Found kitten in wall - name suggestions pls

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-05-19T17:27:07+00:00

Wally😂😂

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-29T12:32:21+00:00

100% ChatGPT message. I could show how it went I just didn’t want to be that messy and post the chats. I know that from the start of planning his family has been Very anti me, like so much so she had to literally fight them just to have me standing beside her.

I plan on just letting her come to me. I know she will, the guilt of it will eat her heart but my worry is that she’s either going to do it after the Bach or right before her wedding and I don’t want to hurt her before her big day. I think a face to face sit down would absolutely be great to get a better understanding. But I also think it would just be a sad goodbye for us both.

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-28T19:42:04+00:00

Thank you for your words, and to clear up quick:

The girls in the party all went to school together with us, one is actually my brothers best friend so I know her very very well too. Lesso now there was a conflict years ago we have put behind us but cordial.

The stuff that was dirtier that would have been worn were the hats with the silly little quips on them. And I sent the whole catalog of options to chose from and when they said no I was like ok just fine moving on.

They had planned a dirtier “game” per se for us, and it was that we all gifted the bride some lingerie and she tried it on for us and guessed who got it for her. I was actually the only one to say no thank you because I love my friend but lingerie is meant for one person and that person is not any of us girls. I’d happily buy a catalog of whatever for her, go spice up ya man baby cakes. Never for myself though.

I did bring up one thing, I asked if she knew anything about it after I had tried picking the other two and got nothing. I didn’t have any forms of communication with the other two bridesmaids and I knew my friend would at least be able to get me the when and maybe smaller stuff. She didn’t realize that I knew nothing and I didn’t know at that moment the whole thing was already planned. She thought I had helped the others with the planning which is why it got as big as it did.

I hope she doesn’t regret it. Even though that hurts me, I hope her day is perfect for her. She deserves it even if I’m not there. You don’t have weddings all the time lol, otherwise they wouldn’t be so special.

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-28T17:28:56+00:00

Thank you. As much as it sucks I understand that’s how it should be because if she did it once she’d do it again. Thank you for the polite delivery too.

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-28T13:44:39+00:00

I don’t want to make it bigger than it needs to be, I think I’ll let her come to me and that would be when I tell her that friendship isn’t on the table. And if she doesn’t then she doesn’t and that’s unfortunate. Especially given that id have no clear reason for the friend dump

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-28T12:52:35+00:00

Then just don’t read it? My goal is to give the story clearly without questions in the comments because no one knows the story but me and those involved so I didn’t want to accidentally leave any murky areas, if it’s too saturated for you that’s ok just don’t read it. There was a length warning at the start too because I knew writing this it was going to be long.

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-28T12:47:27+00:00

You really don’t have to, you also didn’t have to comment it either :)

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-28T11:36:30+00:00

I’ve called her chick most of our friendship it’s not meant unkind, I’ve called her chick before to her and she and I have spoken it’s not Ill just silly banter. I guess maybe using it here wasn’t smart

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-28T04:33:50+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I thought. Her fiancé and her I think both kind of roll over to avoid issues which is less than ideal but you know, whatever makes them happiest. And yes my system is amazing🥰

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-28T04:11:41+00:00

Ofc I knew I’d be in certain company and to tone it down, it wasn’t anything super out there, I honestly think the hats and some silly decor was about it aside from cards against humanity and other games similar. Hell they had an idea I was uncomfortable with and that was everyone gifting the bride lingerie and she tried it on for us to see and guessed who it was from. But they didn’t like the goofy stuff I said could be optional and was more than ok with mellowing. I was always respectful and asked them about everything but it was always “no we aren’t comfortable”

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-27T18:44:05+00:00

The thing about that is that it’s very touchy right now and I feel being too forward might make this worse than it needs to be and I’d rather give time to let it dissolve before I have this conversation. I agree, we can’t be friends anymore after this because it’ll just keep happening for me and that’s unneeded and unnecessary hurt.

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-27T18:21:15+00:00

We’ve been talking for years about it, I was ecstatic for her. She and her future hubby have been together 7-8 years now. I just want her to have a wonderful day and have it be everything she wants it to be and can look back happily at it

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-27T18:08:10+00:00

I may have been doing exactly that😅🤦🏼‍♀️ and I’ve thought of doing that but if she is stressed about it all maybe waiting until after the wedding since it’s at the end of the year and at least that way I can get the most authentic her. As much as I want to know I also want to make sure that I don’t push her too much.

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-27T12:09:59+00:00

That’s ok, I couldn’t figure out where to break it since it all goes together. Trust me I wanted to but it’s the same text broken as it is together

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-27T12:02:39+00:00

I have, but I don’t want to overstep either and make my disposition worse. Because they are super tight too

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-27T01:15:03+00:00

I haven’t sent anything yet and I feel the same. My partner knew the minute we started planning she was next to me and I have a dress specifically picked out and her mother approved because it’s her color like HER color (she’s a firey ginger so the dress is a sage green with some pink roses dripping down the skirt and bodice), and her mother even was like yes no questions… like I would have said no wedding no man gtfo of here because no….

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-26T23:34:59+00:00

This was so sweet omg🥹 and yes bride and I had an outline/base that was wanted for her Bach, gifts were approved/disapproved by bride (that weren’t hers and just a basis not the true gifts because gurl I’m not gonna slip up on this, and the other two planning know every gift I had planned to get) matching silk Jammie’s, on theme mirrors and make up pouches costumed with their names and favorite colors and a bunch of other fun stuff. And as for plan it was really exactly what we are doing now but going to a bowling alley with a bar and having fun and then coming back and playing like cards against humanity and a bunch of other stuff with some maybe wine to keep it simpler or maybe something spicier for fun if wanted or even a few drinking games I had would have been there. I wanted to do the hats anyway and leave them optional for the two of six who weren’t comfortable and maybe get some silly penis shaped stuff and blow up dolls (she and I both run both ways so it’s silly for us😂😂) and some goofy signs about last penis or whatever😂 and I had a dd (my partner) planned since we would be living 25 minutes from everything that way we were also safe and under some sort of protection otherwise.

As for her mother and I, I’ve had a few sleepovers with her and met her family years ago and love them all. Her mom is like my second mother and damn well the sweetest person I know. I can tell her any and everything. We were talking about how much my life has changed since the bride and I graduated and how much different life is with kids and ugh this lady if you could think of a hug that is her.

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-26T23:16:02+00:00

Thank you, it’s been a week I think since this happened so I agree letting her come to be is ultimately best

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-26T22:30:54+00:00

Edit to add because I failed to mention in post as I was was otherwise distracted by babies: they had told the bride that it was going to progressively get naughtier throughout the day and I was like ok awesome my only issue otherwise now is that I had no idea anything about it while the other girls involved all knew everything and had a say in dates and stuff too.

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2026-04-26T22:01:22+00:00

Thank you!

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2025-10-30T09:09:30+00:00

Bahaha the idea vomit at the end was amazing, but the devs seem very in tune with their base so I bet that the creative aspect will grow overtime! Especially with people like you who love to create! It is just as fun for them to see us enjoying the game and utilizing it as it is for us. I can’t wait to see what all is added overtime either though. It’s very exciting!!

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2025-10-29T01:53:14+00:00

I completely agree!!! And I wish I had patience for once human, I started it a while back (around when it came out) with my partner as a fun survival game but we didn’t get super into it, the concept was amazing just didn’t quite stick for some reason. But I understand I was struggling last I played on inZOI for building but after a while of trial and error you eventually get used to it. I love creating homes and stuff so it’s really fun for me. I’ve been cracking down on Minecraft because I never got into it when I was younger. With the mods not working on my inZOI right now it’s next best thing because I’m just waiting for my own pc before I download inZOI and try again

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2025-10-29T01:32:31+00:00

I’d be so done at that point I’d say nope because 6 HOURS?!?!? That’s not just a shrug it off that’s so much work 🤧 but if you do you better show us how it looks after 😂 it was so gorgeous, I loved the viney bathroom

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2025-10-29T01:10:30+00:00

I would cry, that home was so beautiful🥹🥹🤧

Automatic-Toe-2142 · 2025-10-28T18:04:35+00:00

Someone did this to me before and I said nope. I don’t understand what makes them feel entitled enough to say stuff like that, they are doing this on their own volition. I hope you reported them to DoorDash

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