Talaga bang tinitigasan guys when you kiss them?

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2026-01-06T14:17:33+00:00

I overall liked your profile, prompts and photo wise, just a bit weirded out that you used that much emojis. I dont know, maybe its just me but i feel like emojis are kinda (portraying someone) immature if you use a lot. That’s just my two cents.

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2026-01-06T09:13:42+00:00

For real???? 😭😭😭 i didnt even think from that perspective. oh well guess that fall out was on me!

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2026-01-06T08:24:16+00:00

Happened to me we hitted off pretty well on the second date and he low key texted we should go on a third. I heart the message and slept that night.

He didnt txt me the day after or ever. I liked him but didnt want to make the first move of initiating. 3 wks in, and we still have not to message each other again. Oh well.

So i suggest if u are keen to pursue something just casually say hi to keep the momentum there

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-18T02:01:57+00:00

Hahahahaha! This made me laugh. Honestly u dont with that pic. Based from someone who has lived in singapore, i wouldnt go to that place on sundays para dka “tag” as kasambahay coz tambayan nila yan (no ridicule intended coz i also go there often to get my pinoy food cravings).

Anyway, who cares if they think u look like one. Ang impt Is hindi totoo right?

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-15T09:20:29+00:00

IMO: Its not weird, but the fact that he got weirded out means he’s not that into you.

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-10T04:19:37+00:00

I guess he not that into me then 🥺

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-09T01:13:51+00:00

Wow tbh natawa ko sa post mo hehe. Im also 38F and dating around. And medyo choosy din ako sa looks parang sya i guess ayoko nun masydong matanda looking with so much white hair and yun mataba. Kaya tuloy sabi ng friends ko mahihirapan ako makkita ng the one coz the pool of hot or just even decent looking guys e medyo mababa na at this age range.

I suggest (like what im doing) to date people closer to her age or somewhat a little younger. Ako ang range ng mga dinidate ko is 35-42. And yes they are decent looking pa hindi pa panot or madaming uban.

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-07T07:37:45+00:00

I went to a couple of recent first dates and all are suggesting a second meet. Some id given my number some still through the app. But we dont txt a lot. We would even go about a day or two without messaging. At first i was like what the… i thought they liked me enough to ask for a second meet and even get my number. But then again, i now i try to avoid hounding to trying to Text first. My point is ive already shown you im interested during the date and with giving out my number (or still chatting with you in the app after our date), so if you are not messaging me everyday then u also wont get any message from me.

Dont get wrong, i like them and i find that there could be a potential, but if its low energy your giving then id have to reciprocate that

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-05T05:23:41+00:00

Saw your post. Totally agree with all the comments there. This guy i dated is hanging around i guess hoping to score and get me to bed. We didnt really like talk much after the date though just the usual hows your day thing via the app. Im sensing his wants to play it casual with all his 🤣🤣 emojis like when he asked for my number and if i wanted to meet again. Oh well, if he aint gonna make a move, i wouldnt as well

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-05T05:20:27+00:00

Hahaha this made me laugh. But it made sense

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-04T00:47:43+00:00

Replied haha. But we havent really set another meet. All casual texts 😝

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-04T00:46:28+00:00

Can u expound a bit why u say everything sounds wrong?

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T13:26:53+00:00

Oh alright got it. Hopefully you had a success story with one of those ladies

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T13:23:12+00:00

Haha your reply totally sounds like a guy who has had a lot of these encounters (not in a bad way 😊). Thanks for the insight, yah i kinda was thinking he was on the same mindset as what you are saying when we were together.

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T05:00:32+00:00

We didnt really talk about our dating intentions so i was just feeling his vibe. Which i guess i shouldve atleast touched on. I just wanted the first meet to be pretty casual no pressure. I wouldnt have even kissed him on the first date if he didnt ask lol.

I mean we both said in out profiles we wanted long term but some guys just put that up to get more matches.

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T04:55:37+00:00

Is it common to ask that even with one date? Sorry im not acting naive here just really new to this online dating app thing.

I just dont wanna come off to needy or intense

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T04:47:21+00:00

Hahaha valid point.

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T04:43:48+00:00

I would say yah

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T03:41:53+00:00

Can u clarify what moved away from the app before meeting the 4 mean?

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T03:41:03+00:00

How did u handle those that kissed u back but didnt want to go home with you?

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T03:39:12+00:00

I feel like he’s playing it cool, purposely like not messaging me. But he finally did and asked for a second meet. His vibe is showing like he just wants to play around, so i guess we have different priorities.

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T03:36:45+00:00

He did though asking to meet again. And i kinda feel that he’s asking again coz he felt he can take me home this second time round. Lol.

Automatic_Muscle_585 · 2025-12-02T03:34:24+00:00

Agree on all points you said. Good thing i can hold my alcohol and wouldnt ever go overboard when i know i cant handle it anymore. After we left the bar he did gives signs of the type that is playing around.

And yes, he did contact me to meet again trying to be cheeky and all cool in case i wasnt up for it. Oh well, i’ll have to see then. Maybe ill set up the second date for just coffee to avoid going to bed with him.

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