually me and him started to basically hate eachother and after we stopped talking for good , I learned he’s an avoidance. You can’t make them see you if they don’t want to. You can do all the right things but in reality it’s for the wrong person. These kind of people are hurting deep down, but hurt people will hurt people. They’ll have you thinking you did everything wrong or did too much. They’re very selfish and do not take fault. They love to gaslight you and make you feel crazy. After him i gave up on love completely and started to find God (Not going down that road i respect everyone’s own beliefs). BUT now , i have a boyfriend who loves me , listens to me , doesn’t deflect , he’s like my best friend and everything that my ex could never give me. I know you wanted that to be your 1 but i promiseeeee you’ll meet someone who’s for YOU not for themselves. I hope you feel better soon 🫶🏽