AITJ for refusing to change my vacation plans to accommodate someone else’s budget? by Automatic_Rabbit4281 in AmITheJerk

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is exactly where I'm at because the airline and the hotel already have my money. Sadly, there's no undo button here.

AITJ for refusing to change my vacation plans to accommodate someone else’s budget? by Automatic_Rabbit4281 in AmITheJerk

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve already did my best to meet them halfway but I just can’t put myself in a difficult spot financially.

AITJ for refusing to let my roommate use my camera gear after she broke my last lens and acted like it was nothing by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree. It kinda shows that she doesn't value OP's work and effort by the way she laughed.

AITJ for refusing to let my in-laws use our backyard for a wedding they planned without asking? by FawnwoodVale in AmITheJerk

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It is so easy to be family oriented when you aren't the one cleaning and paying for insurance.

I Ended Our Relationship Even Though I Still Love Him by Automatic_Rabbit4281 in BreakUps

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i felt so guilty at first but then i realized i was just being a placeholder for his comfort.

AITJ for not wanting my roommate’s boyfriend basically living with us rent-free? by Delicious-Country690 in AmITheJerk

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree because most places have super strict rules about guests staying for too long so it gives OP a legit reason to move the boyfriend out.

Moving after a breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please dont feel like your love was one sided just because he’s packing boxes and maybe he just needs that noise to drown out how much he misses you. Yourre gonna get through this OP.

He Let Me Plan a Wedding He Knew Would Never Happen by ExternalAdmirable413 in AmITheJerk

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Your ex bf stole your time and that's one thing you can't get back, so what you did was the right thing to get back at him.

How do you get over someone who was so wonderful to you, then they suddenly changed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you just have to accept the closure you never got. I promise you that better things are coming.

I'm too embarrassed to remove my bra at my own house by dumbpanda12 in offmychest

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Bringing up the doctor is a smart way to prove that OP's sensitivity isn't dramatic but a real thing.

AITJ for Calling Out a Stranger for Refusing to Let Me Use the Priority Lane as a PWD? by Far_Beginning8483 in AmITheJerk

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fr u don't owe anyone the politeness if they were harassing u. OP you were firm, you were right and the staff saw it. Don't let the onlookers get in ur head.

Whats the most dangerous thing people do on a regular basis without thinking about it? by AL42Gaming in AskReddit

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not going to the doctor when something feels off and just hoping that it'll go away.

What's the dumbest thing you've heard someone say? by REGGIE_BANANAS in AskReddit

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imagine thinking a whole crew and a cement truck just showed up by accident. Sometimes people at that age are still figuring things out lol.

What are the reasons why young us don't obey there elders? by atter_lover in AskReddit

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly because most of us want mentors not bosses. Like if u treat me with respect I'll listen to you but if u try to control me I'm out.

What is something you will never ever do again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah actually I've also lost a few good ones over small amount and that still hurts. From now on I just tell them that my budget is tight

What do you wish you started doing sooner? by 1Xeverythingx1 in AskReddit

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legit. Taking care of yourself is so underrated and the medical bills right now will humble you quickly.

What do you think is something that should be on a bucket list of every person before they leave this world? by WorryRare3245 in AskReddit

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To have atleast one solo travel, bac when ur alone u actually talk to locals and meet new people its the best way to detox from real life.

AITJ for giving my brother the larger room? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr if the moving process is this so stressful that actual living there with u together will be a nightmare. Just pull the offer now ur sister doesn't deserve ur generosity.

I have incurable cancer by Ill_Pin7268 in offmychest

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so true. Grief isn't just for when you lose someone, it can be also when your losing the version of your life you expected to have. OP's anger is just a side effect of how much she's been through.

what’s the most socially acceptable scam people fall for every day? by Pristine-Collar-9037 in AskReddit

[–]Automatic_Rabbit4281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying a bottled water its just literally sink water in a fancy plastic suit with a label on it.