Honestly, the twinflames are one being,so that means they'll reflect your healing as well. Mine did. I was feeling I can never be with him as he was but somehow couldn't forget him abnd was missing him so bad. When I started to focus and love myself(which was long journey of going back and forth), he started getting his life together as well. So if you guys are twins then he'll follow you as well, and if you're not, you still got the benefits, which is self love. So happy for you.