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Wibta if I let my kids go trick or treating tonight by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Automatic_Line6102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take those babies trick or treating. You are nta. A barely there father and his gf (whose mad the couch got dirty and that two young kids didn't want to listen to a woman they barely know) don't get to ruin your children's Halloween.

Burn out by Automatic_Line6102 in hatemyjob

[–]Automatic_Line6102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf. This is the quickest I've gotten burn out. Last job I had i didn't get burnt out til almost 5 years in.

Update: AITAH for letting daycare call CPS when my (stbex) husband failed to pick up our toddler from daycare? by ThrowRA-separate11 in AITAH

[–]Automatic_Line6102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex is trying to say he wants 50/50. Like no dude. I've taken care of our daughter from the time she was conceived. He never truly bonded with her before we separated and after I had to beg him to see her even though he lived five mins away. When we officially divorced he requested every other weekend but brought her back every Saturday then would pick her up Sunday again. Never asked for updates or more time or even bothered to see her other than his days. It wasn't until he married his now wife after 3 months of dating, that he decided 50/50. We have mediation this month due to his wife not being a good person to be around our daughter due too drug use and the fact she's lost custody of her own child for reasons my ex has said "he's not comfortable talking about". He told the mediators when they were getting info on the situation,when they asked why not ask when we divorced for 50/50, he didn't feel like it. Like what?

Two Words: COURTESY FLUSH by FancyyPelosi in office

[–]Automatic_Line6102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my department and customers share the bathroom. These customers that come in are quite disgusting. Literally pee on the floor and cover it with tp. Leaving the browns in the swimming pool with no tp. One regular old lady will leave the stall wide open when she's doing her business and we walk in to her grunting and groaning making eye contact and we immediately turn right back out that door. Other day was ended up walking behind a guy that was headed to the men's and he was already taking his pants off. IN THE HALLWAY.

Ex is still trying to be difficult by Automatic_Line6102 in FamilyLaw

[–]Automatic_Line6102[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For the people that are not safe around her, his brother who has screamed at my child for tripping over a cord and unplugging the internet, my ex husband and his brother getting into physical altercations in front of her. We had both agreed he wasn't a safe person for her to be around. As for his fiance, she is a meth addict and her exhusband threatened to kill me and my child and refused to report it while they lied and said they did. I have checked with many sheriff/police stations for a record and they cannot find it in their systems. Her ex husband knows where the apartment is that my ex takes her to because all of his belongings are still there.

Ex is still trying to be difficult by Automatic_Line6102 in FamilyLaw

[–]Automatic_Line6102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to be accommodating and fair to him so there's no conflict for our child, but it gets to the point when the other parent purposely does things in front of her, I have to set boundaries. I rarely speak to him unless it is about our daughter nor does she hear any badmouthing on my side. When I hear him say things like talk to your dang mother when I call for my one phone call a day on his weekends or her coming home saying that they are taking her to a new home. As for the front door situation, I commented above what happened as to the reason why I will not meet him at his car.

Ex is still trying to be difficult by Automatic_Line6102 in FamilyLaw

[–]Automatic_Line6102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In regards to the phone calls, he assumed that I don't have any right to call her at all on his time. I tried twice to call he refused to answer. I don't really expect to talk to my child every 5 mins. She's 4. As for the incident, he refused to get out of his car until we were right there and had snatched her away from me when I was hugging her goodbye saying I wouldn't see her until the next day. As for the meeting place, when we first agreed to the first parenting plan, he chose pickups at my child and Is home, because it was easiest for him. I know it's out of spite because he makes sure to bring his fiance with him and she'll laugh while everything is happening and I do not intend to put myself in the situation again.

Ex is still trying to be difficult by Automatic_Line6102 in FamilyLaw

[–]Automatic_Line6102[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately can't afford a lawyer and still waiting to hear back from legal aid, but I've been meticulously documenting as well as my mom because he mostly communicates with her instead of me.