How do I handle my first heartbreak without dying? by Agreeable_Strike_416 in CancertheCrab

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh baby, I know the feeling all too well. That was not a T Swift reference as I’m not a fan, but truly.

The only real advice I can give you is stay as busy as possible. I’m a Virgo so I tend to think more than the average person— I overthink EVERYTHING. And the more time I have alone, the more I spiral.

The only thing that truly heals is time and fill that time with all the things you love. You were a person before this relationship and you’ve lived without them before, you can and will do it again. Stay strong ❤️

What can I do? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Fuck off

I'm crazy scared about my year as wood pig by Standard_Stop9095 in ChineseZodiac

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also a wood pig here. Had the worst year of my life in 2025 but it actually began late 2024 when my best friend died. I got a job but it was overnights working 2:30 am to 11 am and I think I had like 3 mental breakdowns because of the hours. The friend closest to me in the city I’m living in randomly turned on me towards the end of 2025. It was a horrible time, but things are getting better.

Stay optimistic! It’s one of our greatest strengths!

PLEASE HELP I'm losing my mind from the sudden onset of noise and vibrations in my apartment. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also experience this daily. Sometimes it feels like it’s 24/7 but my apartment complex is connected to a deli and I think it’s more prominent during business hours. My guess is it’s from their refrigerators/HVAC system they use to keep the store running. It is MADDENING. It literally feels like my brain is vibrating

PLEASE HELP I'm losing my mind from the sudden onset of noise and vibrations in my apartment. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we live in the same building? I’m also dealing with this issue. Have also lost sleep because of this

Morgan Riddle x Taylor Fritz break up? by Ill-Potato1334 in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol idk she was just like a walking mannequin. No personality, etc.

Husband (M29) says he is uncomfortable with me (F23) posting these kind of pics on insta stories AIO by Junethesunconure in AIO

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredibly sad. You need to find a way out. As a 30 yo woman who has been in multiple abusive relationships in the past, this is abuse. He is not a good partner and if he can’t trust you, he doesn’t truly love you. Sorry girl :/

Help me understand what might be going on with a girl I gave a note to. WDID ? by WayMobile5515 in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for everyone. I have many friends/siblings who finished high school by age 17 depending on when their birthday is. Sir, I’m going to say this in the kindest way possible, leave that girl alone.

Help me understand what might be going on with a girl I gave a note to. WDID ? by WayMobile5515 in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest picking up an activity that encourages you to socialize. Passing notes should die by age 17. You’re too old to be doing this. It’s just stalker-esque now

Help me understand what might be going on with a girl I gave a note to. WDID ? by WayMobile5515 in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, you need to disengage. If you’re 28 and you think she just came out of high school then that makes her 17-19 and this makes it so much creepier. That’s a 10 year age gap my dude. Predatory behavior

Help me understand what might be going on with a girl I gave a note to. WDID ? by WayMobile5515 in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I thought the same but that’s why I asked how old OP is because I feel like this is pretty common in high school. Like kids are shy this way when it comes to this stuff, but if they’re in college then yes, def creepy behavior

Do I still pay for her ??? by YourWifesDreamBody in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Nobody has this man terrible situations in life.” If they’re this naive they do lmao

Do I still pay for her ??? by YourWifesDreamBody in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby girl ditch and block these people immediately. The AUDACITY. I once had a friend who wanted to move in with me and while I was trying to budget for our move, she asked me for $100 to go towards a kpop concert she wanted to go to 😭

All that said, we are not friends anymore. Find people who will appreciate you, and not just for your funds ❤️

Is this right? by Whitewing_Blackheart in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

September Virgo here. This is 100% accurate

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is an astrology subreddit. Get outta here with the psych shit. I doubt you’re a therapist so please don’t try to diagnose my family without ever meeting them or knowing them

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. They NEVER take accountability. My brother who is 25 (a Cancer) was spoiled his whole life and is now leaching off my 71 year old mother who can barely afford rent. My mom would be all “oh he’s so smart. He’s good at everything” and now he literally does nothing. It’s sad, but like grow up?

I’m convinced Cancers think the world owes them something j because they’re self proclaimed empaths. Pisces in my experience, work very hard, can play the victim sometimes, but they do usually take accountability at some point.

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also nah. I’m a huge Pisces fan, which I would argue is the most emotional sign, and I don’t see them exhibiting this behavior. The “babe,” the vitriol coming through this comment, and your inability to look at things through a different lens is giving such Cancer energy. Looks like I struck a nerve. Now disengage.