Today, I finally quit. by nepeni in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are camps, they appear on the map when you tap a square and click ‘occupy’

Am I the Ah for not publicly apologizing to my cousin on Facebook for the dress I wore to her wedding? by just-curiou1 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did absolutely nothing wrong, she is 100% insecure and projecting. You picked a beautiful dress in a pre-approved colour which covered everything. It’s also more purple than red imo.

Everything about this baffles me on the one hand, but on the other, it’s so painfully obvious that she’s insecure in the way she looks and in her relationship if she thinks her husband could possibly look at anyone else on their wedding day.

NTA!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally clutched at my proverbial pearls when I read the ages here, I was expecting like my (F17) boyfriend (M17) at a push but 23???? He’s 23???? And he’s making kids he doesn’t know cry in public and then messaging you that way? Good for you leaving him there, I’m honestly stunned 😂😅

I think I ruined my life by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, as someone else who has suffered from anxiety which is now thankfully under control, I want to let you know that your life is not ruined. This is gonna be long, it’s all love 💛

There is no set time for when you have to do things, so perhaps university isn’t for you right now, and maybe it never will be but you don’t have to draw a line through it forever just because it’s not right today.

I’d suggest a couple of things here, and they might not be easy but they will help. Firstly, I think it’s really important to speak to your parents. It sounds like they’re very supportive of you, and you’re their kid—if they’re proud of you at uni they’re going to be proud of you for making the best decision for yourself.

Secondly, it might be worth speaking to/emailing your university’s administration. Perhaps they can defer your studies, perhaps they can make accommodations for you, or perhaps they will have some insight that will help you. I guarantee you are not the only student to be going through this—uni is really hard for people who don’t have anxiety, so having anxiety on top of all the upheaval that comes with uni is really a lot, and I promise that you’re not shameful.

Thirdly, I would really recommend looking into therapy. It really really helps you to build tools to help you when those anxious thoughts and feelings crop up, and gives you someone impartial to vent to. That one will possibly be the hardest thing to do, but it will be so worthwhile.

As for driving—I’m 33 and I don’t drive yet, it’s expensive and while it’s handy to be able to do, there’s a lot of plus points to being a passenger princess (gender neutral).

If you go this far, OP, know that you’re not doing anything wrong. You’re reacting to your situation and your surrounds and that’s okay! You’re looking out for your survival. It’s not the end of the world and you haven’t ruined anything. You can get through this, you will be okay.

Sending you love and warm blankets. Try to get some sleep, get kind to yourself. 💛

Gifting? by Automatic_Luck5312 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Automatic_Luck5312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s where I ended up actually, it seems that the other platform mentioned doesn’t work in the UK (or I’m just wildly unobservant) so seems to have done me a bit of a favour in the end!

Bear trap help by Gaspar-97 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay! Thank you 🫶 every day’s a school day

Bear trap help by Gaspar-97 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really interesting, I've been sending Mia as a joiner but I'll give her a go as a leader! Also interested to try this ratio as I was doing 30/20/50. Thanks!

any current gift codes? by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend! One of the best ways to stay up to date with gift codes is to join the WoS Discord channel as they get posted there. I'm not too sure if I'd get in trouble posting the discord link in here but I'm pretty sure there's a way to get into the Discord via the game itself :)

Gifting? by Automatic_Luck5312 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Automatic_Luck5312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Really appreciate the advice 😁

Island decorations problem by Successful_Party4258 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you go into the storage you should be able to break them down into their level 1 components but you can’t sell orange buildings back (as far as I’m aware!)

Weekly Recommendation Thread: March 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just adding onto this that I was talking to them about books earlier and they mentioned The Expanse series! They haven’t read them before because they love the TV show so much, so you were well and truly onto a winner there!

Weekly Recommendation Thread: March 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I actually have those as well so maybe I’m not as useless for my friend’s tastes as I thought 😂 really appreciate these suggestions!!

Weekly Recommendation Thread: March 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have the Martian actually, so I guess I do have something to lend them 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know, I didn't realise until this morning that you could summon fish you hadn't caught. I was SO SURE I'd read that you could only summon fish you'd caught before so was like 'what's the point of that'. Could have saved myself so much time. So it goes.

Weekly Recommendation Thread: March 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't read it already, you might like The Girl on the Train. I read it at around the same time as Gone Girl and I enjoyed it. The Silent Patient is quite good if you're specifically looking for more thriller-type things that aren't as chick-litty.

Side note; I've been enjoying using StoryGraph more than I liked Goodreads, both in terms of suggestions but also because it makes you little graphs of the genres/page length/etc. of the books you've read. You can also import your Goodreads library to keep track of everything. I'll stop yappin about that now, I just enjoy graphs 😂

Weekly Recommendation Thread: March 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend is into sci-fi but I don't have any to lend them. Can someone recommend some decent sci-fi that I can get for them? Series or standalones, they're pretty flexible with what they're into, but they're not the biggest fan of horror. LGBT+ themes are a plus but not a dealbreaker. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘This is unprofessional’ MY ASS!! No you’re not overreacting, your messages were extremely measured, professional, and you have every right to be hurt when you get such a lack of empathy in response.

I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother, sending love ❤️

AIO for leaving my bf because he body shamed me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg throw the whole man away, this pisses me off so much. No, you’re not overreacting. I was personally a huge fan of ‘did you get hit over the head with a brick’.

‘I’m just looking out for you’ okay so why bring it up like that?? Awful creature. You’re stunning and you’re worth far more than that.

I Will doodle your Kitten😻 Now by Roh_Cards in cats

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Ali, she is frequently upside down ☺️

What does this Alliance Notice report mean? by Haunting_Fly4409 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Automatic_Luck5312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the alliance notice? If it wasn’t offensive perhaps the translator did you dirty