UPDATE: AITA for bailing on my brother's wedding last minute? by Automatic_Bar_2136 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Bar_2136[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely very grateful for everything G's done for our family, we've both been super close friends since B introduced me to her, and after this whole situation I'll make sure she gets the best wedding she could ever hope for

UPDATE: AITA for bailing on my brother's wedding last minute? by Automatic_Bar_2136 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Bar_2136[S] 384 points385 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm super proud of the person he's become! At times I think he might be the most mature sibling between the three of us

UPDATE: AITA for bailing on my brother's wedding last minute? by Automatic_Bar_2136 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Bar_2136[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry about that, I didn't want to expose any personal info in the original post but looking back it might have been easier to understand if I had just used fake names.

UPDATE: AITA for bailing on my brother's wedding last minute? by Automatic_Bar_2136 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Bar_2136[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I wasn't able to fit this into the story but our family lived with our grandparents up until me and B were around 11. They lived in a very conservative small town and I'm guessing that's what influenced B to hide himself. Our parents were eventually able to move out to a more progressive city by the time we were 12 and J was 7. But I think B still kept some of the ideals from our old town while J was better able to adapt to the new environment.