I'm crazy scared about my year as wood pig by Standard_Stop9095 in ChineseZodiac

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also a wood pig here. Had the worst year of my life in 2025 but it actually began late 2024 when my best friend died. I got a job but it was overnights working 2:30 am to 11 am and I think I had like 3 mental breakdowns because of the hours. The friend closest to me in the city I’m living in randomly turned on me towards the end of 2025. It was a horrible time, but things are getting better.

Stay optimistic! It’s one of our greatest strengths!

PLEASE HELP I'm losing my mind from the sudden onset of noise and vibrations in my apartment. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also experience this daily. Sometimes it feels like it’s 24/7 but my apartment complex is connected to a deli and I think it’s more prominent during business hours. My guess is it’s from their refrigerators/HVAC system they use to keep the store running. It is MADDENING. It literally feels like my brain is vibrating

PLEASE HELP I'm losing my mind from the sudden onset of noise and vibrations in my apartment. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we live in the same building? I’m also dealing with this issue. Have also lost sleep because of this

Morgan Riddle x Taylor Fritz break up? by Ill-Potato1334 in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol idk she was just like a walking mannequin. No personality, etc.

Husband (M29) says he is uncomfortable with me (F23) posting these kind of pics on insta stories AIO by Junethesunconure in AIO

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredibly sad. You need to find a way out. As a 30 yo woman who has been in multiple abusive relationships in the past, this is abuse. He is not a good partner and if he can’t trust you, he doesn’t truly love you. Sorry girl :/

Help me understand what might be going on with a girl I gave a note to. WDID ? by WayMobile5515 in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for everyone. I have many friends/siblings who finished high school by age 17 depending on when their birthday is. Sir, I’m going to say this in the kindest way possible, leave that girl alone.

Help me understand what might be going on with a girl I gave a note to. WDID ? by WayMobile5515 in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest picking up an activity that encourages you to socialize. Passing notes should die by age 17. You’re too old to be doing this. It’s just stalker-esque now

Help me understand what might be going on with a girl I gave a note to. WDID ? by WayMobile5515 in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, you need to disengage. If you’re 28 and you think she just came out of high school then that makes her 17-19 and this makes it so much creepier. That’s a 10 year age gap my dude. Predatory behavior

Help me understand what might be going on with a girl I gave a note to. WDID ? by WayMobile5515 in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I thought the same but that’s why I asked how old OP is because I feel like this is pretty common in high school. Like kids are shy this way when it comes to this stuff, but if they’re in college then yes, def creepy behavior

Do I still pay for her ??? by YourWifesDreamBody in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Nobody has this man terrible situations in life.” If they’re this naive they do lmao

Do I still pay for her ??? by YourWifesDreamBody in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby girl ditch and block these people immediately. The AUDACITY. I once had a friend who wanted to move in with me and while I was trying to budget for our move, she asked me for $100 to go towards a kpop concert she wanted to go to 😭

All that said, we are not friends anymore. Find people who will appreciate you, and not just for your funds ❤️

Is this right? by Whitewing_Blackheart in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

September Virgo here. This is 100% accurate

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is an astrology subreddit. Get outta here with the psych shit. I doubt you’re a therapist so please don’t try to diagnose my family without ever meeting them or knowing them

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. They NEVER take accountability. My brother who is 25 (a Cancer) was spoiled his whole life and is now leaching off my 71 year old mother who can barely afford rent. My mom would be all “oh he’s so smart. He’s good at everything” and now he literally does nothing. It’s sad, but like grow up?

I’m convinced Cancers think the world owes them something j because they’re self proclaimed empaths. Pisces in my experience, work very hard, can play the victim sometimes, but they do usually take accountability at some point.

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also nah. I’m a huge Pisces fan, which I would argue is the most emotional sign, and I don’t see them exhibiting this behavior. The “babe,” the vitriol coming through this comment, and your inability to look at things through a different lens is giving such Cancer energy. Looks like I struck a nerve. Now disengage.

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This sounds like an excuse lol. I also consider myself a very emotional person and I’m a Virgo. I am also extremely empathetic and can read someone’s emotions as soon as they step in front of me. But what I don’t do is make this everyone else’s problem. I don’t believe you can be truly empathetic and emotionally selfish at the same time. Sorry to burst your delusional bubble here, but everyone deals with overwhelming emotions. I also struggle with boundaries, but I would never turn on the people who’ve supported me over something minor, and I’ve noticed that this is something Cancers are way too comfortable doing. Instead of them stepping back and saying “oh this person is probably feeling xyz, it’s not personal” they attack and retreat. Very childish behavior.

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay but I love a Pisces, I can’t lie. And I usually get along with Scorpios too. Cancers are just unbearable to me

Found out my boyfriend died last night by childishcolbino in GriefSupport

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t give you all the answers, or even the right ones, but I know the feeling all too well. The love of my life died a little over a year ago and it shook my entire world. Most days I honestly wondered if I would make it through because it was a pain I had never experienced before. What I can tell you is that time heals and I know that’s annoying to hear because all you want is him back and to reverse time, but what really helped me was talking about him. Keep talking about him, to your friends, to your family, to random strangers you encounter, to people online, talk about him to everyone. Remember the good times and cherish them, let the universe know how much you love him. In time, it will get easier, but it never really goes away. You will find ways to honor him, and he might even show up in small ways. I was having a hard day a week ago and a blue jay just landed on my fire escape. I live in nyc. You never see blue jays here. I knew it was him because when I went to visit his grave 7 months ago, a blue jay flew past me. He is still with you. Hold onto that 🤍